ok, hmmm where to begin! Basically i met up with an old work collegue/friend that i hadnt seen for 5 years and we got back in contact via facebook, we both had a thing for each other in the past that we have discussed recently and openly admitted to, at the time we were both involved with other people and so never acted upon it, now we have been seeing each other for 4 weeks and i have fallen in love with him, some would say that its too quick and just infatuation but i know how i feel and my feelings for this guy go way beyond what words can describe, however there is a problem, he doesnt feel the same, i have told him how i feel, well it sort of slipped out one day and we talked about it, he told me he cares for me deeply but does not feel that way about me, we have different religious views and his religion is a big part of his life, he does not believe in sex before marriage where as i have been sexually active for the last 5 years, so its a little differcult at times when i want to show him just how much i i love him by making love to him...but obviously things never go that far and i respect him for that, i dont want to come between him and his religion, hes quite conservative and im unconservative, two completly different people and yet if we dont see each other we miss each other like crazy and i feel somewhat incomplete and if i think about ending it as its the right thing to do i feel sick to my stomach and end up crying (not in front of him though...im not into the whole emotional blackmail thing) I need advice on how to let this guy go and fall out of love with him as i know im completly wrong for him and there is no future in it for us, and if we stay together then when its time for him to say goodbye im going to be in pieces...and i dont particully want to go down that road (seen my mum go there as i was growing up countless times) and advice...suggestions would be very much appreciated here, im completly at a loss as to how i can stop myself feeling this way and how i can protect myself from getting hurt in the long run...help!!!How do you get over unrequited love?
time...and alcohol :)How do you get over unrequited love?
it takes time
Sunday, 11 December 2011
Falling in love. how? what? when? where? who?
falling in love. how? what? when? where? who?
I am so in love with my boyfriend. He is all I think about day and night. I want him to feel the same way about me, how do I make him fall even more in love with me and please save your answers if you plan on advising me I can't make anyone fall in love with me. How do you make that transition from being the chaser to the chasee? He's 22, recently graduated from college, loves comics, The Office, movies, punk/emo music. I know he really likes me as he travels very very long distantces to see me a few times a week, calls me almost everyday, and we have fun and laugh alot together. But how do I make him want me more? What are some tips? How do you reel them in even deeper? How did you make someone fall in love with you? And if you've ever fallen in love with someone what was it that made you fall in love with them?Falling in love. how? what? when? where? who?
Okay I will NOT answer any TRUE answer.
Maybe if you bury a snippet of his hair in your yard and wish on it under the moonlight he will love you. or if you treat yourself as a second class citizen and put his needs first and last. Or maybe if you dress up in a big clown costume you can entertain him so much he will forget that is is ANOTHER HUMAN BEING AND NOT UNDER YOUR CONTROL.
Opps, I forgot, you only want LIES.Falling in love. how? what? when? where? who?
Honey all you can do is be yourself and above that let him be who he wants to be-
there is nothing that will MAKE someone love you
its either there or not
Falling in love sucks. F that s#!t
I'm just answering to say WORD to Love Yahoo!!!. Painful sh!t.
You need to spend more time together. Make it last like an eternity. Unfortunately, you can never FORCE a person to love you equally like you will. That's the reality of life. You never expect anything in return when you love a person. Love is not a give-take relationship. It's like a boundless ocean and you're mentally prepared to fall, and be destroyed for it.
I'm a guy and someone who failed in love. But, I still don't feel any worse for it. I'm telling you if you could love this guy with 1/10th the passion I did, it won't matter at all what he does in future.
You can read the question I asked to understand my experience.
love can sometimes just be addictive clinginess. It gives you a high but it eventually dissolves when you get bored with it. Real love comes from being conscious
Kath, I'm overjoyed for you and your situation, truly, but some words of caution from a guy who's been in two committed relationships (one was a marriage) and has travelled thousands of miles to spend time with those he's loved.
You are already far luckier than many people in this world to have someone who'll travel so far ';a few times each week'; to be in your arms, who'll call you so often and with whom you have such a great time. He already relies on you, values your company over many others' and seeks your attention and affection before anyone else's. Many married couples have left what you're now experiencing far in their past and now only have time and memories in common. Most people would be envious of the intimacy you share and the joy you have.
Don't look for more than is reasonable to expect of any man. Let time be the factor that secures your bond. Forcing anything or placing demands on him when things are already so good will just create disatisfaction where there is now solace, trust and peace. The absolute last thing a guy wants to feel is trapped.
Love doesn't necessarily equate to demand.
Have patience and let every gesture and word signify how much he means to you. Just enjoy what you have. Life has a way of putting so much of what we enjoy in the past all too quickly.
Good luck.
I am so in love with my boyfriend. He is all I think about day and night. I want him to feel the same way about me, how do I make him fall even more in love with me and please save your answers if you plan on advising me I can't make anyone fall in love with me. How do you make that transition from being the chaser to the chasee? He's 22, recently graduated from college, loves comics, The Office, movies, punk/emo music. I know he really likes me as he travels very very long distantces to see me a few times a week, calls me almost everyday, and we have fun and laugh alot together. But how do I make him want me more? What are some tips? How do you reel them in even deeper? How did you make someone fall in love with you? And if you've ever fallen in love with someone what was it that made you fall in love with them?Falling in love. how? what? when? where? who?
Okay I will NOT answer any TRUE answer.
