My boyfriend and fiancee of 4 years recently told me he needed some space to figure out what he wanted in life. Immediatley he starts seeing someone he works with and worse even living with her! I see him on a weekley basis now and talk to him everyday on the phone. he tells me he still loves me and yesterday told me he was still IN love with me. I am so confused. But my thing is I want him to fall head over heels madley and deeply back in love with me that he will want to take me back right away, or atleast realize what hes missing. because if you ask me he really downgraded himself with this new chick. But how am I going to sweep him away in love? HELPHow Am I Going To Make Him Fall Head Over Heals Back In Love With ME?
You cannot force anyone to fall in love with you. Either he does or he doesn't. It's that simple.How Am I Going To Make Him Fall Head Over Heals Back In Love With ME?
Tell him you just inherited a billion dollars from your grandfather, if that doesn't get him to love you, then nothing will.
Hurts like hell, doesn't it?
You won't be able to make him fall heads over heals with you by chasing him. It sounds like you need to be loved and you feel that it is him that will make you feel loved. You feel dependant on him for your happiness. Instead, it is you who are responsible for your own happiness.
The best way I know of to make someone be interested in you is for you to take care of yourself. You need to learn how to be yourself on your own and to take care of yourself on your own. Begin to learn who you are, what your values are, and what you want out of life. What are your goals and dreams? Start living them. Are you physically and emotionally/spiritually healthy? Work on that. Learn how to be at peace with yourself and follow your dreams. A person who knows who they are is more attractive than a needy person. Right now, he doesn't see you for who you are. You are a substitute for his mommy with benefits.
This boyfriend is tagging you along. He wants to play the field and string you along. This needs to stop and you need to let him go. You deserve more respect than this and need to be treated better than this. You have value and you are worthy of respect. Buy a few new clothes, continue to eat right, get plenty of sleep, and start following your goals and dreams. Find healthy friends for support. Stop calling him and quit being clingy to him.
He won't realize what he is missing if he thinks he can have you at a drop of a dime. He will need to prove himself, leave this other person, and work on himself before you should even consider him coming back to you. Do you want this type of person to be the father of your children? Will he ever be committed for the long term?
If he were really your fiance then he would have married you by now. Four years is a long time for him to be your fiance. He isn't really serious and he really needs to grow up. He wants to play the field and he's been playing the field way before moving in with this other person. He's been using you and now doesn't know what he wants to do because he wants sex from her and the emotional support from you. This is kind of wrong don't you think?
The best way to let him know what he lost is for you to let him go. Again, take care of yourself and start following your dreams and values. If you don't know what those are then now is a good time to discover who you are. Otherwise, the next guy who comes along will be the same as this guy. You deserve more than this.
Take care of yourself.
ask him out and wish 4 the best
He is not worth it. He was probably two-timing you all along. Wash that man right out of your hair!
Maybe you should try to make him jelous, because i think thats what he's trying to do to you.
Girl, don't waste your time! He's a playa! If he was really still in 鈾?with you, he would be back in your arms. I know, the truth stings. But, there it is.
start dating other guys and , don't wait by the hone..He left you for another woman and moved in with her, forget him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Make? Make!
You make him do nothing.
Do YOU like control freaks?
He has to want to be around you.
Charm, listening, and caring.
YOU want.
Hmmmmmmm...
you cant make someone fall in love with you...its up to the other person
he is a cheater and he fot what he wanted for as long as he wanted it. Now he is doing another as long as he can and will move on to the next and the next and so on. Are you willing to put up with that?
wow this sounds bad. just say well if your so ';in love'; with me then why arent you still with me? i dont like being the other girl to you. if he really loves you he'll pick you over this new chick!if he doesn't its not the end of the world cus it just means he's not your true love and that somewhere out there another guy is just waiting for you to walk into his life!good luck and hope it turns out well !
Look, the key to being loved is being able to love yourself before you'll be able to wholeheartedly love someone else. When you are at the stage of still trying to get people to love you, actaully your not ready to give the 100% dedication that it takes to keep a realtionship going. first things first. Good Luck
You cant make him fall in love with you. But you cand give him the space he need right now and be there for him if he needs you if he truely loves you and its ment to be he will come back. maybe he's just confused at the moment. Im very sorry to hear that and i hope i helped somewhat
Make him Jealous with a Fake boyfriend,he will coming running back,but if he is sensitive dont do it!
try putting two ornamental ducks near your front door. Clear a space in your Chester drawers for his under ware. leave him space for his toiletries in the bathroom. and once a week do some visualizations lying in bed. close your eyes and imagine a man, not him neccesaryly but a man. soon the fung sui will start to work and you'll have a man in your life soon.
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Well, you have three options here. #1 Find another guy and make him jealous.#2 Get over it and still find another guy. Or #3 Go shopping and get a tight tanktop, REALLY short and tight shorts, and some silver eyeshadow, pink lipgloss, and pink blush,
You can not ';make'; someone fall back in Love w/ u. You said he told you that he is in Love with you still. Someone that Loves someone would NOT put you through that. He needs to figure out what Love is. Your being a trooper about this because I would not be available to him as easy, so he does not get his cake and eat it to. Yes I would be hurt but I would be angry more than that. I think you should just let him know that you care but you refuse to have this kind of controversy in your life at this time because you are hurt. And let him know that your giving him the space he wanted, not being mean. And try your best to continue on your life.And what your absence does may help him decided he is losing someone who really cares. By all means be respectful, but just not so available to him. I wish ya Luck it must be hard.
Sweetheart, if he is living with someone else and telling you that he is still in love with you he is playing head games with two people. Sounds like he is being selfish wanting to have his cake and eat it to. Do you feel that poorly about yourself that you will let him walk all over you like that? You can't be a mat unless you lie down! There is a book called He's just not that into you. Read it and change your life and find someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated and then that will show him what he has lost. Stay strong and let him go and walk over someone else! your too good for him.
wow i see where he comeing from from what i read you act like your high and mighty your god gift to man i don't blame him at all i now need space after reading your post befor you can get him try comeing down to his world
You need to move on. He obviously is just not that into you. If he is LIVING with someone else what more do you need? Are you gonna wait on him forever? It was just not meant to be. Who knows maybe in a few years or a long time from now it could work out but he doesn't want to be with you right now. You just have to deal with it and forget about him. Why do you want to give him all the control? If he tells you he loves you again ask him ';why isn't he with you ?'; or ';you got a funny way of showing it.'; He will get the message that you don't want to listen to his crap. Don't be available and sit and wait for him to call. It sounds harsh but it is what's best for YOU. You can't just sit around wishing and hoping that one day he will fall deeply in love with you again. You can't wait and see what someone ELSE is going to do with YOUR life! I know this is hard to hear because I have been through some break ups and it is not easy. But you know deep down that this is right for you. I hope this helps.
It sounds like u love him. Let him go, as he will cheat on u. Thank God u did not marry him.......he would have been a life sentence or a divorce which no one needs. You may have a personal problem with rejection...which is common, get counselling if this is the case. When he tells u he is still in love with u, then why would he live with another girl. That's not love, he is stringing u along. You are too valuable to be mis-treated like that.
Blessings to u,
Daniel
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Deos it really hurt to you?
You should not like he anymore!!!!Because he say he love you but,he is not loving you!!!So forget he!!!!!!!!!!He is lie at you!!!!!!!!!
I am in your corner. To sweep him off his feet---wipe out the cash of all the accounts that are in both your names. Thats your money . Close all accounts--even the investments except for the IRA. Cancel the joint checking account and then cancel all credit cards. If he is living at her house --she can feed him. See an attorney to start garnishment of his pay check for your support and all the house hold expenses .. Close everything tomorrow --- beat him to the bank.
HE WILL DO IT TO YOU.
TRUST ME---JUST DO IT --GET CASH - YOU CAN BUY CERTIFIEID BANK CHECKS MADE IN YOUR NAME...
He might threaten you ---you go to the police file a violence report and get a RESTRAING ORDER.
Get him out of the house and get divorce papers filed immediately.
Tomorrow if you are tired --you should be ---lot of work for one day.
Forget all of this hokie love and emotion--survival of the most financially fit. Never let your friends hold the cash for safe keeping... You are an abused woman--get help after your divorce. Use his medical insurance or see your local bar tender and meet new new friends. Dating--use the personal adds on the computer---Yahoo Personals is wherer I found my Nancy I'll be 60 soon. Been divorced twice. Also, bought a motorcycle last year. Nancy (61) has her own bike and she said I would be a very loney man if I did not ride
Forgit him --if you have children keep the house make him pay for it.
Garnishment is temporary till you can get into see a judge for final disposition of the estate Five thousand dollars sounds like a fair correct amount every month ---HOWS THAT.
Good Luck
Jesus is watching over all of us. .
I'm so sorry to hear this. It sounds like this guy was messing around on you the whole time. Who knows what other women he's swooning with this love business. Get out and leave him alone.
4 years is a very long time, but cut your losses now. It's all for the best.
Thursday 28 October 2010
How do you make someone fall in love with you?
I have a boyfriend, and have been with him for a short period of time.. but how do I make him fall more in love with me?
We've liked eachother for 3 years and last week he asked me out,
I'm pretty sure his feels are very strong for me too, but everything that's been happening lately is too good to be true.. I just don't want to ever loose him :)
Basically how do I keep him coming back for more?
How can I make sure i'm going to be the only girl for him?How do you make someone fall in love with you?
be yourself, make him laugh, make him want more of you by keeping him on a chase. you cant really make people fall in love with you, if its meant to be, it will all fall into place.How do you make someone fall in love with you?
If you want him to come back for more. Don't give him too much. Make him earn what he deserves. I know that's a bit mean to say, but if he really likes you and he's earning what he deserves (kissing, dates, etc.) you'll fall in love with him. But be careful not to take advantage of him. At times make sure you treat him the same way back but not as much.
keep doing what your doing. he hasn't left yet. be yourself. let him know how you feel. he'll stick around if he really likes you and if he doesn't he's not the right guy for you
you can't make anyone love you, it just happens!
Very simple answer: You can't make someone love you. Just be yourself.
Unfortunately, you cannot 'make' anyone love you. Plain and simple. A person could be with someone for years and basically 'think' that they are in love and everything could come crumbling down around them. Life is like that, its a gamble. Sometimes, love is blind, right in front of our face and we may not see it. I think that is when, we simply blow our chances, and lose out. Just continue being happy with this person and enjoy each and every day with this person and let things fall where they may. If it is meant to be, it will be. If it is not, it won't. Simple as that. Don't, by any means, push the person, or you just might push the person away from you. Just take it day by day, and enjoy life.black hair styles
We've liked eachother for 3 years and last week he asked me out,
I'm pretty sure his feels are very strong for me too, but everything that's been happening lately is too good to be true.. I just don't want to ever loose him :)
Basically how do I keep him coming back for more?
How can I make sure i'm going to be the only girl for him?How do you make someone fall in love with you?
be yourself, make him laugh, make him want more of you by keeping him on a chase. you cant really make people fall in love with you, if its meant to be, it will all fall into place.How do you make someone fall in love with you?
If you want him to come back for more. Don't give him too much. Make him earn what he deserves. I know that's a bit mean to say, but if he really likes you and he's earning what he deserves (kissing, dates, etc.) you'll fall in love with him. But be careful not to take advantage of him. At times make sure you treat him the same way back but not as much.
keep doing what your doing. he hasn't left yet. be yourself. let him know how you feel. he'll stick around if he really likes you and if he doesn't he's not the right guy for you
you can't make anyone love you, it just happens!
Very simple answer: You can't make someone love you. Just be yourself.
Unfortunately, you cannot 'make' anyone love you. Plain and simple. A person could be with someone for years and basically 'think' that they are in love and everything could come crumbling down around them. Life is like that, its a gamble. Sometimes, love is blind, right in front of our face and we may not see it. I think that is when, we simply blow our chances, and lose out. Just continue being happy with this person and enjoy each and every day with this person and let things fall where they may. If it is meant to be, it will be. If it is not, it won't. Simple as that. Don't, by any means, push the person, or you just might push the person away from you. Just take it day by day, and enjoy life.
What did your bf/gf, husband/wife, do to make you fall in love with them?
Well my [bf] ex, he made me laugh no matter what %26amp; i 鈾?to laugh so that's some of it %26amp; some other like how he wanted to see me %26amp; it didn't matter what time of the day or night.
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memories lolWhat did your bf/gf, husband/wife, do to make you fall in love with them?
Well....I met my boyfriend when neither of us wanted to be where we were. I was only fifteen at the time ( sixteen now ) and we hit it off. I wasn't looking for a boyfriend but I found something special in him I just couldn't put my finger on. We started dating three weeks after meeting and have been together ever since. He's my first REAL boyfriend and I wouldn't take back anything we've done together and I love him and will always love him no matter what happens to us as a couple.
To answer the question though...haha I got caught up in the memories....he was just there for me and that's all I needed to fall in love with him. He always proven to me that he's going to be there for me. I think when you look for love, you have a harder time finding it. I found love when I least expected it and I couldn't be any happier than I am. :)What did your bf/gf, husband/wife, do to make you fall in love with them?
She did this thing with her tongue. Sorta like a swirl.
And anal.
aw cute :D lol
was therefor me so much
My boyfriend was himself. Simple as that. I used to tell myself ';No, I'm not looking for anyone right now'; and then I met him randomly at work one day. And then I'd tell myself ';Okay, this probably isn't going anywhere'; and it did. And at first I'd tell myself ';Okay, I think I like him but I'm not ready to love him.'; and then it happened. And I realized he's the one for me and I loved him! :)
ummmm =]
memories lolWhat did your bf/gf, husband/wife, do to make you fall in love with them?
Well....I met my boyfriend when neither of us wanted to be where we were. I was only fifteen at the time ( sixteen now ) and we hit it off. I wasn't looking for a boyfriend but I found something special in him I just couldn't put my finger on. We started dating three weeks after meeting and have been together ever since. He's my first REAL boyfriend and I wouldn't take back anything we've done together and I love him and will always love him no matter what happens to us as a couple.
To answer the question though...haha I got caught up in the memories....he was just there for me and that's all I needed to fall in love with him. He always proven to me that he's going to be there for me. I think when you look for love, you have a harder time finding it. I found love when I least expected it and I couldn't be any happier than I am. :)What did your bf/gf, husband/wife, do to make you fall in love with them?
She did this thing with her tongue. Sorta like a swirl.
And anal.
aw cute :D lol
was therefor me so much
My boyfriend was himself. Simple as that. I used to tell myself ';No, I'm not looking for anyone right now'; and then I met him randomly at work one day. And then I'd tell myself ';Okay, this probably isn't going anywhere'; and it did. And at first I'd tell myself ';Okay, I think I like him but I'm not ready to love him.'; and then it happened. And I realized he's the one for me and I loved him! :)
How do i make my bf fall in love with me again?
its been 1 year of our relationship..and now its become pretty monotonous..the spark or charm which was there before seems to have gone..my bf does not call as frequently as he used 2 before,he doesn't always do what i tell him 2 do...he tries both but he does have problems..we have had fights before..but we appologised and stuff..thats ok..but its like he is bored of me..and sometimes even i feel like having an affair with some other guy..he takes me for granted..he knows i am there for him..he thinks he can do whatever he likes...please tell me how i can make him fall in love with me all over again...just like the 1st time it happened..i wanna arouse the same urgency in him as there was before...please help..thank youHow do i make my bf fall in love with me again?
Do the same thing he has done to you. Ignore him and he'll be intrigued! This will spark it all up. Let him miss you.How do i make my bf fall in love with me again?
make him jealous and become less available :)
Do the same thing he has done to you. Ignore him and he'll be intrigued! This will spark it all up. Let him miss you.How do i make my bf fall in love with me again?
make him jealous and become less available :)
How can you make your boyfriend of 3yrs fall in love over again?
