When you have managed to fall in love in a friend who is married, how do you make yourself NOT be in love?

Don't say i'm stupid... i already know that. (:

He's a wonderful person and i consider him really close friend. i've obviously fallen in love with him and i want to stop and go back to thinking of him as just a friend.

He doesn't know that of course and i don't plan on telling him.

i'm pretty certain he loves his wife so his marriage is definitely safe. :)



How do i stop?

We haven't seen each other - ever - it's an online friendships (and it really is that; these things can happen on the Internet; there's nothing fake, i know who he is and he knows me as i am).



i don't want to change our relationship, just my feelings. Please don't tell me to just stay away... ok? (:



Thank you for your help. :)When you have managed to fall in love in a friend who is married, how do you make yourself NOT be in love?
well, one things for certain, if you never seen him in real life, then how could you know who he is?

its really easy to fall in love on the internet- many good points are accentuated on MSN or email- answers can be thought up with time and care...

no, you shouldn't stay away- hes a friend, right? friends look after one another, in a way that no lover can...

its ok to love him as a friend- friends do love- they care for their friend and they wish no harm befalls upon them...

its hard to go against your heart... but there are loopholes...

love him as a friend...

though I must say... if you are lookin' for a relationship- onlines usually not where its at...

we're not ingrained genetically to be lovin' jpeg images and txts...When you have managed to fall in love in a friend who is married, how do you make yourself NOT be in love?
sleep with him once that will tell you what to do
don't lead him on.
Back way, way off. Find something else to think about and do with your time. Do something for someone less fortunate than you. Get out of the house and off the computer. You can't find someone who is available, and you are clear that this guy is not, if you are sittin home. You are not stupid but you are nuts if you keep doing the same thing the same way and expect a different result.