Maybe if you bury a snippet of his hair in your yard and wish on it under the moonlight he will love you. or if you treat yourself as a second class citizen and put his needs first and last. Or maybe if you dress up in a big clown costume you can entertain him so much he will forget that is is ANOTHER HUMAN BEING AND NOT UNDER YOUR CONTROL.
Opps, I forgot, you only want LIES.Falling in love. how? what? when? where? who?
Honey all you can do is be yourself and above that let him be who he wants to be-
there is nothing that will MAKE someone love you
its either there or not
Falling in love sucks. F that s#!t
I'm just answering to say WORD to Love Yahoo!!!. Painful sh!t.
You need to spend more time together. Make it last like an eternity. Unfortunately, you can never FORCE a person to love you equally like you will. That's the reality of life. You never expect anything in return when you love a person. Love is not a give-take relationship. It's like a boundless ocean and you're mentally prepared to fall, and be destroyed for it.
I'm a guy and someone who failed in love. But, I still don't feel any worse for it. I'm telling you if you could love this guy with 1/10th the passion I did, it won't matter at all what he does in future.
You can read the question I asked to understand my experience.
love can sometimes just be addictive clinginess. It gives you a high but it eventually dissolves when you get bored with it. Real love comes from being conscious
Kath, I'm overjoyed for you and your situation, truly, but some words of caution from a guy who's been in two committed relationships (one was a marriage) and has travelled thousands of miles to spend time with those he's loved.
You are already far luckier than many people in this world to have someone who'll travel so far ';a few times each week'; to be in your arms, who'll call you so often and with whom you have such a great time. He already relies on you, values your company over many others' and seeks your attention and affection before anyone else's. Many married couples have left what you're now experiencing far in their past and now only have time and memories in common. Most people would be envious of the intimacy you share and the joy you have.
Don't look for more than is reasonable to expect of any man. Let time be the factor that secures your bond. Forcing anything or placing demands on him when things are already so good will just create disatisfaction where there is now solace, trust and peace. The absolute last thing a guy wants to feel is trapped.
Love doesn't necessarily equate to demand.
Have patience and let every gesture and word signify how much he means to you. Just enjoy what you have. Life has a way of putting so much of what we enjoy in the past all too quickly.
Good luck.
How Long should I wait for the man I love?
I love this man named eric very much. I have loved him for over 8 months now and still every dang day its gets stronger. He still takes my breath away when I see him and makes my heart skip. I wish I could fall out of love with him, but yet I want to wait till he is ready. I am praying the chains on his heart are broken so he is no longer scared to love again. His ex wife hurt him really bad. Every time he thinks about pursuing it and getting closer with me he gets scared and backs off. We have been thru alot together as well. I just miscarried his baby a week ago. He stayed with me all night and took care of my boys. He was very comforting and loving. Then on Wednesday of this week he drove me in to go shopping and stayed in the truck with the boys for 2 hours so I could shop in peace. Then once we got home he put them to bed for me. My boys love him very much and he says when he gets stable he will possibly adopt my son. I don't know if he is just saying that but its the third time he has mentioned it. How long is too long to wait for the man you love? Especially when he fits for everything you have been looking for, for your entire life? Then has 100 times more awesome traits on top of it? I couldn't love a better man. Just to let you know we quit having sex. He re dedicated his life to the lord 2 months ago and before that we had quit. He says we are friends but more than friends. We had not kissed for a while then he started again and now he is pulling away again. I am sure he loves me but he is scared. Truth be told we had not seen each ther for 6 weeks. Distance was apart of it. Then I was able to move back to the area and on dec 12th the day i got prego we made love. The best night of making love I have ever had with a man. Then we did it one more time and then we decided things were going way to fast wand we stopped having sex which is fine with me cuz sex ruins **** all the time. I just did not know I was already pregnant. He is a sweet man trust me.How Long should I wait for the man I love?
Girl, its ultimately up to you. We can't give you a timeframe. I'm like you. I met someone who I think puts the AWE in awesome and he's scared to move on too. I got to spend 4 great months with him before he got stationed somewhere else (military). In that time, I made it clear that he needs to heal (a girl he liked before me was ready to rush into things and when it didn't go her way, she stopped talking to him.) As much as I would LOVE to be his girl, I don't want him to fear me, so I'm equally as content being his friend since I know he likes me as well. And if he does move back here after the Air Force, it won't be for 4 or 5 more years. I'd be waiting for WAY more than 8 months. It would be the easiest and hardest thing I've ever done. Easiest because I don't want anyone else. Hardest because there is such a huge void in my life from when he left.
Guys like mine and the guy you described are worth waiting for. I'm willing to wait a lifetime for this guy. I told him that instead of being a hookup, I'd rather be his friend for life. I don't want just a guy's body. I want his heart and soul as well because I would be giving him mine iin return. If this guy is not ready for the whole enchilada, then just back off. Let him know you value him in your life and your kids, but with each kiss, touch, etc, you are falling for him and thats not fair to you either.
Stay friends (JUST FRIENDS) until he decides he's ready. I'm sure its hard as hell. But in the end, patience will pay off and he'll love you more for waiting it out.How Long should I wait for the man I love?
it's really all up to you. not us.
you have ask this question a bunch of times, you want to just do it.
answer mine
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
Hi Dear
I don't think that he has committed. He will go back to his wife
you know him better than we do
it sound like he made his decision to move on so the best thing is for you to move on too. :0)
It seems you have already made up your mind and you are all for it. What you need is a kind of secondment from your well wishers - I endorse what you are thinking and want to do - go for it dear - all the best:)
IF U REALLY ';LOVE'; HIM YOUR GONNA WAIT FOR HIM ^^
LOVE IS NOT ALL ABOUT TIME OR DISTANCE, LOVE
IS WHAT YOU FEEL IN YOUR HEART NOT YOUR MIND HOW LONG?