My boyfriend and I was together for three years and he broke up with me because he said I didn't make him feel the way he use to feel when we first started dating. But he also said that he's not giving up on me and he need time, but he broke up with me on the 1st of march and the first two weeks i blew his phone up and called him everyday, now this past sunday i decided to give him real time, so until april the 2nd im not callin/txtin, or even go to his house (he live right right next door, lmao) but the reason why im giving until april 2nd is because we are goin on a date. when we first started dating we went to go to ';why did I get married'; that was our first movie together and on april the 2nd he agreed to go on a date to go see the 2nd movie ';why did i get married too'; so how much time is enough time for a man after 3yrs? and i really really really honestly truely love him sooooooooooooo much, so how do i make him fall in love with me again?How can you make your boyfriend of 3yrs fall in love over again?
show him a part of you he's never seen - even if he's seen EVERYTHING- show him that theres more to you than he already knows... make him WANT you hell make him NEED you flirt with him always act as if your still trying to get him to be with you ... FLIRT YOUR BUTT OFF!!!! even when your back together show him your the girl he's ';comfortable'; with %26amp; more WAY WAY more... but that dosen't always mean ';put out'; =) just show him what you can do %26amp; who u can be...
show him a part of you he's never seen - even if he's seen EVERYTHING- show him that theres more to you than he already knows... make him WANT you hell make him NEED you flirt with him always act as if your still trying to get him to be with you ... FLIRT YOUR BUTT OFF!!!! even when your back together show him your the girl he's ';comfortable'; with %26amp; more WAY WAY more... but that dosen't always mean ';put out'; =) just show him what you can do %26amp; who u can be...
How can i make a boy fall in love with me?
ok i go with this boy and we been together since December 11 of 2008 we go to the same school and we are 14 years old and so far everything been going a ok we call each other baby and we might have a little disagreement here and there but it only last for about 5 min. at the most but my point is one day why we were text i ask him wen was the last time he fell in love he told me never. I told him it feels good to be in love and to know that your mate really love you and i also said i was going to make him fall in love with me he said ok.......BUT HOWHow can i make a boy fall in love with me?
You can't actually MAKE him fall in love with you.. but flirt with him a lot and talk to him all the time.
You can't actually MAKE him fall in love with you.. but flirt with him a lot and talk to him all the time.
How do I make my best friend fall in love with me?
Hey guys,
I'm new to this and this is my first question. I've been dating this guy for a month and 2 days ago it was over. But then, I realised something. That this guy I dated, I used him to forget my best friend. I feel horrible. But mostly ashamed. Yet I decided to let go. But the thing is my best friend is the only guy I've actually loved. And i talked to him about it, and he told me : ';I like you alot really, but not in the love way. But it makes me sad seeing you like this. a lot, and I.. it's confusing';. What should I do? let it go? or try and make him fall in love with me? Other problem: he kinda likes this girl that looks a lot like me. we call each other twins. And we're really good friends, but she'd never go out with him.. And secondly he told me that he doesn't know for sure that we will never go out. I asked him: ''So I'm right. You will never love me'; and he answered ';I don't know'; HELP ! What should I do?
xoxo,
S.How do I make my best friend fall in love with me?
Remember you have to calm down. Chill, you JUST told him that you liked him and he NEEDS time to think i through. He can't give you an answer right there and now. And the thing about him liking a girl that looks like you, remember that not all guys go for the looks. She may look like you but you and her are two different people and she isn't you, so just because he likes her, doesn't necessarily mean that he likes her for the way she looks.
Think about it in his position, if someone asked you that he liked you, not your best friend, someone else and you just think of him as your friend what would think. You would think about the same thing and feel bad that you can't return his feelings back. You probably want to make things better but don't know how to without showing even a hint that you might have feelings. Sorry if this doesn't make sense.
Give him TIME, he NEEDS to think it through. Don't pressure him or else he might get irratated with you and move farther away from you. Give him some space and let him be.
THEN after some time has passed ( remember to give him a good amount of time to think things through, I recommend 2-3 weeks, i know it's long but you can't rush), then ask him again how he feels about you and what he's thinking about.
Don't force your feelings on him though, if you do decide to try and make him fall for you. I'm going to tell you now that if you decide to do this you will get hurt, I'll tell you this now. It's going to hurt and you have to accept the fact that you decided to choose to wait for him. Making him fall in love with you WILL take time and WILL make you wait.
If you want to make him fall for you, remember don't force feelings, and keep it cool. After he knows that you have feelings with him, don't ever make it awkward. Just pretend that you didn't even tell him in the first place. I know your worried that he might forget your feelings but he's your best friend, remember. Best friends are close. Just keep calm and stay cool.
I have other advice to tell you, but I'm afraid I'm running out of time to tell them to you. If you want to talk just email me. I'm not a guy so don't worry, it'll be between us girls.
babikrystalrose@yahoo.com
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u cant make anyone fall in love with u end of story
I'm new to this and this is my first question. I've been dating this guy for a month and 2 days ago it was over. But then, I realised something. That this guy I dated, I used him to forget my best friend. I feel horrible. But mostly ashamed. Yet I decided to let go. But the thing is my best friend is the only guy I've actually loved. And i talked to him about it, and he told me : ';I like you alot really, but not in the love way. But it makes me sad seeing you like this. a lot, and I.. it's confusing';. What should I do? let it go? or try and make him fall in love with me? Other problem: he kinda likes this girl that looks a lot like me. we call each other twins. And we're really good friends, but she'd never go out with him.. And secondly he told me that he doesn't know for sure that we will never go out. I asked him: ''So I'm right. You will never love me'; and he answered ';I don't know'; HELP ! What should I do?
xoxo,
S.How do I make my best friend fall in love with me?
Remember you have to calm down. Chill, you JUST told him that you liked him and he NEEDS time to think i through. He can't give you an answer right there and now. And the thing about him liking a girl that looks like you, remember that not all guys go for the looks. She may look like you but you and her are two different people and she isn't you, so just because he likes her, doesn't necessarily mean that he likes her for the way she looks.
Think about it in his position, if someone asked you that he liked you, not your best friend, someone else and you just think of him as your friend what would think. You would think about the same thing and feel bad that you can't return his feelings back. You probably want to make things better but don't know how to without showing even a hint that you might have feelings. Sorry if this doesn't make sense.
Give him TIME, he NEEDS to think it through. Don't pressure him or else he might get irratated with you and move farther away from you. Give him some space and let him be.
THEN after some time has passed ( remember to give him a good amount of time to think things through, I recommend 2-3 weeks, i know it's long but you can't rush), then ask him again how he feels about you and what he's thinking about.
Don't force your feelings on him though, if you do decide to try and make him fall for you. I'm going to tell you now that if you decide to do this you will get hurt, I'll tell you this now. It's going to hurt and you have to accept the fact that you decided to choose to wait for him. Making him fall in love with you WILL take time and WILL make you wait.
If you want to make him fall for you, remember don't force feelings, and keep it cool. After he knows that you have feelings with him, don't ever make it awkward. Just pretend that you didn't even tell him in the first place. I know your worried that he might forget your feelings but he's your best friend, remember. Best friends are close. Just keep calm and stay cool.
I have other advice to tell you, but I'm afraid I'm running out of time to tell them to you. If you want to talk just email me. I'm not a guy so don't worry, it'll be between us girls.
babikrystalrose@yahoo.com
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u cant make anyone fall in love with u end of story
How can you make yourself fall in love?
Its a case of ';when the wrong one loves you right';. He is completely the wrong guy for me, we have nothing in common therefore no ground for discussions. But he tries his best to make me happy and everybody tells me not to loose him. I dont love him. When he tries to be funny, he annoys me and when he tries to be sweet or romantic I find it very boring. I want to love him, I really really do. Because he is nice to me, I find myself being rude to the extent of being cruel. We are getting married by the end of the year and I am getting more desperate by the minute. How am i going to live with him when I cant spend thirty minutes with him on the phone? I tell myself that since he loves me its enough but I've realised it is not. And I really have no choice, I am going to get married to him, I cant break my family's heart or his family's heart either (he's my first cousin). His mother has been my mother since I lost mine. Everybody is so happy about it, we are the perfect couple. I would give anything to fall in love with him. So, Help!!!How can you make yourself fall in love?
You can't force love dear but I understand your situation: you have obligations and you don't want to hurt anyone.
But if you get married and it becomes worse and ends in divorce, you might end up in a worse situation.
I think that you should either
1-tell him about how you feel and maybe you can work this out together(who knows maybe by getting to know him just that little bit better, you might come to love him) or go to marriage counselor and ask for advice.
2- Marry him and bear it for the rest of your life.
3-break up with him gently.
the best option would be no.1.
But whatever you do, I wish you the best of luck.How can you make yourself fall in love?
You can't make yourself fall in love. If it was that easy to start and stop our feelings the ';Singles and Relationships'; section on yahoo answers would be empty. He's just not the one for you. Don't marry someone you don't love just to please the other people. You will be unhappy for the rest of your life.
you're not being fair to this guy. he deserves to be with someone who thinks the world of him, as do you. and, if you get married, its just going to make you miserable and cause more problems. break it off now before he gets hurt even more.
You shouldn't make yourself fall in love with someone. If you do that you will spend the whole rest of your life being unhappy. You should break up with him and be with someone you truly love. Being with someone you dont love is just a waste of time.
You can't make yourself fall in love.. It's just something that happens and you just go along with it. But you can help yourself fall in love. Just get close to the one whom you think is the right one.
First off you can't make yourself fall in love.
And second break up with that guy and wait for mister right!
you can't
You cant make yourself fall in love. Love just happens whether you want it or not, you cant choose
you cant force yourself to love someone.
YOU CANT LOVE HIM. If you don't love him now, you probably never will. He's just not your man.
then break up with him and wait for mr.Right
in that case,
it will be very very hard
even impossible
u know he is not the right one...
well it is not really fair to him if you don't love him, he deserves someone in his life that truly care and can't live without him. I loved someone so much before the problem was he never really loved me. That was not fair of him to waist so many years of my life. Marriage should be taken seriously as there are so many divorces. Be fair, don't you think he deserves someone who loves him all of him. How would you like it if you found the man of your dreams and you loved him so much and he never loved you back and you both were together for so long, don't you think you would be devastated. Think about it! It is better to break up now so you each have a chance to find true love then to put it off end up being bitter, spending thousands in fees to get divorced, possibly put children through it but especially passing up the opportunity to find the people you are truly supposed to be with.
if anyone tells you that you can't make yourself fall in love.. they are wrong!
i have made myself fall in love before. my last relationship acutally.
What i did is i showed how much i appreciated him caring, and i got to no him better through texting.. i eventually learned to love all his flaws and i gradually fell in love with him.
TIP: don't change who you are during this process.. or you will fall in love with him and he will fall out of love with you.. and you will end up being heartbroken by a guy you didn't even like to begin with.
best of luck %26lt;33
You can't force love dear but I understand your situation: you have obligations and you don't want to hurt anyone.
But if you get married and it becomes worse and ends in divorce, you might end up in a worse situation.
I think that you should either
1-tell him about how you feel and maybe you can work this out together(who knows maybe by getting to know him just that little bit better, you might come to love him) or go to marriage counselor and ask for advice.
2- Marry him and bear it for the rest of your life.
3-break up with him gently.
the best option would be no.1.
But whatever you do, I wish you the best of luck.How can you make yourself fall in love?
You can't make yourself fall in love. If it was that easy to start and stop our feelings the ';Singles and Relationships'; section on yahoo answers would be empty. He's just not the one for you. Don't marry someone you don't love just to please the other people. You will be unhappy for the rest of your life.
you're not being fair to this guy. he deserves to be with someone who thinks the world of him, as do you. and, if you get married, its just going to make you miserable and cause more problems. break it off now before he gets hurt even more.
You shouldn't make yourself fall in love with someone. If you do that you will spend the whole rest of your life being unhappy. You should break up with him and be with someone you truly love. Being with someone you dont love is just a waste of time.
You can't make yourself fall in love.. It's just something that happens and you just go along with it. But you can help yourself fall in love. Just get close to the one whom you think is the right one.
First off you can't make yourself fall in love.
And second break up with that guy and wait for mister right!
you can't
You cant make yourself fall in love. Love just happens whether you want it or not, you cant choose
you cant force yourself to love someone.
YOU CANT LOVE HIM. If you don't love him now, you probably never will. He's just not your man.
then break up with him and wait for mr.Right
in that case,
it will be very very hard
even impossible
u know he is not the right one...
well it is not really fair to him if you don't love him, he deserves someone in his life that truly care and can't live without him. I loved someone so much before the problem was he never really loved me. That was not fair of him to waist so many years of my life. Marriage should be taken seriously as there are so many divorces. Be fair, don't you think he deserves someone who loves him all of him. How would you like it if you found the man of your dreams and you loved him so much and he never loved you back and you both were together for so long, don't you think you would be devastated. Think about it! It is better to break up now so you each have a chance to find true love then to put it off end up being bitter, spending thousands in fees to get divorced, possibly put children through it but especially passing up the opportunity to find the people you are truly supposed to be with.
if anyone tells you that you can't make yourself fall in love.. they are wrong!
i have made myself fall in love before. my last relationship acutally.
What i did is i showed how much i appreciated him caring, and i got to no him better through texting.. i eventually learned to love all his flaws and i gradually fell in love with him.
TIP: don't change who you are during this process.. or you will fall in love with him and he will fall out of love with you.. and you will end up being heartbroken by a guy you didn't even like to begin with.
best of luck %26lt;33
';How To Make Men Fall in Love With You With a Poem'; or ';How to Lose your SugarDaddy';? Which title should I use?
I think I just ruined things with my beloved Lord Percy Fawcette-Smythe
(again)
cuz he found out I have
a couple new boyfriends.
(again)
The one is Boris the Russian commie ballerina man
I am in passionate lust with him even though
he calls me his little sweet ';babushka';
which means either grandmother
or headscarf.
The other one is my Pikey boyfriend whose name I don't know yet
cuz I can't make out what he says when he speaks
I'm in louvre with this one because he does odd jobs for me around the house
rather oddly, granted
(has more breaks than fine china put on spin cycle in your washing-machine would)
but he only charges me double, and not trippple, like most tradesmen
do.
Alas, both these fine specimens of foreign meat fell in love with me right here,
in the poetry section of yahoo answers
and it was as if I had cast a spell on them with my poems
but not really, cuz I hadn't, cuz I don't do magic well
I just write real swell
and they could tell
even though neither knows any English.
Now, if you too like looking for love in all the wrong places, and finding it,
write a poem!
Just a few tricks is all you need to know
Like if you really want to make men's hearts flutter with passion for you,
split up your sentences
like this
for
dramatic
effect.
They
love
it.
Also...you can use...... a lot of... dots.
Don't... know why .... this works, though...
Finally, mention an attribute of yours at least once in every poem you write.
Even if it is just in a subli-LARGEBREASTS-minal way.
And if you just want to piss off the other ladies who just write poetry just to
snag a pixel man just to cyber shag,
just the way I snag them
all
the
fricken
time,
just write ';just'; a lot when you write.
Drives them nuts.
*snicker*
Which title should I use? And did you hate it? Or have you fallen in love with me too?
Next poem, ';How to Make Men Fall Out of Love With you With a Poem'; or ';How to Get your Sugar Daddy Back In your Bed';...not sure about the title yet.';How To Make Men Fall in Love With You With a Poem'; or ';How to Lose your SugarDaddy';? Which title should I use?
I just killed a cop for you, my darling - so I can be with you.
I read your poem and it was so beautiful. I knew right away that you are THE ONE.
I took my wife's hand and told her gently: ';I don't love you. You're a bit rubbish. I'm leaving you.';
I was on such a high that I barely noticed her tears, but she called her parents and they came round to see what was wrong with her. I explained that I was in love with you and how wonderful you were - I even offered to make coffee. For some reason her Dad looked really angry and I thought for a minute he was going to hit me. It was then that he glanced at the monitor and saw your poem... and read it.
He says HE loves you, but he'll never be good enough for you.
While he was telling his wife of twenty-six years that it was over, the cops arrived. I think the neighbours must have called them. I didn't hear them at first - I was just thinking of us being together - but they must have read your poem (to me) over my shoulder.
They're lying b@st@rds. They just think they love you. And I KNOW you DON'T love them.
Anyway, it was while one of the cops was texting his boyfriend (he used to be gay) to say that it was over - that the other three of us beat him to death with a police baton, a chair leg, and a hardback volume on Tai Chi.
And we're now having a Mexican standoff in the lounge.