1000 YEARS IF IS TRUE LOV=)
All the time necessary. BUT a more reasonable time would be.... like 1 year... from now.
AND... that thing about him being scared, let me tell you ITS NOT TRUE
The reason a man has doubts its because he is waiting the possibility of meeting a younger woman without children... BUT at the same time THAT may be a risk.
He likes you a lot, but like I told you, the possibility of another woman is there. Maybe thats why you have not seen him for 6 weeks.
Men can be all sweet you want, but most of them only want sex, even if they say they are closer to Jesus now. And you can verify that by the facts! thats what s been happening with you, you have reached the deepest level of intimacy a couple could have (sex) but still you dont see a commitment, just excuses.... and some of them very well known like.. OH IM SCARED, OH WE ARE GOING TOO FAST (another form to say.,... well I had sex with you, now let me tell you this excuse to appear like a sensible man, but I knew what I was doing, so its just that I desire you so much, but not to that point to have a commitment with you)
If you want him back you have to follow some simple rules that apply to 99% of men.
1) Do not let him see you (well that part its already done, 6 weeks)
2) Let him see you by pure casuality, (pretend you have not seen him)
Dress very beautiful and attractive
If he comes to you, then act like a very happy and self confident woman... do not talk about how much you miss him... pretend to be unworried about him. Pretend to have a lot of things to do... do not kiss him in the lips when leaving (the catch here is that you have to transmit without words, that you are interested in another man)
That will activate on his brain the idea that he is losing you to another male....
3) Never directly talk about other man or let him see you with another man (You are building tension, and jealousy in his mind, but not anger)
4) Dont have sex with him.... you will dress beautiful... and youll apper from now like a difficult woman... a woman desired by other males....
But usually when men have sex they lose interes
Sexual desire is another thing you have to accumulate in him
Girl, its ultimately up to you. We can't give you a timeframe. I'm like you. I met someone who I think puts the AWE in awesome and he's scared to move on too. I got to spend 4 great months with him before he got stationed somewhere else (military). In that time, I made it clear that he needs to heal (a girl he liked before me was ready to rush into things and when it didn't go her way, she stopped talking to him.) As much as I would LOVE to be his girl, I don't want him to fear me, so I'm equally as content being his friend since I know he likes me as well. And if he does move back here after the Air Force, it won't be for 4 or 5 more years. I'd be waiting for WAY more than 8 months. It would be the easiest and hardest thing I've ever done. Easiest because I don't want anyone else. Hardest because there is such a huge void in my life from when he left.
Guys like mine and the guy you described are worth waiting for. I'm willing to wait a lifetime for this guy. I told him that instead of being a hookup, I'd rather be his friend for life. I don't want just a guy's body. I want his heart and soul as well because I would be giving him mine iin return. If this guy is not ready for the whole enchilada, then just back off. Let him know you value him in your life and your kids, but with each kiss, touch, etc, you are falling for him and thats not fair to you either.
Stay friends (JUST FRIENDS) until he decides he's ready. I'm sure its hard as hell. But in the end, patience will pay off and he'll love you more for waiting it out.How Long should I wait for the man I love?
it's really all up to you. not us.
you have ask this question a bunch of times, you want to just do it.
answer mine
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
Hi Dear
I don't think that he has committed. He will go back to his wife
you know him better than we do
it sound like he made his decision to move on so the best thing is for you to move on too. :0)
It seems you have already made up your mind and you are all for it. What you need is a kind of secondment from your well wishers - I endorse what you are thinking and want to do - go for it dear - all the best:)
IF U REALLY ';LOVE'; HIM YOUR GONNA WAIT FOR HIM ^^
LOVE IS NOT ALL ABOUT TIME OR DISTANCE, LOVE
IS WHAT YOU FEEL IN YOUR HEART NOT YOUR MIND HOW LONG?
1000 YEARS IF IS TRUE LOV=)
All the time necessary. BUT a more reasonable time would be.... like 1 year... from now.
AND... that thing about him being scared, let me tell you ITS NOT TRUE
The reason a man has doubts its because he is waiting the possibility of meeting a younger woman without children... BUT at the same time THAT may be a risk.
He likes you a lot, but like I told you, the possibility of another woman is there. Maybe thats why you have not seen him for 6 weeks.
Men can be all sweet you want, but most of them only want sex, even if they say they are closer to Jesus now. And you can verify that by the facts! thats what s been happening with you, you have reached the deepest level of intimacy a couple could have (sex) but still you dont see a commitment, just excuses.... and some of them very well known like.. OH IM SCARED, OH WE ARE GOING TOO FAST (another form to say.,... well I had sex with you, now let me tell you this excuse to appear like a sensible man, but I knew what I was doing, so its just that I desire you so much, but not to that point to have a commitment with you)
If you want him back you have to follow some simple rules that apply to 99% of men.
1) Do not let him see you (well that part its already done, 6 weeks)
2) Let him see you by pure casuality, (pretend you have not seen him)
Dress very beautiful and attractive
If he comes to you, then act like a very happy and self confident woman... do not talk about how much you miss him... pretend to be unworried about him. Pretend to have a lot of things to do... do not kiss him in the lips when leaving (the catch here is that you have to transmit without words, that you are interested in another man)
That will activate on his brain the idea that he is losing you to another male....
3) Never directly talk about other man or let him see you with another man (You are building tension, and jealousy in his mind, but not anger)
4) Dont have sex with him.... you will dress beautiful... and youll apper from now like a difficult woman... a woman desired by other males....
But usually when men have sex they lose interes
Sexual desire is another thing you have to accumulate in him
Help! A demon is in love with me!?
Please don't answer this question if you know nothing of demons or if you want to mock me.....I have had a taste of hell and I need answers.
Please don't tell me to call the police. You'll read why later.
A man with an attachment is in love with me-or his demon is in love with me. I know this sounds strange, but this man has stalked me for 2.5 years and tried to coerce me into leaving the father of my child to be with him.
He tells everyone how I was his wife in a past life and how he is going to marry me again. He even told everyone he would be going ring shopping. The first time I looked in his eyes I thought I recognized him and when he asked me if I was his wife in a past life I answered yes. We looked into each other's eyes and fell in love.....I could not act on this desire bc I am 10 years older, am in a relationship and I was 4 months pregnant. I wrote it off as impossible and figured he would loose interest....after all, he is very handsome and sexy, has money and is younger.....he didn't lose interest....he did everything he could to put himself in my proximity.
He has slept outside of my home, said my name outside of my bedroom window, left love letters in my car begging me to leave my fiance and to please make love to him, he has masturbated in my car and coated my steering wheel with semen, broke into my house and masturbated several times on one of my used maxi pads forming a ';bannana boat'; holding approx 1/3 cup of spooge!
He got the keys to my house, has watched me sleep and masturbated on the bed beside me.
Calling the police is the wrong thing to do bc he knows every cop in town, has money and ';connections.';
A friend of his told my fiance' that this man has a ball of my hair and handfulls of my barrettes and other hair accessories....
What steps should I take to rid myself of this man and his attachment. My fiance' says that the demon wants me because I have a powerful soul and I am unmarked. Please help me understand this situation.....explain why and how a demon is in love with me and what I should do to make it lose interest and get on with my life.Help! A demon is in love with me!?
Demons cannot fall in love, they can only lust. Love does no harm to the person loved. Demons can drive people to lust after things that are not theirs and get them whatever means it can.
In this case the man doesn't love you though he claim he does. If he loves you he wouldn't be doing the things he did to you. He's just lusting after you.
He may be either having a real demon or just faking the demon thing or disillusioned. He's is definitely a pervert.Help! A demon is in love with me!?
I'll bet he's a demon in the sack.
If your fiance thinks he's a demon, it sounds like he's the one that's mentally ill. You might ask yourself why it is that you are so attractive to crazy people.
I don't see anything ';demoniac'; about this.
I'm sorry but he's not a demon, he's just a sick pervert. If he was a demon, he wouldn't be doing things like that because they are obviously turning you away from him. Demons are smarter than most people would probably think, and it would probably be able entice you. oh, and demons hate humans. they would never love one.
Alyssa Milano?
Time to report this nutcase to the police, restraining orders, et al.
This is weird. You should move if he has that much influence with the police. He may hurt you, your fiance, or your child.
btw, I have had some experience with a demon before- they were not good experiences. I don't think they fall in love. They seem to want to possess. Really think about it how can a demon know how to love? It would not be a demon if it did.
Um gross. You can't be serious. But I do think you have a sick mind.
Ummm how did he get into your car and how did he get keys to your house? This all just sounds too unreal...';he has masturbated in my car and coated my steering wheel with semen, broke into my house and masturbated several times on one of my used maxi pads forming a ';bannana boat'; holding approx 1/3 cup of spooge!
He got the keys to my house, has watched me sleep and masturbated on the bed beside me.';
First of all, call the cops, and if you can't trust the local police, go to a higher level, like state or federal. Second, I recommend a psychologist, because it sounds like you're asking for a lot of these things to happen to yourself. Don't be weird, just be mature, responsible, and do what is best for you and your family.
That is one crazy problem. The mention of a ';demon'; is simply complicating (unnecessarily) the situation. It's simple - you have a crazy stalker after you. That's all. I don't know why your fiance should bring up demons and make the situation worse for no reason.
I know you said not to say ';call the police';, but you have no choice. He is committing crimes and he needs to be dealt with. The police are the only ones who can do this. If they refuse to act because the guy is well connected, there are authorities you can complain to about the corruption of the police force. Either way, you need to report him and soon, before he does something really crazy.
just lock this fool up before he gets toasted
Firstly, you must understand the difference between demonic and plain old obsessive.
if you can't call the police, relocate to another state, another country even. it may come down to him attempting killing your family to be with you.
in the mind of the psychotic, it's all about cutting out the middleman to get what you want, and in this case, that would be your husband and child.
It seems you really do believe in demons as people as do I. I have yet to come into contact with one but I am greatly interested in this matter. If you wouldn't mind please enlighten me.
jacobfitz4@yahoo.com
Also to answer your question. If you have such a vast knowlege of demonic arts can't you go ';constantine'; no his ***? You know holy water and a cross? Silver bullets? I mean no offense by this and am completely serious. Email-me
He's a crazy man with an unhealthy obsession. Why are you letting him off easy by blaming a ';demon';?