Fools! As if they could stand a chance with your affections...
Oop! Gotta go! We've agreed a temporary truce while we dispose of the armed response team.';How To Make Men Fall in Love With You With a Poem'; or ';How to Lose your SugarDaddy';? Which title should I use?
just call it
';The Poem';
I am torn
quite literally, I simply cannot choose,
sorry about he Lord Percy thing,
tell me does he have a deep, rumbling voice?
can he send tingles down my spine
oh never mind
I think
i should not be
engaging my mind
in that direction....
I can write that how to make men fall out of love with you.. I am an expert....
but I want to see how you do it first...
now, I really think I need to get some sleep,
I was stood up
and I am rankled or
is it wrinkled, now.. hmmm
You can't drive me nutz
cuz despite popular belief don't have any
an you really don't want to steer my rear
unless you are a bit queer
me dear butt you is all woman like big lady bear
so I'll only hug if I dare
zat kay?
Funny, I used the same tech-HUGEDONKEYPENIS-niques to stalk and trap wy wife.
Wow you have a plate of Russian Men why don't you send a couple up north to me as it's 22 degrees and i need a big strong Russian man to keep me warm' his english is not important ' as we won't be doing too much talking if you get my drift..lol As long as the new one doesn't make me wear them damn tin foil hats he makes to bed' we;ll be fine as they scratch up my face and hands and it smarts a lot..ps awesome poem and i would call it sugar daddy's delight.????
(again)
cuz he found out I have
a couple new boyfriends.
(again)
The one is Boris the Russian commie ballerina man
I am in passionate lust with him even though
he calls me his little sweet ';babushka';
which means either grandmother
or headscarf.
The other one is my Pikey boyfriend whose name I don't know yet
cuz I can't make out what he says when he speaks
I'm in louvre with this one because he does odd jobs for me around the house
rather oddly, granted
(has more breaks than fine china put on spin cycle in your washing-machine would)
but he only charges me double, and not trippple, like most tradesmen
do.
Alas, both these fine specimens of foreign meat fell in love with me right here,
in the poetry section of yahoo answers
and it was as if I had cast a spell on them with my poems
but not really, cuz I hadn't, cuz I don't do magic well
I just write real swell
and they could tell
even though neither knows any English.
Now, if you too like looking for love in all the wrong places, and finding it,
write a poem!
Just a few tricks is all you need to know
Like if you really want to make men's hearts flutter with passion for you,
split up your sentences
like this
for
dramatic
effect.
They
love
it.
Also...you can use...... a lot of... dots.
Don't... know why .... this works, though...
Finally, mention an attribute of yours at least once in every poem you write.
Even if it is just in a subli-LARGEBREASTS-minal way.
And if you just want to piss off the other ladies who just write poetry just to
snag a pixel man just to cyber shag,
just the way I snag them
all
the
fricken
time,
just write ';just'; a lot when you write.
Drives them nuts.
*snicker*
Which title should I use? And did you hate it? Or have you fallen in love with me too?
Next poem, ';How to Make Men Fall Out of Love With you With a Poem'; or ';How to Get your Sugar Daddy Back In your Bed';...not sure about the title yet.';How To Make Men Fall in Love With You With a Poem'; or ';How to Lose your SugarDaddy';? Which title should I use?
I just killed a cop for you, my darling - so I can be with you.
I read your poem and it was so beautiful. I knew right away that you are THE ONE.
I took my wife's hand and told her gently: ';I don't love you. You're a bit rubbish. I'm leaving you.';
I was on such a high that I barely noticed her tears, but she called her parents and they came round to see what was wrong with her. I explained that I was in love with you and how wonderful you were - I even offered to make coffee. For some reason her Dad looked really angry and I thought for a minute he was going to hit me. It was then that he glanced at the monitor and saw your poem... and read it.
He says HE loves you, but he'll never be good enough for you.
While he was telling his wife of twenty-six years that it was over, the cops arrived. I think the neighbours must have called them. I didn't hear them at first - I was just thinking of us being together - but they must have read your poem (to me) over my shoulder.
They're lying b@st@rds. They just think they love you. And I KNOW you DON'T love them.
Anyway, it was while one of the cops was texting his boyfriend (he used to be gay) to say that it was over - that the other three of us beat him to death with a police baton, a chair leg, and a hardback volume on Tai Chi.
And we're now having a Mexican standoff in the lounge.
Fools! As if they could stand a chance with your affections...
Oop! Gotta go! We've agreed a temporary truce while we dispose of the armed response team.';How To Make Men Fall in Love With You With a Poem'; or ';How to Lose your SugarDaddy';? Which title should I use?
just call it
';The Poem';
I am torn
quite literally, I simply cannot choose,
sorry about he Lord Percy thing,
tell me does he have a deep, rumbling voice?
can he send tingles down my spine
oh never mind
I think
i should not be
engaging my mind
in that direction....
I can write that how to make men fall out of love with you.. I am an expert....
but I want to see how you do it first...
now, I really think I need to get some sleep,
I was stood up
and I am rankled or
is it wrinkled, now.. hmmm
You can't drive me nutz
cuz despite popular belief don't have any
an you really don't want to steer my rear
unless you are a bit queer
me dear butt you is all woman like big lady bear
so I'll only hug if I dare
zat kay?
Funny, I used the same tech-HUGEDONKEYPENIS-niques to stalk and trap wy wife.
Wow you have a plate of Russian Men why don't you send a couple up north to me as it's 22 degrees and i need a big strong Russian man to keep me warm' his english is not important ' as we won't be doing too much talking if you get my drift..lol As long as the new one doesn't make me wear them damn tin foil hats he makes to bed' we;ll be fine as they scratch up my face and hands and it smarts a lot..ps awesome poem and i would call it sugar daddy's delight.????
Can you make yourself fall in love with someone?
Say if there's this nice guy who is so into you in every way, wants to make you his girl, calls/texts you often and makes plans, is sensitive, humorous, down-to-earth and has lots of things in common with you. How likely are you gonna give him a chance and try things out with him?
I'm in such a situation right now. He thinks that the both of us would be fantastic together. The thing is, while I do enjoy spending time with him and he makes me laugh, I just don't get the 'falling in love' feeling yet. He is happy to give me time and make my decision whether I can be his girl.
Girls, what would you do? Would you go for it and see what happens - like maybe you can/will fall in love with him later? Or would you NOT say yes to him until you wake up one morning and realise that you have feelings for him?
I'm so confused. I don't wanna say yes to him for the wrong reason, yet I'm aware that a guy like him might not wait around forever. What if I only like him as a........mate?! :(Can you make yourself fall in love with someone?
im not a girl but here i go
first off you Always need to remember that its all about you if you don't feel that you like him then y'all need to just be friend ok cause say you date the last thing you want is to hurt him and get his hopes up and it don't work out ok
and yes there my be a chance that you might fall in love with him but its better to be single then not happy trust me k because you gonna go out with him times going to go by and your not happy but you don't want to hurt him that's not goodCan you make yourself fall in love with someone?
Well, there's a big difference in being in love with someone and just having feelings for them. If you have feelings for him, why not pursue them? If you love him then this wouldn't be a question. But if you get into a relationship only to ';fall in love,'; it's going to come as more of a chore than a gift. There's nothing wrong with dating people. If you aren't in love with all of them, so what? If you are, good for you? Either way, don't base your decision of this guy on whether or not you're in love with him, because chances are, you aren't if you have to ask.
hmmm just hang out with him more often see where the feelings goes.. dont rush.. one day u will realise.... If u go ahead with him and in the end u have no feelings u just gonna hurt him... relex by staying friends u making ur choices and heart open...
I'm in such a situation right now. He thinks that the both of us would be fantastic together. The thing is, while I do enjoy spending time with him and he makes me laugh, I just don't get the 'falling in love' feeling yet. He is happy to give me time and make my decision whether I can be his girl.
Girls, what would you do? Would you go for it and see what happens - like maybe you can/will fall in love with him later? Or would you NOT say yes to him until you wake up one morning and realise that you have feelings for him?
I'm so confused. I don't wanna say yes to him for the wrong reason, yet I'm aware that a guy like him might not wait around forever. What if I only like him as a........mate?! :(Can you make yourself fall in love with someone?
im not a girl but here i go
first off you Always need to remember that its all about you if you don't feel that you like him then y'all need to just be friend ok cause say you date the last thing you want is to hurt him and get his hopes up and it don't work out ok
and yes there my be a chance that you might fall in love with him but its better to be single then not happy trust me k because you gonna go out with him times going to go by and your not happy but you don't want to hurt him that's not goodCan you make yourself fall in love with someone?
Well, there's a big difference in being in love with someone and just having feelings for them. If you have feelings for him, why not pursue them? If you love him then this wouldn't be a question. But if you get into a relationship only to ';fall in love,'; it's going to come as more of a chore than a gift. There's nothing wrong with dating people. If you aren't in love with all of them, so what? If you are, good for you? Either way, don't base your decision of this guy on whether or not you're in love with him, because chances are, you aren't if you have to ask.
hmmm just hang out with him more often see where the feelings goes.. dont rush.. one day u will realise.... If u go ahead with him and in the end u have no feelings u just gonna hurt him... relex by staying friends u making ur choices and heart open...
How do i make my boyfriend fall back in love with me? 10 POINTS TO ANYONE THAT HELPS?! pleassee?
well long story short me and my boyfriend have been having problems(arguments) for the past i would say two weeks. he told me that arguments were making him a little unhappy. and i told him that i will do everything i an to fix it. we havent argued since. but on sunday we were at church and i though everything was going great between us we were getting long well and we were having fun and i was making him laugh. but shortly after i got home he texted me and said that he was not happy where our relationship was at. he said it was beause we dont see eachother enough. we decided to take a 3 day break to think about things. but he texted me the next day and and said he couldnt wait that long. so we talked and he was like yeah lets give us one more shot to see if we can work out. but 5 minutes later he said well maybe we should just let go now. its been great with you blah blah blah i think its time just to move on. and then i called him and talked it out with him and we decided to give it another shot and that i have this week to make things work. we were good for about 2 days and then last night he was said ashley im going to be completely honest with you. i dont think we should do this were just like trying to be together again like the way it was but its never gonna happen. this came out of no where. so i called him again and we talked it out. he said he didnt love me anymore. he said he likes me enough to try to be with me though. he said he didnt feel the magic anymore. and he said that we have this weekend to try again. and he said that he doesnt know if he wants to be with me and that hes pretty muh just doing this for me..
well yeah how can i make him feel a connection, how can i make him fall in love with me again?
we have been going out for almost a year and we are both 15 years old. and last night we deided to pretty muh start over but he said hes going to have our problems in the back of his mind but hes not going to think about it. and we decided at the end of the weekend we will decide if we want to break up.
what can i do?
this is just breaking my heart. hes my first love and we have talked about getting married before. this all happened so suddenly and im still not exactly sure where all this came from
anyone have any tips?? pleasseee help me in any wayHow do i make my boyfriend fall back in love with me? 10 POINTS TO ANYONE THAT HELPS?! pleassee?
There’s no use beating yourself up over things that happened in the past. And there’s definitely no use in wasting so much time regretting your past decision to get together with your crush’s best friend. You can’t go back in time and change what happened, so the important thing now is to use that relationship to learn and grow, and realize it will help prepare you for your next romantic connection.
As far as the strong feelings you have for your crush, it definitely is a slippery slope because he’s felt hurt by you before and has already finished the process of “getting over you.” So in all fairness to him, don’t forge ahead unless you’re absolutely sure of your feelings.
In the case that you’re positive he’s what you want, I suggest writing him a letter.
Even if you choose not to actually give him this letter, just getting all your feelings out will be so cathartic for you. Tell him how you feel about him, why you know that he’s the one you want to be with, and how upset you are that you two aren’t together. Whether you decide to give it to him or not, be proud of yourself for being proactive in working through your feelings.
And should you give it to him, even if he decides he doesn’t feel the same way, continue to feel good about yourself for knowing that you were brave enough to speak your mind, stand behind your feelings and let him know just how special he is to you. And if he’s such a good guy, he will realize how wonderful you are and respect you for your courageous step.How do i make my boyfriend fall back in love with me? 10 POINTS TO ANYONE THAT HELPS?! pleassee?
talk-to-him about it. if he doesn't love you, there's barely a chance sorry. but the best way of helping is to talk to him. and don't back up!!!!!!!
you can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you sweetie.
bring back the old you then maybe he mite notice that u r different and he mite fall for u again
im not reading that..
because you can't make anyone do anything. especially if it deals with love. if you know what love it you'd understand its not something that can be turned on and off. it just happens.
Fulfill any of his sexual desires if you really want him back.
Hahaha, you can't make him. YOu're probably young, so go do something else and get over it. Wait until you have real problems like divorce or making the decision to marry someone. PLease.
just gonna take time, be yourself. have fun
honestly he knows he can have u whenever he wants. you sound pathetic to him and you being all ';ill do anything'; wont change it. i know i may sound like a huge ***** but honestly he will run back if you make him scared. it is the hardest thing to do but .. just tell him unless he can devote himself 100 percent then he cant have u and seem okay with that and leave him alone for a while...then he will come back , promise
15 is way too early to talk about getting married and apparently too young to realize that you can't make someone love you.
I feel for you, but the only thing you can do is move on. If you want this guy to fall back in love with you just live a better life, and get a new boyfriend. Then this guy will want you back, but you'll probably have something better
this is sooooo long i didnt read it! but if he has fallen out of love with u! then dont waste ur time trying to get him back! its hopeless! try to salvage a friendship!
You can't make him come back because chances are, he wants another girl. You have done everything you can except for one thing....MAKE HIM JEALOUS!!!
Give it time. Give him space to decide what he wants. Tell him how you feel and leave him to make his decision. You cant force someone to love you and do you really want to be with someone who doesnt?
wow that hurts
but i think you should let him what to do like the whole day pretty much and then maybe an hour or two before he has to go or w/e u should say that u love him and start kissing him and see where it goes...dont have sex...but at least kiss...at most make out with him
I hate to say this, but if he falls in out and of love with you every couple of days than it probably isn't going to work out long term.
But if you want to give it a last shot, make him supper, and spend your meal talking about what you both can do to try and work out the kinks between you. If he tells you he doesn't think it will work again, than you need to move on.
You are both young, and everyone has a first love. There will be others, you still have a long time to date and get to know other people and live your life.
Act like you are over him and you just wanna be friends. Guys always want what they don't think they can have. Maybe even talk to him about another guy you like since you are ';friends';. He should come around. Unless he has another girl he is interested in. Then you are giving him a easy way out and you can move on.
I guess I'm not getting 10 points. Sounds like he is playing games. Your relationship is definitely over.
Who is the other woman he is interested in??? I bet that is what is going on. And he is confused.
Either way get over him move on, sometimes men realize what they had once it is gone. Show him your not playing his game and get a life he will get jealous especially once you start dating. If it has no affect well your relationship is 100% over.
Good luck!
I suggest you fix your errors (if there were any) and tell him you cannot forget him ....
Or try making him like you again by turning yourself into a new girl (looks, personality...)
Even better but this is third choice, if he doesnt ever want you again, then slap him one tight one in the face and poor anything ovver him...
maybe you should just try to move on. it seems like he doesnt want to try it again and is giving you alot of excuses. i think the best thing for u is to try and move on.. your only 15.. trust me he wont be your only love.. why should you have to do everything to make him happy.. its a 2 way st. he should really try hard and it sems like he isnt..
good luck
Maybe you should let go then honey. It sounds terrible, and i'd be heartbroken if this was happening with me and my boyfriend, so i really feel bad for you. But you cant make someone love you, alls you can do is be someone worth loving. Try surround yourself with positive people and things, they do say time is the best healer.
Good luck, xxxx
ok look u buy him something nice for valintines day and then give him a kiss and tell him u like love him stil and u want him to fall back in love with ok
Take it slow! Tell him your feelings! Maybe ask him why he keeps mocking you like he is!?! it will help, it worked with me?!
This is a mistake that i've made a lot of times, so please llisten to what i'm saying and try it.
Stop talking for two weeks. When the tension is that high, you need to get away from eachother for a while. He will realize that he misses you and he'll think its mature of you. Eveerytime i've done that, it's worked.
wait two weeeks. wait two weeks. Don't talk, say you need space too. He will not meet another girl in that time. He is more likely to meet someone else if you ARE talking so dont irrationalize. Listen seriously. After the two weeks are done, call him and say you miss him and that you wanna meet for coffee and talk about the two of you. Dont specify where things are going/ whether your friends or dating... just be really sweet and pleasant. Meet for coffee and dont only mention it briefly no one really wants to talk about problems, talk about something pleasant - laugh a lot- flirt- it will remind him of why he fell in love with you in the first place. hell bring it up in conversation, let him bring it up- men like to be the ones to bring things up. I'll be suprised if he doesnt want you back.
Well, on one hand, you can never make someone fall in love with you. But on the other, it is possible to make someone interested in you again. As my Grandmother said, the way to a man's hart is throuth his stomach. Cook your man some good meals, and don't hover over him too much because desperate woman is not an attractive one. Another little secret, give him oral sex whenever he wants, and he will never want to trade you for another. Good luck!
honey, this boy is not worth your time. i realize what it's like to have a first love and think that you want to be with that person for the rest of your life, but the reality of it is, if he doesn't love you, he doesn't love you. and truthfully that means he's either bored with you or more interested in someone else. you are 15 years old hun, you have better things to be doing than waiting around for a guy who is stringing you along and making you jump through hoops. he doesn't sound nearly mature enough for a real relationship. try being friends for awhile, see if that changes anything. i don't mean to sound rude at all by the way, i know this situation totally sucks, i've been there. i dated a guy from when i was 14 to almost 16, and i thought we were made for each other and things were amazing. then we kept breaking up and getting back together and breaking up again. then he moved away, and last time i saw him (i was 18) he had a douchebag haircut and acted like a total dick. so i didn't really miss out on anything, did i? guys come and go hun, and i think you need to let this one go.
I'm sorry to tell you what you don't want to hear but there are a few major problems I see.
First is that no one can put a time limit, let alone such a short one, on ';making it work';. If your boyfriend were really into making it work he wouldn't put that kind of unrealistic pressure on YOU to make it all perfect in a day or over a weekend. That is not what love is or how it works.
Second is that you can not, ever, and I mean NEVER ';make someone fall in love with you';. It's not something you control. It sounds like it was fun but when things started to get difficult, as long term relationships always do and require effort, he just bailed out.
Also as much as it hurts, and feels like the end of the world, and feels like it means everything, you mentioned marriage even, you ARE only 15 years old and you have a long, long life ahead of you.
I am 35 years old and I am still only figuring out how to make a relationship work. It's a lifetime process.
I think you need to move on from him. He has said and done a lot of things that sound like he really is not making any effort and the longer you try to force it the more hurt you are going to get.
The most unappealing and unattractive thing to anyone (girl or boy) is when someone they don't love or want anymore is desperately trying to force it. You can not beg for love. You can not make someone love you. If he can't see why he should be with you, you are not going to conceive him, you will only push him away farther.
He is also only 15 and probably needs to be a kid in ways still, not to be ';tied'; down to such a serious relationship. He also probably doesn't know what he feels from day to day. Girls do tend to be much more mature at your age then boys.
I know it hurts and its not easy to just let go. But respect yourself and don't let him disrespect you either.
Stay strong honey, you will find love again.
You can't make him fall in love with. I'm sorry. He's trying to let you down easy, because he cares for you, but it will never be more than that.
He's been honest with you, which makes him a bigger man than most, and at 15, that's huge.
You said he's your first love. And that's exactly what he'll always be, your first. There will be a second, and third, and probably many more before you find the ';one';.
Take some time to let your heart heal, and set this boy free, so you can both be happy, you both deserve it. Then have fun. Meet new people, make new friends, and never settle for less than the best.
You'll always have your memories, and he'll always be special. But I promise you, there will be other types of special that you will hold just as dear.
My first love and I have become very good friends in the years that followed our relationship, now, 10 years later, he's a very good friend of my family, fiance and daughter. It took us a long time to figure out what exactly our roles were meant to be in each others lives, but I wouldn't trade what we have now for the world. I'm not saying there wasn't a lot of heart break along the way, because there was. But the heart is strong, and gets through.
So my tip to you is, invite your girlfriends over, chow down on some ice cream, chocolate, or what ever comfort food does it for you, and re-discover just how great friendship can be, because unlike young relationships, friendships are forever.
Aww...
Being that you guys are only 15, this should have been expected. You're both still so young, it's a lot easier for guys to feel like there's more out there for them and not except what's good in their life right now. It seems to me like he really wants to make things work, but he has his own problems. He's looking for a perfect relationship, which doesn't exist. He needs to realize that you guys are going to fight... but it's essential to every good relationship. If anything it means you guys care about eachother... anyway... I think he's trying for more than just you because no guy would do it just for the girl, especially if he ';doesn't love her anymore.';
I say just spend as much time as possible with him. Talk very little. When you do talk, talk about good memories and things you two did to make eachother smile. Kiss him and hug him and tell him how much you need him and how you'll do anything to make it work. Show how much you love him through actions more than words. Because actions do speak louder. That's the best way to tell someone you care and love them... not by saying it, but by showing it.
If you really love him, don't let him slip through your fingers, and if things don't work after that... then I guess you're just going to have to accept it.
I've been there before though, and I know how bad it hurts and how bad it will if it ends for good. Your first love never truely dies. But don't grieve too long, because somebody out there is dieing to talk to you and treat you like a princess, I promise! It'll be hard to let go, but worth it because what he's putting you through right now just isn't fair. It takes two to tango. So don't take all the blame. If the relationship fails it's not because you didn't try, it's because he didn't.
Best wishes hun! I'm here if you need to talk.
Hope this helped!
Just basing this off of your title.
You can't make anyone love you, if it's over then it's over and there is nothing you can do about it. Live your life and move on.
Okay so I can say i've been in your shoes before... and actually in the same situation without the breaking up and confessions. All I can tell you that you shouldn't act like someone or something you're not. You love him... So just keep that in mind. Show that you love him and totally discard the fact that you guys just had a crap load of fights. Don't bring up anything sad, be yourself and just start fresh. The ';Today is today, and yesterday already happened and is in the past'; attitude. It's a new day, act that way. Talk about your day ask about his... Don't show the pain you're actually feeling. Just have fun with him, I mean a couple passionate kisses make knock some sense into him. Do something you guys both enjoy, and let what needs to happen happen. Don't force anything. But please don't forget to be yourself. You wouldn't want him to love you for someone you aren't.
well yeah how can i make him feel a connection, how can i make him fall in love with me again?
we have been going out for almost a year and we are both 15 years old. and last night we deided to pretty muh start over but he said hes going to have our problems in the back of his mind but hes not going to think about it. and we decided at the end of the weekend we will decide if we want to break up.
what can i do?
this is just breaking my heart. hes my first love and we have talked about getting married before. this all happened so suddenly and im still not exactly sure where all this came from
anyone have any tips?? pleasseee help me in any wayHow do i make my boyfriend fall back in love with me? 10 POINTS TO ANYONE THAT HELPS?! pleassee?
There’s no use beating yourself up over things that happened in the past. And there’s definitely no use in wasting so much time regretting your past decision to get together with your crush’s best friend. You can’t go back in time and change what happened, so the important thing now is to use that relationship to learn and grow, and realize it will help prepare you for your next romantic connection.
As far as the strong feelings you have for your crush, it definitely is a slippery slope because he’s felt hurt by you before and has already finished the process of “getting over you.” So in all fairness to him, don’t forge ahead unless you’re absolutely sure of your feelings.
In the case that you’re positive he’s what you want, I suggest writing him a letter.
Even if you choose not to actually give him this letter, just getting all your feelings out will be so cathartic for you. Tell him how you feel about him, why you know that he’s the one you want to be with, and how upset you are that you two aren’t together. Whether you decide to give it to him or not, be proud of yourself for being proactive in working through your feelings.
And should you give it to him, even if he decides he doesn’t feel the same way, continue to feel good about yourself for knowing that you were brave enough to speak your mind, stand behind your feelings and let him know just how special he is to you. And if he’s such a good guy, he will realize how wonderful you are and respect you for your courageous step.How do i make my boyfriend fall back in love with me? 10 POINTS TO ANYONE THAT HELPS?! pleassee?
talk-to-him about it. if he doesn't love you, there's barely a chance sorry. but the best way of helping is to talk to him. and don't back up!!!!!!!
you can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you sweetie.
bring back the old you then maybe he mite notice that u r different and he mite fall for u again
im not reading that..
because you can't make anyone do anything. especially if it deals with love. if you know what love it you'd understand its not something that can be turned on and off. it just happens.
Fulfill any of his sexual desires if you really want him back.
Hahaha, you can't make him. YOu're probably young, so go do something else and get over it. Wait until you have real problems like divorce or making the decision to marry someone. PLease.
just gonna take time, be yourself. have fun
honestly he knows he can have u whenever he wants. you sound pathetic to him and you being all ';ill do anything'; wont change it. i know i may sound like a huge ***** but honestly he will run back if you make him scared. it is the hardest thing to do but .. just tell him unless he can devote himself 100 percent then he cant have u and seem okay with that and leave him alone for a while...then he will come back , promise
15 is way too early to talk about getting married and apparently too young to realize that you can't make someone love you.
I feel for you, but the only thing you can do is move on. If you want this guy to fall back in love with you just live a better life, and get a new boyfriend. Then this guy will want you back, but you'll probably have something better
this is sooooo long i didnt read it! but if he has fallen out of love with u! then dont waste ur time trying to get him back! its hopeless! try to salvage a friendship!
You can't make him come back because chances are, he wants another girl. You have done everything you can except for one thing....MAKE HIM JEALOUS!!!
Give it time. Give him space to decide what he wants. Tell him how you feel and leave him to make his decision. You cant force someone to love you and do you really want to be with someone who doesnt?
wow that hurts
but i think you should let him what to do like the whole day pretty much and then maybe an hour or two before he has to go or w/e u should say that u love him and start kissing him and see where it goes...dont have sex...but at least kiss...at most make out with him
I hate to say this, but if he falls in out and of love with you every couple of days than it probably isn't going to work out long term.
But if you want to give it a last shot, make him supper, and spend your meal talking about what you both can do to try and work out the kinks between you. If he tells you he doesn't think it will work again, than you need to move on.
You are both young, and everyone has a first love. There will be others, you still have a long time to date and get to know other people and live your life.
Act like you are over him and you just wanna be friends. Guys always want what they don't think they can have. Maybe even talk to him about another guy you like since you are ';friends';. He should come around. Unless he has another girl he is interested in. Then you are giving him a easy way out and you can move on.
I guess I'm not getting 10 points. Sounds like he is playing games. Your relationship is definitely over.
Who is the other woman he is interested in??? I bet that is what is going on. And he is confused.
Either way get over him move on, sometimes men realize what they had once it is gone. Show him your not playing his game and get a life he will get jealous especially once you start dating. If it has no affect well your relationship is 100% over.
Good luck!
I suggest you fix your errors (if there were any) and tell him you cannot forget him ....
Or try making him like you again by turning yourself into a new girl (looks, personality...)
Even better but this is third choice, if he doesnt ever want you again, then slap him one tight one in the face and poor anything ovver him...
maybe you should just try to move on. it seems like he doesnt want to try it again and is giving you alot of excuses. i think the best thing for u is to try and move on.. your only 15.. trust me he wont be your only love.. why should you have to do everything to make him happy.. its a 2 way st. he should really try hard and it sems like he isnt..
good luck
Maybe you should let go then honey. It sounds terrible, and i'd be heartbroken if this was happening with me and my boyfriend, so i really feel bad for you. But you cant make someone love you, alls you can do is be someone worth loving. Try surround yourself with positive people and things, they do say time is the best healer.
Good luck, xxxx
ok look u buy him something nice for valintines day and then give him a kiss and tell him u like love him stil and u want him to fall back in love with ok
Take it slow! Tell him your feelings! Maybe ask him why he keeps mocking you like he is!?! it will help, it worked with me?!
This is a mistake that i've made a lot of times, so please llisten to what i'm saying and try it.
Stop talking for two weeks. When the tension is that high, you need to get away from eachother for a while. He will realize that he misses you and he'll think its mature of you. Eveerytime i've done that, it's worked.
wait two weeeks. wait two weeks. Don't talk, say you need space too. He will not meet another girl in that time. He is more likely to meet someone else if you ARE talking so dont irrationalize. Listen seriously. After the two weeks are done, call him and say you miss him and that you wanna meet for coffee and talk about the two of you. Dont specify where things are going/ whether your friends or dating... just be really sweet and pleasant. Meet for coffee and dont only mention it briefly no one really wants to talk about problems, talk about something pleasant - laugh a lot- flirt- it will remind him of why he fell in love with you in the first place. hell bring it up in conversation, let him bring it up- men like to be the ones to bring things up. I'll be suprised if he doesnt want you back.
Well, on one hand, you can never make someone fall in love with you. But on the other, it is possible to make someone interested in you again. As my Grandmother said, the way to a man's hart is throuth his stomach. Cook your man some good meals, and don't hover over him too much because desperate woman is not an attractive one. Another little secret, give him oral sex whenever he wants, and he will never want to trade you for another. Good luck!
honey, this boy is not worth your time. i realize what it's like to have a first love and think that you want to be with that person for the rest of your life, but the reality of it is, if he doesn't love you, he doesn't love you. and truthfully that means he's either bored with you or more interested in someone else. you are 15 years old hun, you have better things to be doing than waiting around for a guy who is stringing you along and making you jump through hoops. he doesn't sound nearly mature enough for a real relationship. try being friends for awhile, see if that changes anything. i don't mean to sound rude at all by the way, i know this situation totally sucks, i've been there. i dated a guy from when i was 14 to almost 16, and i thought we were made for each other and things were amazing. then we kept breaking up and getting back together and breaking up again. then he moved away, and last time i saw him (i was 18) he had a douchebag haircut and acted like a total dick. so i didn't really miss out on anything, did i? guys come and go hun, and i think you need to let this one go.
I'm sorry to tell you what you don't want to hear but there are a few major problems I see.
First is that no one can put a time limit, let alone such a short one, on ';making it work';. If your boyfriend were really into making it work he wouldn't put that kind of unrealistic pressure on YOU to make it all perfect in a day or over a weekend. That is not what love is or how it works.
Second is that you can not, ever, and I mean NEVER ';make someone fall in love with you';. It's not something you control. It sounds like it was fun but when things started to get difficult, as long term relationships always do and require effort, he just bailed out.
Also as much as it hurts, and feels like the end of the world, and feels like it means everything, you mentioned marriage even, you ARE only 15 years old and you have a long, long life ahead of you.
I am 35 years old and I am still only figuring out how to make a relationship work. It's a lifetime process.
I think you need to move on from him. He has said and done a lot of things that sound like he really is not making any effort and the longer you try to force it the more hurt you are going to get.
The most unappealing and unattractive thing to anyone (girl or boy) is when someone they don't love or want anymore is desperately trying to force it. You can not beg for love. You can not make someone love you. If he can't see why he should be with you, you are not going to conceive him, you will only push him away farther.
He is also only 15 and probably needs to be a kid in ways still, not to be ';tied'; down to such a serious relationship. He also probably doesn't know what he feels from day to day. Girls do tend to be much more mature at your age then boys.
I know it hurts and its not easy to just let go. But respect yourself and don't let him disrespect you either.
Stay strong honey, you will find love again.
You can't make him fall in love with. I'm sorry. He's trying to let you down easy, because he cares for you, but it will never be more than that.
He's been honest with you, which makes him a bigger man than most, and at 15, that's huge.
You said he's your first love. And that's exactly what he'll always be, your first. There will be a second, and third, and probably many more before you find the ';one';.
Take some time to let your heart heal, and set this boy free, so you can both be happy, you both deserve it. Then have fun. Meet new people, make new friends, and never settle for less than the best.
You'll always have your memories, and he'll always be special. But I promise you, there will be other types of special that you will hold just as dear.