If you don't want to get a restraining order or take any other actions, then you are just going to have to deal with it. But for your sake I hope he doesn't turn into one of those that goes berserk and does anything drastic.
This is a stalker not a demon, you should call the police and have him arrested. What the hell is wrong with your boyfriend that he'd sit idly by while you are being stalked and harassed by this psycho?
Try not to worry. In 3 or 4 months he will tire of that and one night break into your home and kill you while you sleep. YOU TWIT!! Call the Police. People like this are severly disturbed. He will eventually get to the point that he realizes he will never have you. At that point he may decide that no one else can either. Oh, and buy a gun, and learn how to protect yourself with it. Friends with the Police? They make these things called Video Cameras. Buy one and carry it around with you. He sees you pull it out of the car and start taping him, he might get the idea. If he doesn't, you will have the proof you need when you call the police.
Hi Rose, Sorry to hear that you are having troubles.
This is called ertomania. It happens when someone is obsessed to the point of believing that they are ';destined'; to be with someone or that they have been together in the past.
Ertomania is unfortunately a problem that doesn't go away on it's own and can escalate.
There are several books on the subject, I would recommend ';Stop Stalking Me'; by Macian. This describes the emotional technics used by those suffering from ertomania and how to deal with them.
As long as you are in an emotionally vulnerable state, it is difficult for you to see things clearly. There is a romanticism to the idea that someone would do ANYTHING to be with you and that can be very compelling. But you do need to protect yourself and your family.
best wishes
Please don't tell me to call the police. You'll read why later.
A man with an attachment is in love with me-or his demon is in love with me. I know this sounds strange, but this man has stalked me for 2.5 years and tried to coerce me into leaving the father of my child to be with him.
He tells everyone how I was his wife in a past life and how he is going to marry me again. He even told everyone he would be going ring shopping. The first time I looked in his eyes I thought I recognized him and when he asked me if I was his wife in a past life I answered yes. We looked into each other's eyes and fell in love.....I could not act on this desire bc I am 10 years older, am in a relationship and I was 4 months pregnant. I wrote it off as impossible and figured he would loose interest....after all, he is very handsome and sexy, has money and is younger.....he didn't lose interest....he did everything he could to put himself in my proximity.
He has slept outside of my home, said my name outside of my bedroom window, left love letters in my car begging me to leave my fiance and to please make love to him, he has masturbated in my car and coated my steering wheel with semen, broke into my house and masturbated several times on one of my used maxi pads forming a ';bannana boat'; holding approx 1/3 cup of spooge!
He got the keys to my house, has watched me sleep and masturbated on the bed beside me.
Calling the police is the wrong thing to do bc he knows every cop in town, has money and ';connections.';
A friend of his told my fiance' that this man has a ball of my hair and handfulls of my barrettes and other hair accessories....
What steps should I take to rid myself of this man and his attachment. My fiance' says that the demon wants me because I have a powerful soul and I am unmarked. Please help me understand this situation.....explain why and how a demon is in love with me and what I should do to make it lose interest and get on with my life.Help! A demon is in love with me!?
Demons cannot fall in love, they can only lust. Love does no harm to the person loved. Demons can drive people to lust after things that are not theirs and get them whatever means it can.
In this case the man doesn't love you though he claim he does. If he loves you he wouldn't be doing the things he did to you. He's just lusting after you.
He may be either having a real demon or just faking the demon thing or disillusioned. He's is definitely a pervert.Help! A demon is in love with me!?
I'll bet he's a demon in the sack.
If your fiance thinks he's a demon, it sounds like he's the one that's mentally ill. You might ask yourself why it is that you are so attractive to crazy people.
I don't see anything ';demoniac'; about this.
I'm sorry but he's not a demon, he's just a sick pervert. If he was a demon, he wouldn't be doing things like that because they are obviously turning you away from him. Demons are smarter than most people would probably think, and it would probably be able entice you. oh, and demons hate humans. they would never love one.
Alyssa Milano?
Time to report this nutcase to the police, restraining orders, et al.
This is weird. You should move if he has that much influence with the police. He may hurt you, your fiance, or your child.
btw, I have had some experience with a demon before- they were not good experiences. I don't think they fall in love. They seem to want to possess. Really think about it how can a demon know how to love? It would not be a demon if it did.
Um gross. You can't be serious. But I do think you have a sick mind.
Ummm how did he get into your car and how did he get keys to your house? This all just sounds too unreal...';he has masturbated in my car and coated my steering wheel with semen, broke into my house and masturbated several times on one of my used maxi pads forming a ';bannana boat'; holding approx 1/3 cup of spooge!
He got the keys to my house, has watched me sleep and masturbated on the bed beside me.';
First of all, call the cops, and if you can't trust the local police, go to a higher level, like state or federal. Second, I recommend a psychologist, because it sounds like you're asking for a lot of these things to happen to yourself. Don't be weird, just be mature, responsible, and do what is best for you and your family.
That is one crazy problem. The mention of a ';demon'; is simply complicating (unnecessarily) the situation. It's simple - you have a crazy stalker after you. That's all. I don't know why your fiance should bring up demons and make the situation worse for no reason.