My first love and I have become very good friends in the years that followed our relationship, now, 10 years later, he's a very good friend of my family, fiance and daughter. It took us a long time to figure out what exactly our roles were meant to be in each others lives, but I wouldn't trade what we have now for the world. I'm not saying there wasn't a lot of heart break along the way, because there was. But the heart is strong, and gets through.
So my tip to you is, invite your girlfriends over, chow down on some ice cream, chocolate, or what ever comfort food does it for you, and re-discover just how great friendship can be, because unlike young relationships, friendships are forever.
Aww...
Being that you guys are only 15, this should have been expected. You're both still so young, it's a lot easier for guys to feel like there's more out there for them and not except what's good in their life right now. It seems to me like he really wants to make things work, but he has his own problems. He's looking for a perfect relationship, which doesn't exist. He needs to realize that you guys are going to fight... but it's essential to every good relationship. If anything it means you guys care about eachother... anyway... I think he's trying for more than just you because no guy would do it just for the girl, especially if he ';doesn't love her anymore.';
I say just spend as much time as possible with him. Talk very little. When you do talk, talk about good memories and things you two did to make eachother smile. Kiss him and hug him and tell him how much you need him and how you'll do anything to make it work. Show how much you love him through actions more than words. Because actions do speak louder. That's the best way to tell someone you care and love them... not by saying it, but by showing it.
If you really love him, don't let him slip through your fingers, and if things don't work after that... then I guess you're just going to have to accept it.
I've been there before though, and I know how bad it hurts and how bad it will if it ends for good. Your first love never truely dies. But don't grieve too long, because somebody out there is dieing to talk to you and treat you like a princess, I promise! It'll be hard to let go, but worth it because what he's putting you through right now just isn't fair. It takes two to tango. So don't take all the blame. If the relationship fails it's not because you didn't try, it's because he didn't.
Best wishes hun! I'm here if you need to talk.
Hope this helped!
Just basing this off of your title.
You can't make anyone love you, if it's over then it's over and there is nothing you can do about it. Live your life and move on.
Okay so I can say i've been in your shoes before... and actually in the same situation without the breaking up and confessions. All I can tell you that you shouldn't act like someone or something you're not. You love him... So just keep that in mind. Show that you love him and totally discard the fact that you guys just had a crap load of fights. Don't bring up anything sad, be yourself and just start fresh. The ';Today is today, and yesterday already happened and is in the past'; attitude. It's a new day, act that way. Talk about your day ask about his... Don't show the pain you're actually feeling. Just have fun with him, I mean a couple passionate kisses make knock some sense into him. Do something you guys both enjoy, and let what needs to happen happen. Don't force anything. But please don't forget to be yourself. You wouldn't want him to love you for someone you aren't.
How can you make a guy fall in love with you?
i am in love with a guy.i think he likes me too.how can i make him fall in love with me and make the first move to ask me on a date.How can you make a guy fall in love with you?
YOU CAN'T MAKE SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU. YOU CAN SHOW HIM WHAT KIND OF PERSON YOU ARE AND HE HAS TO DECIDE IF HE LIKES YOU OR NOT.How can you make a guy fall in love with you?
you can't MAKE a guy fall in love with you...but you can encourage. Flirt around and see how he takes it first.
u can't. either he does,,or he doesn't
You can't. They have to love you to fall in love with you. Give it time, one day it will happen for you! =)
just be yourself and if that doesn't work then he isn't the one for you.
First you can not make anyone do anything, especially fall in love. You need to be yourself, be confident, and a little mysterious...that will draw your guy closer. Good luck
you can't make anyone fall in love with you ..they do or they don't...if you force it, it cannot be love
You can't make someone fall in love with you. Just be his friend and show him how compatible you guys are. Flirt and then maybe he'll get the picture and ask you out.
You can't make someone love you. They either do or they don't. If he does like you, he'll ask you out. If he doesn't, find a new love interest.
you can't make anyone fall in love with you. just ask him out yourself!! good luck!
you can't make anyone fall in love with you.
but generally as everyone goes on about 'be yourself'.
its good to make him laugh and just generally get close. see what happens.
You can't MAKE anyone fall in love with anyone.
If he hasn't noticed you, or doesn't realize how you feel, then it's time you made the first move.
You can't ';make'; anyone feel anything. That's up to them...if he likes you then it will take time for love to develop, after the two of you have spent time together.
If you want to spend time together, then you need may want to ask him out, if he doesn't seem inclined to ask you first. After a time of dating, perhaps love will develop (time will tell).
first off u cant make a guy fall in love with u love happens in its own way when its right. if u want to go out on a date maybe you should ask him and if hes intrested he will say yes. then go from there. hope i helped
You cant 'make' someone fall in love with you. Its either there or its not. How about you ask him out.. I bet he says yes :)
As a guy myself, let me start by saying you cannot force him to fall in love with you. You had better trust me on this one because any overly agressive attempt you make at it will, at best, make him fall in LUST for you. That's not what you want.
Flirt. It's that easy. Perhaps he's a little slower than most to pick up the signs. It will happen naturally if it's meant to be. But don't force it.
Happy hunting!
First of all the guy isn't going to be in love with you just because he asks you out on a date. Love takes time!!! And if you need to MAKE a guy fall in love with you...you got problems.
you cant MAKE him fall in love with you, and if you want him to like you for you, just be yourself. if you want to ask him out, just do it before someone else does, or he gets over you.
if he won't make a move you should because in the long road it will work i know that mine did.
morgie!
If you think he really loves you he will come just wait or if you cant you may go ahead and ask him for a date
In love you should drop the word '; EGO '; from ur list for a longlasting and true relationship.
First off you cannot make someone love you who does not have interest in you like that, in my opinion there's always a grand design and love is always reciprocated, you know nothing about him so chances are that you do not love him. So if I were I would find someone who I know a little something about because other wise you are wasting your time. You cannot make someone love you. So good luck with that! Move on to someone who notices you because if he doesn't notice you now than chances are that he will never notice you in the future no matter what you do. Good luck babe and you deserve so much better!
you can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you
Show a little skin just to him. Don't wear bra or panties and where button up the front tight tops and skirts. Let him have a peak every now and then. Wait until he comes to you.
YOU CAN'T MAKE SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU. YOU CAN SHOW HIM WHAT KIND OF PERSON YOU ARE AND HE HAS TO DECIDE IF HE LIKES YOU OR NOT.How can you make a guy fall in love with you?
you can't MAKE a guy fall in love with you...but you can encourage. Flirt around and see how he takes it first.
u can't. either he does,,or he doesn't
You can't. They have to love you to fall in love with you. Give it time, one day it will happen for you! =)
just be yourself and if that doesn't work then he isn't the one for you.
First you can not make anyone do anything, especially fall in love. You need to be yourself, be confident, and a little mysterious...that will draw your guy closer. Good luck
you can't make anyone fall in love with you ..they do or they don't...if you force it, it cannot be love
You can't make someone fall in love with you. Just be his friend and show him how compatible you guys are. Flirt and then maybe he'll get the picture and ask you out.
You can't make someone love you. They either do or they don't. If he does like you, he'll ask you out. If he doesn't, find a new love interest.
you can't make anyone fall in love with you. just ask him out yourself!! good luck!
you can't make anyone fall in love with you.
but generally as everyone goes on about 'be yourself'.
its good to make him laugh and just generally get close. see what happens.
You can't MAKE anyone fall in love with anyone.
If he hasn't noticed you, or doesn't realize how you feel, then it's time you made the first move.
You can't ';make'; anyone feel anything. That's up to them...if he likes you then it will take time for love to develop, after the two of you have spent time together.
If you want to spend time together, then you need may want to ask him out, if he doesn't seem inclined to ask you first. After a time of dating, perhaps love will develop (time will tell).
first off u cant make a guy fall in love with u love happens in its own way when its right. if u want to go out on a date maybe you should ask him and if hes intrested he will say yes. then go from there. hope i helped
You cant 'make' someone fall in love with you. Its either there or its not. How about you ask him out.. I bet he says yes :)
As a guy myself, let me start by saying you cannot force him to fall in love with you. You had better trust me on this one because any overly agressive attempt you make at it will, at best, make him fall in LUST for you. That's not what you want.
Flirt. It's that easy. Perhaps he's a little slower than most to pick up the signs. It will happen naturally if it's meant to be. But don't force it.
Happy hunting!
First of all the guy isn't going to be in love with you just because he asks you out on a date. Love takes time!!! And if you need to MAKE a guy fall in love with you...you got problems.
you cant MAKE him fall in love with you, and if you want him to like you for you, just be yourself. if you want to ask him out, just do it before someone else does, or he gets over you.
if he won't make a move you should because in the long road it will work i know that mine did.
morgie!
If you think he really loves you he will come just wait or if you cant you may go ahead and ask him for a date
In love you should drop the word '; EGO '; from ur list for a longlasting and true relationship.
First off you cannot make someone love you who does not have interest in you like that, in my opinion there's always a grand design and love is always reciprocated, you know nothing about him so chances are that you do not love him. So if I were I would find someone who I know a little something about because other wise you are wasting your time. You cannot make someone love you. So good luck with that! Move on to someone who notices you because if he doesn't notice you now than chances are that he will never notice you in the future no matter what you do. Good luck babe and you deserve so much better!
you can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you
Show a little skin just to him. Don't wear bra or panties and where button up the front tight tops and skirts. Let him have a peak every now and then. Wait until he comes to you.
How to make someone fall in love with you?
i am deeply in love with my ex-boyfriend. we still say we love eachother sometimez , but i dont think he's in love with me. i cant live without him and he's all i could EVER want. he's the best thing that has EVER happened to me. all i need is him and him forever. ANYWAY , lol , i dont think he loves me as much as i love him, so what can i say or what can i do to make him fall back in love with me? [ please dont say that i have to move on or if he doesnt love me then he's not the right one , or anything like that. AND DEFINATLEY DONT SAY YOU CANT MAKE SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU. i NEED him and i need a good answer ] so how can i make him fall back in love with me??How to make someone fall in love with you?
You can tell him exactly how you feel and tell him to give you one more chance and to start over. I was in the same situation like 2 months ago and I still kinda feel like that at the current moment.
Hope I helped! :)How to make someone fall in love with you?
You already know the answer if you can tell us what we can't say.....what you don't want to hear. So read what you wrote and you have your own answer.
You can tell him exactly how you feel and tell him to give you one more chance and to start over. I was in the same situation like 2 months ago and I still kinda feel like that at the current moment.
Hope I helped! :)How to make someone fall in love with you?
You already know the answer if you can tell us what we can't say.....what you don't want to hear. So read what you wrote and you have your own answer.
Can you make someone fall back in love with you?
Okay just a random question: My husband said he is not in love with me anymore that was the reason why he walked so easily, he told me that he is not in love with me no (he loves me but no IN love with me)more. He wants me to make him fall in love with me again, is that possible and how?Can you make someone fall back in love with you?
One can not effect free will. If we could, this world would be a much better place.Can you make someone fall back in love with you?
you can't make anyone do anything, including falling back in love with you......what he wants is wild sex
you can't make anybody fall in love with you. i believe that love is god's gift and if it's not meant to be, then you can't do anything about it.
www.marriagebuilders.com
Best site ever. People fall in and out of love all the time if they don't make the effort to stay in love.
Marriage is work, if you slack off, you lose your marriage. But it takes too and he also needs to put in the hours.
People say ';not IN love'; are really saying ';I want all the fun without any of the work';
Marriage vows are love honor and cherish, not BE IN love
Get yourself a copy of the book ';Proper Care %26amp; Feeding of Husbands'; if you want to get him to do whatever you want.
I don't think love can be ';forced'; or ';made to happen';. It either happens naturally, or it doesn't.
Sounds to me like your husband is a selfish man. He has said he ';loves you but is not IN LOVE with you';, which is a dumb excuse for him to justify his misbehaviour.
Don't fall into his trap and believe he's right, because he's not. What he is saying is meant to confuse you and to make you feel like it's YOUR fault, when that is not true. He is the one who feels differently about you; he is the one with the problem,not you.
I'd suggest you go to therapy so you can vent, and so you can deal with your feelings. (Chances are he has someone else on the side, and what he said to you is just a way of making you feel bad because he knows he is doing something wrong.)
I honestly think that I would be so pissed off at him for saying this that I would leave him immediatly. Or should I say that I would be so hurt from him saying this that I don't know how I would be able to get over it.
No. Go find someone who wouldn't ever say that to you again. Go find someone who loves you to begin with....
NO
No I don't think that can happen. I think your husband likes attention. I don't know you guys or your situation but I'm sort of going through what you are. I don't want to be with my husband anymore and he's TRYING to get everything back. You can't make anybody do what they don't want to do. Good luck.
Buy one sexy *** thong, thats all I can say.
I am currently in this same situation. My heart feels like it's been smashed into a million pieces. I also have a 7 mo baby with my husband too so I also think about the future and how if we split up what will happen. He doesn't want to go to counseling either. I am so hurt and I really don't want to leave my husband because we have been together for 5 years and it's not like you can just throw that away and forget about it. I wouldn't even know where to start if we split up. My husband told me that before we got married he told me that I was the one that he wanted to spend his entire life with. Now he's saying he doesn't know and that he loves me but he's not in love with me. He has no love for me you can just see how cold his heart is in his eyes. And I asked him what can I do? And he says he doesn't know..... :-(
I am not sure how to make him fall back in love with you. But I also do not think that it is your fault that he fell out of love with you in the first place. He must have just changed and the way he feels for you must have changed also.
I think that both of you need to attend some marriage counseling classes and just start dating again, go on romantic weekend getaways and a night to the movies and dinner at the park, do things like you used to when you first got together and that might spark things up again.
Good luck and I hope that everything works out for you and your man
One can not effect free will. If we could, this world would be a much better place.Can you make someone fall back in love with you?
you can't make anyone do anything, including falling back in love with you......what he wants is wild sex
you can't make anybody fall in love with you. i believe that love is god's gift and if it's not meant to be, then you can't do anything about it.
www.marriagebuilders.com
Best site ever. People fall in and out of love all the time if they don't make the effort to stay in love.
Marriage is work, if you slack off, you lose your marriage. But it takes too and he also needs to put in the hours.
People say ';not IN love'; are really saying ';I want all the fun without any of the work';
Marriage vows are love honor and cherish, not BE IN love
Get yourself a copy of the book ';Proper Care %26amp; Feeding of Husbands'; if you want to get him to do whatever you want.
I don't think love can be ';forced'; or ';made to happen';. It either happens naturally, or it doesn't.
Sounds to me like your husband is a selfish man. He has said he ';loves you but is not IN LOVE with you';, which is a dumb excuse for him to justify his misbehaviour.
Don't fall into his trap and believe he's right, because he's not. What he is saying is meant to confuse you and to make you feel like it's YOUR fault, when that is not true. He is the one who feels differently about you; he is the one with the problem,not you.
I'd suggest you go to therapy so you can vent, and so you can deal with your feelings. (Chances are he has someone else on the side, and what he said to you is just a way of making you feel bad because he knows he is doing something wrong.)
I honestly think that I would be so pissed off at him for saying this that I would leave him immediatly. Or should I say that I would be so hurt from him saying this that I don't know how I would be able to get over it.
No. Go find someone who wouldn't ever say that to you again. Go find someone who loves you to begin with....
NO
No I don't think that can happen. I think your husband likes attention. I don't know you guys or your situation but I'm sort of going through what you are. I don't want to be with my husband anymore and he's TRYING to get everything back. You can't make anybody do what they don't want to do. Good luck.
Buy one sexy *** thong, thats all I can say.
I am currently in this same situation. My heart feels like it's been smashed into a million pieces. I also have a 7 mo baby with my husband too so I also think about the future and how if we split up what will happen. He doesn't want to go to counseling either. I am so hurt and I really don't want to leave my husband because we have been together for 5 years and it's not like you can just throw that away and forget about it. I wouldn't even know where to start if we split up. My husband told me that before we got married he told me that I was the one that he wanted to spend his entire life with. Now he's saying he doesn't know and that he loves me but he's not in love with me. He has no love for me you can just see how cold his heart is in his eyes. And I asked him what can I do? And he says he doesn't know..... :-(
I am not sure how to make him fall back in love with you. But I also do not think that it is your fault that he fell out of love with you in the first place. He must have just changed and the way he feels for you must have changed also.
I think that both of you need to attend some marriage counseling classes and just start dating again, go on romantic weekend getaways and a night to the movies and dinner at the park, do things like you used to when you first got together and that might spark things up again.
Good luck and I hope that everything works out for you and your man
Is it fair to make someone fall in love with you, when you know you are going to die?
I met this guy, and we have been great friends ever since, i feel so great in his presence and he in mine. But i wasnt ready for a commitment, but things kinda worked out and we are in a relationship. And then he tells me he is a cancer patient,,,, i dont know wheter i am being selfish, but how cud he make me fall in love with him knowing .... i just dont know what to do, i cant live without him, it will kill me if something happens to him,, but , do u think what he did is right?,,, How will i live if something happens to him?,, Coz he is my whole life now.Is it fair to make someone fall in love with you, when you know you are going to die?
even he will never have the chance to make a difference in your future life because his days are numbered but you did because you gave him the gift of love before he leaves this earth. if you love him, you wil realize that this i s not the matter of wheter it is fair or not, but ultimately you loved him till the end and that you made such a huge difference i his life by giving him love when he needed it most...
i am not saying that it wil not hurt you, but you will recover... and you are being loved by a man who wishes he had the eternity with you. stay by him, support him. you'll find this love eventually the greatest yet you ever wil have.Is it fair to make someone fall in love with you, when you know you are going to die?
Well if you love him it doesnt matter, 2mar is never promised for anyone but knowing you met him and loved him is great
Either way... you are going to have to let him go at some point. Just figure out which will hurt more. Leaving now. Or waiting until he departs.
love and laugh all you can that is the best treatment
aww thats so sweet it remind me of a walk to remember he may not daie so you never know enjoy it while you can
i think he loved u too much to hide his feelings for u. u may be the only thing that brings happiness to him in times of need. he may survive and he may not, love is a reckless thing, are you prepared to take the chance?
Amazing question: Answer: It is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all.
Loving you may be the best thing that's happened to him.
it's not really selfish of him, he just wanted to know what love is.
Do you still love him knowing his problem?
I pray that he will recover and be completely freed of cancer.
it's not impossible.
I hope everything works out the best for you. I understand you are hurt, but don't take away his happiness unless it's just making you miserable.
How will you live? I think you're asking how will you not suffer... and the only way of avoiding it is a kind of detachment.
As Yoda says: ';Train yourself to let go of, everything you fear to lose.';
Yes, I think you are being very selfish. Has it ever occurred to you that this man is going to die and knows it. It is something that he may not want to share with many people unless he loves them. I don't think that he set out to make you fall in love with him, but since you have, he felt comfortable to tell you that he has cancer. You are already placing this man in his grave instead of having the fun the two of you should be trying to have with whatever time that he has left. I think that you should stand by him and stop thinking only about yourself. If you were to find out that you were going to die, how would you feel if someone had resentment toward you?
NO IT AINT WRONG ON WHAT HE DONE HE WAS PROBABLY AFFRAID OF RUNNING YOU OFF IF HE TOLD YOU HE HAD CANCER HE KNEW YOU HAD SOMETHING SPECIAL WITH YOU AND WANTED YOU TO LOVE HIM FOR WHO HE IS NOT FEEL SORRY FOR HIM GIVE HIM A BREAK AND I HOPE ALL GOES WELL WITH YOU BOTH YOU SEEM LIKE A WONDERFUL WOMAN GOD BLESS YOU AND HIM AND GOOD LUCK
Hi to UR question we can say thats 50% fair and 50% not fair .. either he should hve informed U abt that before or he should hve found someother girl like him, who is also in same condition.
i think you are the one being selfish. he is literally possibly dying-or struggling with death-and here you are using words like 'it will kill me if..' shape up! you say he feels so great in your presence? live up to that expectation that you gave him. what would you do if you were in his place? can you imagine how much more it killed him to tell you this?? and if you were him, would you want to see him run off and struggle with whether it was 'FAIR' that you made him fall in love with you?
do you think it's 'FAIR' what he's going through?
no-you must not-since you say you cannot live without him. my advice to you is, GET OVER thinking about things like 'is it fair that he made me fall in love with him' bla bla bla. ENJOY and CHERISH the rest of the time that you have with him.
and you know what? not all cancer patients die. it's a SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN FACT that LOVE and SUPPORT help cancer patients fight against their disease. you could be his angel! all you need to do is be there to make it better and easier for him..and God knows he needs that...you can't save everybody, but you can sure be considered a saint in their minds for trying.
good luck to you. how lucky for you both that you have found each other at such a critical time in your lives.
oh-and one last honest thought-we can't 'make' someone fall in love with us. love just happens. if you feel love-he did nothing to cause it by manipulating you. it's pure..and it just happens.
grasp it, enjoy it, love it.
i'll keep him in my prayers.
follow your heart, be with him im love and spirit. it might be that you end up with someone else , but since your both really good bodies, dont let him go without tasting what reall love is,,,,,,,
he needs you
I don't want to sound like a dick, but would you have honestly fallen for this guy if he had told you right off the bat?
I'm sure he didn't do it with the intent to lie or decieve you... maybe he just needed to be comfortable enough with you to tell you.
Don't let something like this deprive you of a single minute with this guy if you are truly in love with him... just go and be with him!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
When you first got together he probably didn't think he would fall in love with you the way he did, which is why he didn't come out right and tell you about his condition. I mean think about it if he did then you wouldn't be where you are today with him, you would have probably been scared off and never of have gotten the chance to know what it is to love someone the way you do with him.
Things could be worse, support him right now through this time, and love him unconditionally, he had his reasons for waiting this long...better to of have loved and lost than to of have never loved at all..we are all faced with certain things in life, and we have our callings maybe this is yours..to make a difference in a persons life..make him feel something he never thought he might get the chance to ....i know right now you are hurt and angry b/c he didn't tell you and now that you are in so deep you might lose him..but cherish each moment like it is your last...no one knows when they are going to go....and it makes no sense acting like he is already dead.
Good Luck!
a) you can not make some one fall in love
b) tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all
c)as other writer said no guarantees
he didn't make you fall in love with him. you fell in love with him. he didn't force you. i'm sorry that this happened to him and to you as well. he may not have been comfortable telling you something that personal before he knew you better.
are you sure he's going to die, many people beat it.
deal with this in what ever way you feel.
if you guys have this amazing connection then just enjoy the time that you have and make the most of it.
i wish the best of luck to you both and i hope you have as much time as possible.
if you really love him, you just have to take care of him and continue loving him. he maybe did'nt do that on purpose. he seems can't help falling in love with you too. or, it is also possible that he looks forward to being healthy someday.
i think he dont mean to do that to you.he was just falling in love with u and cant help it.i know u cant live without him now but u should make him happy since u know he's going to die.u love him right?make him happy.enjoy every second when u're with him.don't hurt him plz.u gotta be strong for u and him!!
lets look at what he has done. is it unfair for him to want to live and have love? NO. is it unfair that he wants to share his love with you? NO. is it unfair that he withheld this information from you knowing that you would have rejected him flat had he told you? NO. the only thing i can tell you is that he must care for you a lot to have told you the truth, knowing that you could use this as a reason to reject him. you have been given time together, no matter how short it is. enjoy it. your love may be what he needs to conquer his sickness. you have an opportunity to show what you're really made of in this one.
If we had the power to make someone love us, there wouldn't be any divorce or abuse ever!
I think you both met a need the other had, and obviously you were drawn to each other by simply being who you are.
If what you feel is love you have been given a precious gift. It is a precious gift to not only receive love, but also to share your love.
Give thanks for the special journey that you are taking and live in the moment. For truly that is all that we really have.
He probably never he would ever have someon to love andlove him, but as the song says, ';and there you were';.
Be happy!
Is he actually dying? You know it is possible to have cancer and not be dying.
Is it fair? well I guess that depends on if you believe that you would have been happier having never met him. If he had just found out yesterday would you still feel the same way?
Or you could also consider that maybe he didn't tell you because he thought you would freak and take off. Lots of people can't handle all the stuff that goes along with cancer. I lost the majority of my friends when I was taking care of my parents who had cancer. Plus everyone treats you differently once they know you're sick, maybe he just wanted one person to treat him like he was normal.
My mother knew she was dying but didn't tell me because to say it out loud would mean accepting that she would never get better. I wish she'd told me, but I also understand how ';I'm dying'; can be the hardest words to ever say.
There is no way anyone can make you fall in love with them. As adults we need to take responsibility for our own emotions. He is responsible for with holding relativly important information early on or ';lying by ommision';. Just because he is a cancer patient doesn't neccessarily mean he's gonna drop dead tomorrow either, so maybe it didn't seem pertinent to him. Being as you can't live without him, I have a hard time believing you would have been able to control your feelings for him even if you did know. My boyfriend was suddenly killed three years ago, he was my soulmate. How will you live if something happens to him? Very grateful for the precious time you did get to spend together, that's how. My gut feeling in your case, though is that this guy is using some emotional manipulation to control you, so try and look at the situation not consumed by the emotions of it. It's a huge distraction factor if you can get people very upset. Good Luck.......That that does not kill me, shall only make me stronger
WELL I THINK HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN STR8 UP WITH U FROM THE START IF HE KNEW HE WAS A CANCER PATIENT BUT ON THE OTHER HAND HE LOVES U AND U LOVE HIM..HE DIDNT MAKE U FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM ..IT JUST HAPPENED BC U CAN MAKE NO ONE LOVE YOU WHEN THEY DONT WANT TO AND WHEN THEY DONT FEEL THE SAME WAY BACK..I DONT THINK U R BEING SELFISH BUT U TOOK A COMMITMENT EVEN THOUGH U R NOT MARRIED TO HIM U SHULD STILL BE THERE FOR HIM BC THATS WHAT BEST FRIENDS DO ..BE THERE FOR U REGAURDLESS OF THE SITUATIONS TELLING U WHAT U NEED TO HEAR AND NOT WHAT U WANT TO HEAR. IF U DONT BE THERE FOR AND SOMETHING HAPPENS TO HIM THEN MOST LIKELY U WILL REGRET IT THEN IT JUST MIGHT ACTUALLY KILL U THEN.
even he will never have the chance to make a difference in your future life because his days are numbered but you did because you gave him the gift of love before he leaves this earth. if you love him, you wil realize that this i s not the matter of wheter it is fair or not, but ultimately you loved him till the end and that you made such a huge difference i his life by giving him love when he needed it most...
i am not saying that it wil not hurt you, but you will recover... and you are being loved by a man who wishes he had the eternity with you. stay by him, support him. you'll find this love eventually the greatest yet you ever wil have.Is it fair to make someone fall in love with you, when you know you are going to die?
Well if you love him it doesnt matter, 2mar is never promised for anyone but knowing you met him and loved him is great
Either way... you are going to have to let him go at some point. Just figure out which will hurt more. Leaving now. Or waiting until he departs.
love and laugh all you can that is the best treatment
aww thats so sweet it remind me of a walk to remember he may not daie so you never know enjoy it while you can
i think he loved u too much to hide his feelings for u. u may be the only thing that brings happiness to him in times of need. he may survive and he may not, love is a reckless thing, are you prepared to take the chance?
Amazing question: Answer: It is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all.
Loving you may be the best thing that's happened to him.
it's not really selfish of him, he just wanted to know what love is.
Do you still love him knowing his problem?
I pray that he will recover and be completely freed of cancer.
it's not impossible.
I hope everything works out the best for you. I understand you are hurt, but don't take away his happiness unless it's just making you miserable.
How will you live? I think you're asking how will you not suffer... and the only way of avoiding it is a kind of detachment.
As Yoda says: ';Train yourself to let go of, everything you fear to lose.';
Yes, I think you are being very selfish. Has it ever occurred to you that this man is going to die and knows it. It is something that he may not want to share with many people unless he loves them. I don't think that he set out to make you fall in love with him, but since you have, he felt comfortable to tell you that he has cancer. You are already placing this man in his grave instead of having the fun the two of you should be trying to have with whatever time that he has left. I think that you should stand by him and stop thinking only about yourself. If you were to find out that you were going to die, how would you feel if someone had resentment toward you?
NO IT AINT WRONG ON WHAT HE DONE HE WAS PROBABLY AFFRAID OF RUNNING YOU OFF IF HE TOLD YOU HE HAD CANCER HE KNEW YOU HAD SOMETHING SPECIAL WITH YOU AND WANTED YOU TO LOVE HIM FOR WHO HE IS NOT FEEL SORRY FOR HIM GIVE HIM A BREAK AND I HOPE ALL GOES WELL WITH YOU BOTH YOU SEEM LIKE A WONDERFUL WOMAN GOD BLESS YOU AND HIM AND GOOD LUCK
Hi to UR question we can say thats 50% fair and 50% not fair .. either he should hve informed U abt that before or he should hve found someother girl like him, who is also in same condition.
i think you are the one being selfish. he is literally possibly dying-or struggling with death-and here you are using words like 'it will kill me if..' shape up! you say he feels so great in your presence? live up to that expectation that you gave him. what would you do if you were in his place? can you imagine how much more it killed him to tell you this?? and if you were him, would you want to see him run off and struggle with whether it was 'FAIR' that you made him fall in love with you?
do you think it's 'FAIR' what he's going through?
no-you must not-since you say you cannot live without him. my advice to you is, GET OVER thinking about things like 'is it fair that he made me fall in love with him' bla bla bla. ENJOY and CHERISH the rest of the time that you have with him.
and you know what? not all cancer patients die. it's a SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN FACT that LOVE and SUPPORT help cancer patients fight against their disease. you could be his angel! all you need to do is be there to make it better and easier for him..and God knows he needs that...you can't save everybody, but you can sure be considered a saint in their minds for trying.
good luck to you. how lucky for you both that you have found each other at such a critical time in your lives.
oh-and one last honest thought-we can't 'make' someone fall in love with us. love just happens. if you feel love-he did nothing to cause it by manipulating you. it's pure..and it just happens.
grasp it, enjoy it, love it.
i'll keep him in my prayers.
follow your heart, be with him im love and spirit. it might be that you end up with someone else , but since your both really good bodies, dont let him go without tasting what reall love is,,,,,,,
he needs you
I don't want to sound like a dick, but would you have honestly fallen for this guy if he had told you right off the bat?
I'm sure he didn't do it with the intent to lie or decieve you... maybe he just needed to be comfortable enough with you to tell you.
Don't let something like this deprive you of a single minute with this guy if you are truly in love with him... just go and be with him!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
When you first got together he probably didn't think he would fall in love with you the way he did, which is why he didn't come out right and tell you about his condition. I mean think about it if he did then you wouldn't be where you are today with him, you would have probably been scared off and never of have gotten the chance to know what it is to love someone the way you do with him.
Things could be worse, support him right now through this time, and love him unconditionally, he had his reasons for waiting this long...better to of have loved and lost than to of have never loved at all..we are all faced with certain things in life, and we have our callings maybe this is yours..to make a difference in a persons life..make him feel something he never thought he might get the chance to ....i know right now you are hurt and angry b/c he didn't tell you and now that you are in so deep you might lose him..but cherish each moment like it is your last...no one knows when they are going to go....and it makes no sense acting like he is already dead.
Good Luck!
a) you can not make some one fall in love
b) tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all
c)as other writer said no guarantees
he didn't make you fall in love with him. you fell in love with him. he didn't force you. i'm sorry that this happened to him and to you as well. he may not have been comfortable telling you something that personal before he knew you better.
are you sure he's going to die, many people beat it.
deal with this in what ever way you feel.
if you guys have this amazing connection then just enjoy the time that you have and make the most of it.
i wish the best of luck to you both and i hope you have as much time as possible.
if you really love him, you just have to take care of him and continue loving him. he maybe did'nt do that on purpose. he seems can't help falling in love with you too. or, it is also possible that he looks forward to being healthy someday.
i think he dont mean to do that to you.he was just falling in love with u and cant help it.i know u cant live without him now but u should make him happy since u know he's going to die.u love him right?make him happy.enjoy every second when u're with him.don't hurt him plz.u gotta be strong for u and him!!
lets look at what he has done. is it unfair for him to want to live and have love? NO. is it unfair that he wants to share his love with you? NO. is it unfair that he withheld this information from you knowing that you would have rejected him flat had he told you? NO. the only thing i can tell you is that he must care for you a lot to have told you the truth, knowing that you could use this as a reason to reject him. you have been given time together, no matter how short it is. enjoy it. your love may be what he needs to conquer his sickness. you have an opportunity to show what you're really made of in this one.