I know you said not to say ';call the police';, but you have no choice. He is committing crimes and he needs to be dealt with. The police are the only ones who can do this. If they refuse to act because the guy is well connected, there are authorities you can complain to about the corruption of the police force. Either way, you need to report him and soon, before he does something really crazy.
just lock this fool up before he gets toasted
Firstly, you must understand the difference between demonic and plain old obsessive.
if you can't call the police, relocate to another state, another country even. it may come down to him attempting killing your family to be with you.
in the mind of the psychotic, it's all about cutting out the middleman to get what you want, and in this case, that would be your husband and child.
It seems you really do believe in demons as people as do I. I have yet to come into contact with one but I am greatly interested in this matter. If you wouldn't mind please enlighten me.
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Also to answer your question. If you have such a vast knowlege of demonic arts can't you go ';constantine'; no his ***? You know holy water and a cross? Silver bullets? I mean no offense by this and am completely serious. Email-me
He's a crazy man with an unhealthy obsession. Why are you letting him off easy by blaming a ';demon';?
If you don't want to get a restraining order or take any other actions, then you are just going to have to deal with it. But for your sake I hope he doesn't turn into one of those that goes berserk and does anything drastic.
This is a stalker not a demon, you should call the police and have him arrested. What the hell is wrong with your boyfriend that he'd sit idly by while you are being stalked and harassed by this psycho?
Try not to worry. In 3 or 4 months he will tire of that and one night break into your home and kill you while you sleep. YOU TWIT!! Call the Police. People like this are severly disturbed. He will eventually get to the point that he realizes he will never have you. At that point he may decide that no one else can either. Oh, and buy a gun, and learn how to protect yourself with it. Friends with the Police? They make these things called Video Cameras. Buy one and carry it around with you. He sees you pull it out of the car and start taping him, he might get the idea. If he doesn't, you will have the proof you need when you call the police.
Hi Rose, Sorry to hear that you are having troubles.
This is called ertomania. It happens when someone is obsessed to the point of believing that they are ';destined'; to be with someone or that they have been together in the past.
Ertomania is unfortunately a problem that doesn't go away on it's own and can escalate.
There are several books on the subject, I would recommend ';Stop Stalking Me'; by Macian. This describes the emotional technics used by those suffering from ertomania and how to deal with them.
As long as you are in an emotionally vulnerable state, it is difficult for you to see things clearly. There is a romanticism to the idea that someone would do ANYTHING to be with you and that can be very compelling. But you do need to protect yourself and your family.
best wishes
How old do you have to be to fall in love?
is there an age...or not? am i jst a 13 year old girl way over her head. are the tears i've shed for the past 8 months fake...are they jst so i believe im in love? is it all jst physcological? am i really in love. can i ever repair the whole that is metiphorically through my heart. can i ever say sorry enough times to be forgiven. what if he doesnt, never did, and never will love me back....what if i never see him again. i rather have one minute with him (good, bad, or indifferent) then a life time with someone else tht wuld make me happy. love is the best and the worst thing that has ever happened to me...what do you think? what age do you have to be to fall in love?How old do you have to be to fall in love?
love has no age limitHow old do you have to be to fall in love?
Love knows no age. It can come to you anytime. When you fall in love, it just hits you, whenever, wherever, and whoever. Right? So i think that there's an age when it comes to love. Its the feeling that you feel for someone. You can't stop it.
There is no such thing as love--not that I know of anyway.
love has no age limitHow old do you have to be to fall in love?
Love knows no age. It can come to you anytime. When you fall in love, it just hits you, whenever, wherever, and whoever. Right? So i think that there's an age when it comes to love. Its the feeling that you feel for someone. You can't stop it.
There is no such thing as love--not that I know of anyway.
How Long should I wait for the man I love?
I love this man named eric very much. I have loved him for over 8 months now and still every dang day its gets stronger. He still takes my breath away when I see him and makes my heart skip. I wish I could fall out of love with him, but yet I want to wait till he is ready. I am praying the chains on his heart are broken so he is no longer scared to love again. His ex wife hurt him really bad. Every time he thinks about pursuing it and getting closer with me he gets scared and backs off. We have been thru alot together as well. I just miscarried his baby a week ago. He stayed with me all night and took care of my boys. He was very comforting and loving. Then on Wednesday of this week he drove me in to go shopping and stayed in the truck with the boys for 2 hours so I could shop in peace. Then once we got home he put them to bed for me. My boys love him very much and he says when he gets stable he will possibly adopt my son. I don't know if he is just saying that but its the third time he has mentioned it. How long is too long to wait for the man you love? Especially when he fits for everything you have been looking for, for your entire life? Then has 100 times more awesome traits on top of it? I couldn't love a better man. Just to let you know we quit having sex. He re dedicated his life to the lord 2 months ago and before that we had quit. He says we are friends but more than friends. We had not kissed for a while then he started again and now he is pulling away again. I am sure he loves me but he is scared. Truth be told we had not seen each ther for 6 weeks. Distance was apart of it. Then I was able to move back to the area and on dec 12th the day i got prego we made love. The best night of making love I have ever had with a man. Then we did it one more time and then we decided things were going way to fast wand we stopped having sex which is fine with me cuz sex ruins **** all the time. I just did not know I was already pregnant. He is a sweet man trust me.
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ak-angel thank you so much. you answered it very well. to the others on here reposted so much because people were getting the wrong impression about eric and even tho he would never see this i could never let him be thought badly of. he is the sweetest man and we are best friends although I love him. He is not sure how he feels yet and we are dating. I was just curious as to if i was being dumb.