If we had the power to make someone love us, there wouldn't be any divorce or abuse ever!
I think you both met a need the other had, and obviously you were drawn to each other by simply being who you are.
If what you feel is love you have been given a precious gift. It is a precious gift to not only receive love, but also to share your love.
Give thanks for the special journey that you are taking and live in the moment. For truly that is all that we really have.
He probably never he would ever have someon to love andlove him, but as the song says, ';and there you were';.
Be happy!
Is he actually dying? You know it is possible to have cancer and not be dying.
Is it fair? well I guess that depends on if you believe that you would have been happier having never met him. If he had just found out yesterday would you still feel the same way?
Or you could also consider that maybe he didn't tell you because he thought you would freak and take off. Lots of people can't handle all the stuff that goes along with cancer. I lost the majority of my friends when I was taking care of my parents who had cancer. Plus everyone treats you differently once they know you're sick, maybe he just wanted one person to treat him like he was normal.
My mother knew she was dying but didn't tell me because to say it out loud would mean accepting that she would never get better. I wish she'd told me, but I also understand how ';I'm dying'; can be the hardest words to ever say.
There is no way anyone can make you fall in love with them. As adults we need to take responsibility for our own emotions. He is responsible for with holding relativly important information early on or ';lying by ommision';. Just because he is a cancer patient doesn't neccessarily mean he's gonna drop dead tomorrow either, so maybe it didn't seem pertinent to him. Being as you can't live without him, I have a hard time believing you would have been able to control your feelings for him even if you did know. My boyfriend was suddenly killed three years ago, he was my soulmate. How will you live if something happens to him? Very grateful for the precious time you did get to spend together, that's how. My gut feeling in your case, though is that this guy is using some emotional manipulation to control you, so try and look at the situation not consumed by the emotions of it. It's a huge distraction factor if you can get people very upset. Good Luck.......That that does not kill me, shall only make me stronger
WELL I THINK HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN STR8 UP WITH U FROM THE START IF HE KNEW HE WAS A CANCER PATIENT BUT ON THE OTHER HAND HE LOVES U AND U LOVE HIM..HE DIDNT MAKE U FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM ..IT JUST HAPPENED BC U CAN MAKE NO ONE LOVE YOU WHEN THEY DONT WANT TO AND WHEN THEY DONT FEEL THE SAME WAY BACK..I DONT THINK U R BEING SELFISH BUT U TOOK A COMMITMENT EVEN THOUGH U R NOT MARRIED TO HIM U SHULD STILL BE THERE FOR HIM BC THATS WHAT BEST FRIENDS DO ..BE THERE FOR U REGAURDLESS OF THE SITUATIONS TELLING U WHAT U NEED TO HEAR AND NOT WHAT U WANT TO HEAR. IF U DONT BE THERE FOR AND SOMETHING HAPPENS TO HIM THEN MOST LIKELY U WILL REGRET IT THEN IT JUST MIGHT ACTUALLY KILL U THEN.
How to make my wife fall in love again??
we have been married 5 years...have a child...but last month we agreed to separate...i was all cool for this since i felt we had grown apart...but in the time we spent together after separating i had fallen back in love with the girl i kno...but she has already moved on to a guy that was a mutal freind of ours for many years...we still are staying together but she told me that they say i love you to each other already...i understand that i put my self in the situation....for years i took her for granted and she just wants happiness...but i tell her everyday that i will wait for her...and how much i love her we will be apart for the next 6 months cuz im my job....she still talks and texts that guy everyday she walks away when they do so i will not get hurt....i have been taking her out and trying to make up for all stuff i never did i kno that 2 weeks will not make up for 3 years of unhappiness buts its a start and i will not quit i just dont want her to get more serious with him.....they do not see each other cuz he is gone and lives in another state but what should i do and help??? thanks alot
How to make my wife fall in love again??
My wife told me the samething 7 months ago and it sucks man I know how you feel. But take care of yourself man go to the gym do something to keep you busy. If you want to talk email me Good luckHow to make my wife fall in love again??
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there is nothign you can do for this situaiton. well, you can make a serious conversation with her and tell her that you love her and you want her back and ask to come home again. but the problem is she falled in love someone else and she gives all her energ, thoguht, feeling, anything to him and in order to be with him. so if you beg her on your knees does it change anything ? will you be happier ? will your relaitonship save ? it hurts my heart even when writing, i dont know how you feel, i am sorry.. i cant see the light in this case. so you better move on, but i can guess that you still have hope. you shoudl analyse your own situation by yourself, and you will see. obviosuly she is doing NOTHING to save your relaitonship. tell me one thign which she efforts for you both ? it sounds she has already finished the relaitonship with you in her mind. i udnerstand how you feel but you better let her go. she wont mind when you are crying and suffering and thinkign what to do..
i think you sound such a nice person, i hope she will understand your worth one day.
Talk to her and tell her how much you love her. Once this is done leave her and do not answer her calls. If she Loves you she will be back . I just don't know if you will want her back because once you are finished being hurt you are going to get pissed. Good Luck
Aside from what you are doing already, do you really think you can do more? Once someone falls out of love its almost impossible to get it back. If not completely impossible.
My advise is to move on before you get really hurt.
what ever you were doing with her or acting with her do the oppisite!
How to make my wife fall in love again??
My wife told me the samething 7 months ago and it sucks man I know how you feel. But take care of yourself man go to the gym do something to keep you busy. If you want to talk email me Good luckHow to make my wife fall in love again??
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there is nothign you can do for this situaiton. well, you can make a serious conversation with her and tell her that you love her and you want her back and ask to come home again. but the problem is she falled in love someone else and she gives all her energ, thoguht, feeling, anything to him and in order to be with him. so if you beg her on your knees does it change anything ? will you be happier ? will your relaitonship save ? it hurts my heart even when writing, i dont know how you feel, i am sorry.. i cant see the light in this case. so you better move on, but i can guess that you still have hope. you shoudl analyse your own situation by yourself, and you will see. obviosuly she is doing NOTHING to save your relaitonship. tell me one thign which she efforts for you both ? it sounds she has already finished the relaitonship with you in her mind. i udnerstand how you feel but you better let her go. she wont mind when you are crying and suffering and thinkign what to do..
i think you sound such a nice person, i hope she will understand your worth one day.
Talk to her and tell her how much you love her. Once this is done leave her and do not answer her calls. If she Loves you she will be back . I just don't know if you will want her back because once you are finished being hurt you are going to get pissed. Good Luck
Aside from what you are doing already, do you really think you can do more? Once someone falls out of love its almost impossible to get it back. If not completely impossible.
My advise is to move on before you get really hurt.
what ever you were doing with her or acting with her do the oppisite!
How can you make a man fall in love you?
There's this man whom i just hear about but havent seen. I feel that i love him. He's a friend to my girl friend whom i stay with. He seems he has guts to see me and so I am. I have this strong feeling that he'll find me attractive and something will happen between us cos he asks much about me. How can we know each other and make him fall in love with me? My friend works at a certain club and he goes there oftenly after work but gosh at that time I find myself at work and he doesn't visit us coz during the weekends he's always busy. What can I do?How can you make a man fall in love you?
Um... ok...
a little weird, you haven't even met the guy and you are plotting to get him to fall in love with you...
Start by meeting him. From there, it's all about the chemistry. You can't make someone fall in love if your not compatible. But you'll know alot more about your compatibility once you meet him.How can you make a man fall in love you?
be yourself...dishonesty is a sign of weakness.
you cant MAKE a person fall for you
either find a way to meet him or keep in in your dreams....... and as for making him fall in love with you ?? no such thing... either he will or he wont...... there is NO remote control to a heart..... God bless
You can't force anyone to fall in love with you. It has to be naturally there already in order for it to happen.
just be yourself, dont pretend to be something you are not...maybe you can call him and ask him out, if he really likes you he'll find some time for you...
You cant MAKE anyone fall in love with you. How do you love someone that you dont even know??? Why would you pursue such nonsense? Please get a REAL life and give up your fantasy.
You cant make some one fall in love with you...If he was really interested he would make time to see you...I would look for someone else...
WELL FIRST OF ALL DONT INVOLVE YOURSELF INTO THIS MESS AS WHEN HE CAN LEAVE YOUR FRIEND FOR YOU THEN LATER HE CAN LEAVE YOU FOR SOMEONE ELSE.
you can't make anybody fall in love with you especially if you have never even talk or seen that person. Arreange a meeting through your friend first and then go from there.
it sounds like ur head over heels with the wrong guy.
men that go to clubs dont exactly look for 'love'
good luck
You cant make ANYONE “fall in love” with you.... If its meant to be it will happen, there has to be a natural connection.. Sure you could make a big facade to make someone fall in love with you. But as time goes on it will fade away an nothing will have been gained.. Just be yourself and if it was meant to be it will an if not there are plenty of other fish in the sea.... :)
go to the club but were somthing flashy and were a skirt or a flashy dress in a tank top with speggity straps on a cold day and bretend your cold and mabey her will notic you and let you borrow his jacet.
just go and talk to him! sit together and talk. u're gonna know what to do next. Maybe u wont find him interesting anymore, maybe u will.. so then u can persue what u really want. But to say i want him to love you, well, that a little bit soon now..
the first thing that you could do is start talking with some sence....because you can't make someone fall in love with you.
you really want to make a guy fall in love with you when you only 'feel' that you love him? Is that really fair to the guy when you're not 100% sure that you're in love with him? I think you should first step away from the idea of making a man love you or you'll be spending too much time making tactics than actually getting to know who this person really is. Then, you can get a group together to go out to your friend's club or somewhere that people can get together and talk (I like hookah!). From there you can get to talk to him and still be among friends if you run out of things to say. You can also start getting acquainted with the idea of whether you really love him or not. If things go well, you can either ask him out for a one on one date sometime in the future or wait to see if he'll make the move. (Most guys like to work for their mate)
what u can do is snap back to reality. u sound a bit insane. Go out there and meet someone the normal way...PLS!
Leave a note on his car window saying '; If you are interested as i am then call me'; give him your number and be sure to leave your name. I promise he will call you within 48hrs....After that if it is meant to be it will.. good luck : )
Yes, you can!!
But for that you'll have to become the woman of his dreams and its quite painful and sometimes impossible to extract all information about his desires and transform yourself into one like that.!! Also theres a risk you might loose yourself completely and afterwards he might not be interested in you. Worst of both worlds!!!
If possible try contacting witches from the medieval times... maybe they can help you transform in short term.
As for long term,
Try having a decent and pleasant relationship with him ... show him your feelings gradually over time .. and if his response is positive according to you then you may go ahead ...
Learn more about him ... and try adjusting to his good desires and make yourself better (like academics, attributes etc).... this way even if in case you fail in this relationship, you wont regret coz you gained something in your personality and youre better choice for someone else..
And besides , he'll also like the changes in you and would love to spend more time with you..
Be serious about this relationship only when you see him making good changes in himself according to you ... Love is always a Give and Take relationship ... Seriously!!
By all means, be very careful and firm on ';physically-going-too-far'; in a relationship. I assume you live away from your parents. Hence, be responsible towards their dreams too.. And if you will, then in future they'll also understand your feelings for this guy... and everything will be merrier!!
All the best!!
Going to your friend's club,and see him.You cant love him without meeting him.
make him a great impression about you.Dressing your best beautifull clothers when you meet him,asking much about him so that you can understand him um...about what he intersting in,or some else.
Dont talk about your bad habit.
Give him your charming smiles.
and........
you can ask your roommate something about him.
And the important thing is : you are always yourself!
Good luck!
finding ur self in love is 1 thing
u r in love is 2nd thing
lovin a person whom u have not seen ......strange
it is just an attraction....i may say cauz ur frnd told u only his +ve things
better u stop thinkin cauz dis wil trouble ur mind.
actually wen u come 2 no dat person face 2 face his reality will shock u
be coool ......meet him .....n den decide
do tell me wat hppned
Um... ok...
a little weird, you haven't even met the guy and you are plotting to get him to fall in love with you...
Start by meeting him. From there, it's all about the chemistry. You can't make someone fall in love if your not compatible. But you'll know alot more about your compatibility once you meet him.How can you make a man fall in love you?
be yourself...dishonesty is a sign of weakness.
you cant MAKE a person fall for you
either find a way to meet him or keep in in your dreams....... and as for making him fall in love with you ?? no such thing... either he will or he wont...... there is NO remote control to a heart..... God bless
You can't force anyone to fall in love with you. It has to be naturally there already in order for it to happen.
just be yourself, dont pretend to be something you are not...maybe you can call him and ask him out, if he really likes you he'll find some time for you...
You cant MAKE anyone fall in love with you. How do you love someone that you dont even know??? Why would you pursue such nonsense? Please get a REAL life and give up your fantasy.
You cant make some one fall in love with you...If he was really interested he would make time to see you...I would look for someone else...
WELL FIRST OF ALL DONT INVOLVE YOURSELF INTO THIS MESS AS WHEN HE CAN LEAVE YOUR FRIEND FOR YOU THEN LATER HE CAN LEAVE YOU FOR SOMEONE ELSE.
you can't make anybody fall in love with you especially if you have never even talk or seen that person. Arreange a meeting through your friend first and then go from there.
it sounds like ur head over heels with the wrong guy.
men that go to clubs dont exactly look for 'love'
good luck
You cant make ANYONE “fall in love” with you.... If its meant to be it will happen, there has to be a natural connection.. Sure you could make a big facade to make someone fall in love with you. But as time goes on it will fade away an nothing will have been gained.. Just be yourself and if it was meant to be it will an if not there are plenty of other fish in the sea.... :)
go to the club but were somthing flashy and were a skirt or a flashy dress in a tank top with speggity straps on a cold day and bretend your cold and mabey her will notic you and let you borrow his jacet.
just go and talk to him! sit together and talk. u're gonna know what to do next. Maybe u wont find him interesting anymore, maybe u will.. so then u can persue what u really want. But to say i want him to love you, well, that a little bit soon now..
the first thing that you could do is start talking with some sence....because you can't make someone fall in love with you.
you really want to make a guy fall in love with you when you only 'feel' that you love him? Is that really fair to the guy when you're not 100% sure that you're in love with him? I think you should first step away from the idea of making a man love you or you'll be spending too much time making tactics than actually getting to know who this person really is. Then, you can get a group together to go out to your friend's club or somewhere that people can get together and talk (I like hookah!). From there you can get to talk to him and still be among friends if you run out of things to say. You can also start getting acquainted with the idea of whether you really love him or not. If things go well, you can either ask him out for a one on one date sometime in the future or wait to see if he'll make the move. (Most guys like to work for their mate)
what u can do is snap back to reality. u sound a bit insane. Go out there and meet someone the normal way...PLS!
Leave a note on his car window saying '; If you are interested as i am then call me'; give him your number and be sure to leave your name. I promise he will call you within 48hrs....After that if it is meant to be it will.. good luck : )
Yes, you can!!
But for that you'll have to become the woman of his dreams and its quite painful and sometimes impossible to extract all information about his desires and transform yourself into one like that.!! Also theres a risk you might loose yourself completely and afterwards he might not be interested in you. Worst of both worlds!!!
If possible try contacting witches from the medieval times... maybe they can help you transform in short term.
As for long term,
Try having a decent and pleasant relationship with him ... show him your feelings gradually over time .. and if his response is positive according to you then you may go ahead ...
Learn more about him ... and try adjusting to his good desires and make yourself better (like academics, attributes etc).... this way even if in case you fail in this relationship, you wont regret coz you gained something in your personality and youre better choice for someone else..
And besides , he'll also like the changes in you and would love to spend more time with you..
Be serious about this relationship only when you see him making good changes in himself according to you ... Love is always a Give and Take relationship ... Seriously!!
By all means, be very careful and firm on ';physically-going-too-far'; in a relationship. I assume you live away from your parents. Hence, be responsible towards their dreams too.. And if you will, then in future they'll also understand your feelings for this guy... and everything will be merrier!!
All the best!!
Going to your friend's club,and see him.You cant love him without meeting him.
make him a great impression about you.Dressing your best beautifull clothers when you meet him,asking much about him so that you can understand him um...about what he intersting in,or some else.
Dont talk about your bad habit.
Give him your charming smiles.
and........
you can ask your roommate something about him.
And the important thing is : you are always yourself!
Good luck!
finding ur self in love is 1 thing
u r in love is 2nd thing
lovin a person whom u have not seen ......strange
it is just an attraction....i may say cauz ur frnd told u only his +ve things
better u stop thinkin cauz dis wil trouble ur mind.
actually wen u come 2 no dat person face 2 face his reality will shock u
be coool ......meet him .....n den decide
do tell me wat hppned
How can you make someone who's fallen out of love fall back in love?
One of my best friends was told by my boyfriend of eleven months that he wants to break up with me. He just doesn't feel it anymore. He said he's been thinking about this for a while. How long has he not loved me? How long have I been lied to? I love him so much and I just can't bear to lose him. The thought of being without him makes me feel like the world has no purpose for me anymore and I really feel like life is over. He's been distant sometimes, but otherwise he's acted the same. The other day he snapped at me briefly, but by the end of the day he was alright again. He's acting like he normally does, so I don't know when he'll break up with me. Is there a way I can make him fall in love with me again? Don't read that wrong; I don't want to force him to love me. I want to see if there's things I can do that will make him remember why he loved me in the first place and change his mind. I've been trying so hard lately to make our relationship better but he keeps pushing me away...I've tried talking to him but he doesn't reciprocate...I just can't let this die. It sounds bleak, but I can't. Please, please help me.How can you make someone who's fallen out of love fall back in love?
The world without him will NEVER make your life is really over! He doesn't deserve your love. Don't waste your energy on him. I know that at first that it's really so hard to lose the one that you really love, then eventually it'll get better. It just take a lot of time. He's not the only guy breathing in this world. You deserve someone better than him.How can you make someone who's fallen out of love fall back in love?
well im going through the same thing and honestly i feel your pain trying to make something work when the other person doesn't put their effort. All i can say is im just gonna let things go for me honestly m done with how i have to make it work when the other person doesn't want what i want. However you and i may think differently. I am just telling you not to waste your time any more young and we got quite a few years to meet the right guy.
you shouldnt consider yourself as being lied to...it is simply that he doesnt feel the same for you like before and maybe he was trying to keep things as it was that is why he didnt say anything ..and now he think that it is over that is why he is thinking about breaking up .. so he is not cheating..that is what he felt and that is what he will do ..no lying here ...there is two possibilities in here .. the first one is that he really doesnt feel anything for you anymore then you can not do anything and it is really over .. the 2nd thing is that still deep inside feel the love and the care for you but he is bored with the relation and feeling very down which usually happens between two person after a while in a relationship.. now what you have to do now is to change a little bit about yourself .. you dont want to always be negative and nag about what is wrong with your relation and what you should do to make it better and keep on talkin and talking to him about it .. because this will push him away instead of making it bette r.. you should try to remember why in the begining he falled in love with you .. what is in you that attracted him in the first place..try to have more fun with him .. make him feel more fun when you are together .. less naggy .. less serious sometimes .. and try to get a little bit distant from him so he can misses you more .. dont be always around and always available .. even after 11 months .. you should try to make him fall in love again .. when it comes to love .. it is not like you fall in love once and it lasts forever .. you have to always make him fall again and again .. i hope it works for you ..
i want to add ... that it is really worth trying and fighting for our love and eveyrhitng .. but if it doesnt work .. it's not that there is no reason for life without him .. maybe it was the wrong reason .. and you will find the right after..
The world without him will NEVER make your life is really over! He doesn't deserve your love. Don't waste your energy on him. I know that at first that it's really so hard to lose the one that you really love, then eventually it'll get better. It just take a lot of time. He's not the only guy breathing in this world. You deserve someone better than him.How can you make someone who's fallen out of love fall back in love?
well im going through the same thing and honestly i feel your pain trying to make something work when the other person doesn't put their effort. All i can say is im just gonna let things go for me honestly m done with how i have to make it work when the other person doesn't want what i want. However you and i may think differently. I am just telling you not to waste your time any more young and we got quite a few years to meet the right guy.
you shouldnt consider yourself as being lied to...it is simply that he doesnt feel the same for you like before and maybe he was trying to keep things as it was that is why he didnt say anything ..and now he think that it is over that is why he is thinking about breaking up .. so he is not cheating..that is what he felt and that is what he will do ..no lying here ...there is two possibilities in here .. the first one is that he really doesnt feel anything for you anymore then you can not do anything and it is really over .. the 2nd thing is that still deep inside feel the love and the care for you but he is bored with the relation and feeling very down which usually happens between two person after a while in a relationship.. now what you have to do now is to change a little bit about yourself .. you dont want to always be negative and nag about what is wrong with your relation and what you should do to make it better and keep on talkin and talking to him about it .. because this will push him away instead of making it bette r.. you should try to remember why in the begining he falled in love with you .. what is in you that attracted him in the first place..try to have more fun with him .. make him feel more fun when you are together .. less naggy .. less serious sometimes .. and try to get a little bit distant from him so he can misses you more .. dont be always around and always available .. even after 11 months .. you should try to make him fall in love again .. when it comes to love .. it is not like you fall in love once and it lasts forever .. you have to always make him fall again and again .. i hope it works for you ..
i want to add ... that it is really worth trying and fighting for our love and eveyrhitng .. but if it doesnt work .. it's not that there is no reason for life without him .. maybe it was the wrong reason .. and you will find the right after..
How to make a player fall in love with you?
if the guy is a player and dosent take any girl seriosly how do you make him fall in love with youHow to make a player fall in love with you?
You don't. You run as fast and as far away from him as you possibly can. A player will never change for anyone else. He is having too much fun. You could never know how many other girls he had on the side. Players are very good at hiding this kind of thing. If a player wanted to fall in love, he would have already done it all on his own. Try to find a guy who isn't a player and who will love you and only you. Trust me, it is soo much better.How to make a player fall in love with you?
be a player yourself.. keep teasing him, but no sex at all. Players are haters of those who love or like them.
You don't .. unless you are a maochist and want trouble.
stay away from the players unless you wanna get hurt...
I had a good friend who was a real player. He would mess around on a new girlfriend that he was madly in love with. Do you really want that?
YOU DONT. A PLAYER WILL BE A PLAYER REGARDLESS
OF WHAT THE GIRL IS DOING. YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM
ALONE AND FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL YOU DONT
HAVE TO PLAY GAMES WITH. THIS ONE IS TROUBLE.
AND THE ONLY PERSON THAT WILL BE HURT IN THE
LONG RUN IS YOU. TRUST ME.
play hard to get. a player wants every girl he can get. so he'll keep coming after you until he gets you. try leading him on and get him to do things for you. flirt with other guys in front of him. that will make him real jealous. when it looks like he's becoming uninterested. flirt with him and give him what he wants (your number, a date, even a kiss). that will keep him on his toes. try to connect with him on a personal level. try to win his heart. he'll then see that your different from the other girls. you actually made him ';work'; to be with you. it will be harder for him to let you go. you now have made him fallen in love with you!!!!
Are you sure that you really want somebody that will lie and cheat on you, and may be even beat you, to have the chance to do so? I don't know about you but I won't want anybody to disrespect me in any form or fasion.
Live by once a player, always a player. They will need some life changing experience in order to realize that they only need one person.
You are probably better than to take this person anyway, try to move on and find someone who deserves you.
I know people say this stuff all of the time, its typical, I know, but it is very true and valuable knowledge. :)
These hot lips are enough to attract.
You don't. You run as fast and as far away from him as you possibly can. A player will never change for anyone else. He is having too much fun. You could never know how many other girls he had on the side. Players are very good at hiding this kind of thing. If a player wanted to fall in love, he would have already done it all on his own. Try to find a guy who isn't a player and who will love you and only you. Trust me, it is soo much better.How to make a player fall in love with you?
be a player yourself.. keep teasing him, but no sex at all. Players are haters of those who love or like them.
You don't .. unless you are a maochist and want trouble.
stay away from the players unless you wanna get hurt...
I had a good friend who was a real player. He would mess around on a new girlfriend that he was madly in love with. Do you really want that?
YOU DONT. A PLAYER WILL BE A PLAYER REGARDLESS
OF WHAT THE GIRL IS DOING. YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM
ALONE AND FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL YOU DONT
HAVE TO PLAY GAMES WITH. THIS ONE IS TROUBLE.
AND THE ONLY PERSON THAT WILL BE HURT IN THE
LONG RUN IS YOU. TRUST ME.
play hard to get. a player wants every girl he can get. so he'll keep coming after you until he gets you. try leading him on and get him to do things for you. flirt with other guys in front of him. that will make him real jealous. when it looks like he's becoming uninterested. flirt with him and give him what he wants (your number, a date, even a kiss). that will keep him on his toes. try to connect with him on a personal level. try to win his heart. he'll then see that your different from the other girls. you actually made him ';work'; to be with you. it will be harder for him to let you go. you now have made him fallen in love with you!!!!
Are you sure that you really want somebody that will lie and cheat on you, and may be even beat you, to have the chance to do so? I don't know about you but I won't want anybody to disrespect me in any form or fasion.
Live by once a player, always a player. They will need some life changing experience in order to realize that they only need one person.
You are probably better than to take this person anyway, try to move on and find someone who deserves you.
I know people say this stuff all of the time, its typical, I know, but it is very true and valuable knowledge. :)
These hot lips are enough to attract.
How can i make him fall for me?
there's this guy in my class that has caught my attention lately. Hes nice to me and flirts with me a lot but the only problem here is that he's a total jerk and he cheated on his gf like 19 times. I think the only way he can be loyal to a girl is by being in love with her. Hes a nice guy and i feel that deep down inside he can be a gd person but he jst needs a bit of help. Do you think if i make him fall in love with me he'll be loyal and a bit better with ppl n all this? I rly want to help him n make him fall in love with me.. How can i show him that i should be the one for him, that im there for him and all this? How do i keep in touch with him for the summer when we're not that close? How do i make him fall in love with me?How can i make him fall for me?
I can't understand why you want someone who is ';a total jerk and he cheated on his gf like 19 times'; to be with you. Don't you realise that if he cheated on her like that, he will cheat on you too! Obviously you think he wasn't in love with her, since you say ';I think the only way he can be loyal to a girl is by being in love with her.'; But what makes you think he will be any more in love with you than with his ex? He sounds like a player and guys like that tend to make cheating more of a lifestyle than a habit. You can't ';make'; him fall for you and if I were you, I'd be glad. Unless you really enjoy crying and being messed around, that is.How can i make him fall for me?
He's flirting with you cause he wants to sleep with you. If he's cheated on his GF like 19 times, Im sure he would cheat on you too. He's trouble and I would stay away. I know you already have your mind made up though so.
I've been there. There is no way you can change someone. They have to want to. That person should show that they are willing to change. Sounds to me that you are only putting yourself up for heartbrake.
Dear, Why would you bother ! I have been on the recieving end of two cheaters and trust me you don';t want to go there.
You can't make someone fall in love with you. I've tried - it doesn't work. This guy sounds like a guy that I went to school with. He flirted with me and claimed to like me and even gave me my first kiss - but he was such a liar. In private, he was sweet. In public, he denied our ';relationship';. This guy just needs to grow up. And if he's cheated on his gf before, what makes you think he wouldn't do that to you? Don't get involved with this guy. He sounds like a loser, and you probably don't want that.
I can't understand why you want someone who is ';a total jerk and he cheated on his gf like 19 times'; to be with you. Don't you realise that if he cheated on her like that, he will cheat on you too! Obviously you think he wasn't in love with her, since you say ';I think the only way he can be loyal to a girl is by being in love with her.'; But what makes you think he will be any more in love with you than with his ex? He sounds like a player and guys like that tend to make cheating more of a lifestyle than a habit. You can't ';make'; him fall for you and if I were you, I'd be glad. Unless you really enjoy crying and being messed around, that is.How can i make him fall for me?
He's flirting with you cause he wants to sleep with you. If he's cheated on his GF like 19 times, Im sure he would cheat on you too. He's trouble and I would stay away. I know you already have your mind made up though so.
I've been there. There is no way you can change someone. They have to want to. That person should show that they are willing to change. Sounds to me that you are only putting yourself up for heartbrake.
Dear, Why would you bother ! I have been on the recieving end of two cheaters and trust me you don';t want to go there.
You can't make someone fall in love with you. I've tried - it doesn't work. This guy sounds like a guy that I went to school with. He flirted with me and claimed to like me and even gave me my first kiss - but he was such a liar. In private, he was sweet. In public, he denied our ';relationship';. This guy just needs to grow up. And if he's cheated on his gf before, what makes you think he wouldn't do that to you? Don't get involved with this guy. He sounds like a loser, and you probably don't want that.
How to make a man fall in love with you?
I know you can not force this upon anyone, but I am sure you can say and do things that show a man you care for him, want a future and are in love. I would love to hear a few suggestions out there from the men mostly,as well as women. ThanksHow to make a man fall in love with you?
you have to observe the things that he likes and dislikes and when you find that out do all the things he loves. and if you are old enough put it on him till he falls a sleep (if you know what i am talking about) and fix him a good dinner.
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answer mine pleaseHow to make a man fall in love with you?
Not an easy answer, but I'd say, just keep telling him what you like about him, in a way that'll make him feel good about himself.
i don't think you can make someone fall in love with you, it will either happen or not.finger nails and toe nails
you have to observe the things that he likes and dislikes and when you find that out do all the things he loves. and if you are old enough put it on him till he falls a sleep (if you know what i am talking about) and fix him a good dinner.
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answer mine pleaseHow to make a man fall in love with you?
Not an easy answer, but I'd say, just keep telling him what you like about him, in a way that'll make him feel good about himself.
i don't think you can make someone fall in love with you, it will either happen or not.
How to i make this 1 guy fall in love w/ me?
well i am in 8th grade i am inlove with this 1 guy. we used to go out but we broke up because we never really hung out or talked. but now we are talking more and i like him alot more now. but i am not sure if he likes me. i always catch him staring at me when i am walking in the hallways at school. is that a good sign? please give me some tips to help me make him fall in love w/ me. thank you america!How to i make this 1 guy fall in love w/ me?
well, the person answering this qns (me) is nt a american instead is a singaporean... haha...
Well, it's gd that he is actually stealing peeks at u, it goes to show that u r attracting his attention.. :)
Try 2 spend mre time with him n talk more until u cant get enough of it..
But try to spend lonely times with him n nt always in a big group... That'll work... n ya, try askin him out, like goin 2 e movies n stuff like that.. i m pretty sure, it'll work..
TC babe%26lt;%26lt;How to i make this 1 guy fall in love w/ me?
You can't really 'make' someone fall in love with you, but if you two did go out already, that must mean that you have some kind of connection. Just take things slow, don't rush it. Become really good friends for a while and don't worry about the relationship untill he takes charge. If you're only in the 8th grade, you've got plenty of time for the two of you to form something together. Like I said before, just take it slow and I'm sure if it's ment to be, something will form soon.
Good luck :]
well, the person answering this qns (me) is nt a american instead is a singaporean... haha...
Well, it's gd that he is actually stealing peeks at u, it goes to show that u r attracting his attention.. :)
Try 2 spend mre time with him n talk more until u cant get enough of it..
But try to spend lonely times with him n nt always in a big group... That'll work... n ya, try askin him out, like goin 2 e movies n stuff like that.. i m pretty sure, it'll work..
TC babe%26lt;%26lt;How to i make this 1 guy fall in love w/ me?
You can't really 'make' someone fall in love with you, but if you two did go out already, that must mean that you have some kind of connection. Just take things slow, don't rush it. Become really good friends for a while and don't worry about the relationship untill he takes charge. If you're only in the 8th grade, you've got plenty of time for the two of you to form something together. Like I said before, just take it slow and I'm sure if it's ment to be, something will form soon.
Good luck :]
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