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Umm the whole 6 week thing was in December. I go to the same damn church he does. This man gets down on his knees and prays and cries. He has re dedicated his life and we had quit sex a month before he even did it. Did you not see that i just lost his baby? We aint had sex in over 2 months not since dec 17th. We still talk and his kids love me and uhh hun I am only 23 and he is gonna be 36 on the 18th. We do go out on dates and the bosses at his work call me his woman and he lets them do that even tho we are friends, but more than friends. He is a christian man and we all know the power sex has on us and once in the moment how hard it is to stop. thats why when christian we are not supposed to even kiss cuz kissing leads to sex. he watches my kids all the time and he even spent over 20 hours on my damn car for free. and there aint been no sex!How Long should I wait for the man I love?
He is a keeper........wait as long as it takes.
Why is he pulling away for? He is a guy he wants sex but knows it is wrong, sometimes he pulls away when kissing for fear it will lead into more-lead where he does not want it to go.
Wait, wait, wait. This is one decent guy that is a real keeper. He is taking it slow and is really taking the time to get to know YOU.
Where else on earth are you going to find another guy like this one at?
You won't.
He sounds like a real man. A one in a million kind of guy.
Be worthy of such a guy and do not let him go. Wait.
Nothing wrong with your age difference. Don't let the age get in the way. Keep this guy. He sounds perfect.
Wish I could find one like that!How Long should I wait for the man I love?
This is fornication having sex. This isn't of God. A pure Christian wouldn't have sex until marriage. We all sin. I am thankful he serves the Lord Jesus. I know this is posted a year ago but someone may be in search of answers to your similiar situation so I commented to clear some confusion.
The confusion is that God has our plans planned out. We wait %26amp; some disagree. Why would God keep bringing the same man and/or woman into your life? There has to be a reason God does this and those who don't believe in God well it still goes both ways. Why does that person come back? Love is the ans.
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ak-angel thank you so much. you answered it very well. to the others on here reposted so much because people were getting the wrong impression about eric and even tho he would never see this i could never let him be thought badly of. he is the sweetest man and we are best friends although I love him. He is not sure how he feels yet and we are dating. I was just curious as to if i was being dumb.
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Umm the whole 6 week thing was in December. I go to the same damn church he does. This man gets down on his knees and prays and cries. He has re dedicated his life and we had quit sex a month before he even did it. Did you not see that i just lost his baby? We aint had sex in over 2 months not since dec 17th. We still talk and his kids love me and uhh hun I am only 23 and he is gonna be 36 on the 18th. We do go out on dates and the bosses at his work call me his woman and he lets them do that even tho we are friends, but more than friends. He is a christian man and we all know the power sex has on us and once in the moment how hard it is to stop. thats why when christian we are not supposed to even kiss cuz kissing leads to sex. he watches my kids all the time and he even spent over 20 hours on my damn car for free. and there aint been no sex!How Long should I wait for the man I love?
He is a keeper........wait as long as it takes.
Why is he pulling away for? He is a guy he wants sex but knows it is wrong, sometimes he pulls away when kissing for fear it will lead into more-lead where he does not want it to go.
Wait, wait, wait. This is one decent guy that is a real keeper. He is taking it slow and is really taking the time to get to know YOU.
Where else on earth are you going to find another guy like this one at?
You won't.
He sounds like a real man. A one in a million kind of guy.
Be worthy of such a guy and do not let him go. Wait.
Nothing wrong with your age difference. Don't let the age get in the way. Keep this guy. He sounds perfect.
Wish I could find one like that!How Long should I wait for the man I love?
This is fornication having sex. This isn't of God. A pure Christian wouldn't have sex until marriage. We all sin. I am thankful he serves the Lord Jesus. I know this is posted a year ago but someone may be in search of answers to your similiar situation so I commented to clear some confusion.
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The confusion is that God has our plans planned out. We wait %26amp; some disagree. Why would God keep bringing the same man and/or woman into your life? There has to be a reason God does this and those who don't believe in God well it still goes both ways. Why does that person come back? Love is the ans.
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Does this sound like true love? please help :0 long story?
I know its a bit silly asking a question of my personal life on yahoo answers, but I'm sooo bored right now and all I can do is think of him.
So heres my story.
I knew him from going to this club every Sunday and he was very sociable with me and my boyfriend at the time. I always remembered looking at him with such a profound lustful feeling. He was just beautiful to me and when he would come around me I would get butterflies. And this feeling was really forbidden because I was soooo loyal to my then boyfriend of 3 years. When we would say hi to each other I felt his vibes, it was weird. I remember asking myself ';damn does he like me?';, it was just the way he stood around me and how he looked at me. He was my type completely.
So about 2 and a half months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. He was really immature, cheated, and I got tired of his treatment towards me. So a month after we broke up I went out with a friend of mines. I remember earlier in the day we had a conversation about men and I brought up the guy's name. I hadn't seen him in about 9 months and I told my friend how lovely I thought he was and how I was hoping to see him later on that night at another club.
The moment came when we finally arrived at the club and there he was. He immediately spoke to me and through out the night all he did was stare in my direction, smile and dance in my direction. Long story short, my friend told him I was feeling him and its been a wrap after that. The next morning he called me and that same night we met.
I've never felt this way for anyone before. During that night we smiled, and smiled and smiled. His energy was so intensed my whole left side (he was sitting in the driver's seat) was warm. When he grazed my hand I felt a currency flow through my body. We kissed that night and all he could say was ';Are you really here in front of me? Am I dreaming?'; He supposingly wanted me for years. And he expressed how he couldn't stand the way my boyfriend treated me and that he wanted to steal me away so many times. The following week we questioned wheter we were falling in love. And yea we had sex....boo hoo lol. But this expereince has been beyond a ';jump off'; or 'sex thang'. When we make love we truly take each other in. We stare for long periods, we kiss each other like we are looking for treasure in each other's mouths. He literally tries to breath the same air that comes out of my body. For instance; as he layed on top of me he sniffed the air that was coming out of my nose lol. But it was serious!
We both love nature, we love to dance, we love music and we're so souful with each other. Like I feel like I've known him all my life. And when he dances I feel my heart tear in too two.....I want to be a better person because of him. When were around each other our feelings are so intense......we both just get an overwhelming feeling that thats a hold every time. And just as I'm speaking about him, he speaks of me the same. We've already cried to each other because of our profound happiness. If this isn't love then I don't know what it is....it feels so beautiful to me.....he is beautiful.....:)
I know we rushed some things, but we are going to take some time to build our selves up before going into a relationship. He calls me his Angel and I call him my King. We try not to plan for the future but is hard not too. I just see him being in my life for a loooooong time and he has said the same.
Your thoughts?
Thank you.Does this sound like true love? please help :0 long story?
That is the same feeling I got when I met my fiance it's a feeling you have never experience and it feels wonderful like nothing can go wrong. And oh yeah cannot forget about the butterflies I got when he came around and I still do after 8 months. It sounds like true love to me and it doesn't come often so I'd go for it before it's too late. The feelings you are getting is love sounds like you could really hit it off with him and find happiness I wish you the best of luck I am sure your not going to need it though. ;-)Does this sound like true love? please help :0 long story?
Oh my goodness this is beautiful.. Marry him
GOOD LUCK
It seems that it is,and on a diffrent note that was buetiful.Have you ever thought about writing love books?Anyway it is true love,becuase you both a strong feeling for one another.Just one thing,sex in the beggining of a relationship has a higher chance of ruining it.The partner could go bored and seek sex with diffrent people.
wow! I know your exact feeling.( long story on my end too, also with a little twist) anyways, I always wondered the same thing, as to why you can just meet someone and that very second you both have this amazing intense connection! love at first sight? lust at first sight? I guess you'll never really know, i would say a mix sure of both... don't you think? But oppose to meeting someone else that is surely a great guy etc etc but that connection isn't there right off hand. I would just say to not move so fast, because you two are obvious of the connection and the infatuation. Funny story me and my boyfriend are the same exact way, he was in the relationship though( this girl was a huge *****, sad to say, and treated him like crap!) and he still stayed loyal to her, once they broke up we indeed hit it off right away,( some would say to fast) but sometimes its just right, the right moment the right time, and we are still one strong relationship although its only been 6months. Anyways just thought i would comment your novel ha ha;) Keep it fresh with this guy and keep the mystery that's whats exciting.!
Hi there. I really think you are still in a hurting period after you broke up with your Ex. I read you last question. You are vulnerable at the moment. Men can be cheats...talking from experience. One question before I continue.. do you believe for all the time you have been meeting him while you were still with your ex, he didn't mess around with other girls? are you saying now that you are done with your ex..he was there waiting for you for the moment..he was a good magician if your answer is yes. I read your last experience with your Ex and I would 60% suspect that you are getting into the same trap. You have to make sure that he means what he says. I am not suggesting that he is the wrong guy..he might be mr right but you gotta make sure you read the right signs before you get yourself into a similar mess with your ex. You gotta look at the bigger picture and your future rather than the moment you look into each others eyes and think this is it. One advise I have always had for women.. you only glow until you are about 40..to be generous and after that your chances dwindle..make sure you take your prime to find the real love of your life.. the man that your ribs were formed from and there is only one in the whole universe. Sex is not all there is to a meaningful relationship..its there right love that count.Be cautious considering that you just broke up with your ex.
So heres my story.
I knew him from going to this club every Sunday and he was very sociable with me and my boyfriend at the time. I always remembered looking at him with such a profound lustful feeling. He was just beautiful to me and when he would come around me I would get butterflies. And this feeling was really forbidden because I was soooo loyal to my then boyfriend of 3 years. When we would say hi to each other I felt his vibes, it was weird. I remember asking myself ';damn does he like me?';, it was just the way he stood around me and how he looked at me. He was my type completely.
So about 2 and a half months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. He was really immature, cheated, and I got tired of his treatment towards me. So a month after we broke up I went out with a friend of mines. I remember earlier in the day we had a conversation about men and I brought up the guy's name. I hadn't seen him in about 9 months and I told my friend how lovely I thought he was and how I was hoping to see him later on that night at another club.
The moment came when we finally arrived at the club and there he was. He immediately spoke to me and through out the night all he did was stare in my direction, smile and dance in my direction. Long story short, my friend told him I was feeling him and its been a wrap after that. The next morning he called me and that same night we met.
I've never felt this way for anyone before. During that night we smiled, and smiled and smiled. His energy was so intensed my whole left side (he was sitting in the driver's seat) was warm. When he grazed my hand I felt a currency flow through my body. We kissed that night and all he could say was ';Are you really here in front of me? Am I dreaming?'; He supposingly wanted me for years. And he expressed how he couldn't stand the way my boyfriend treated me and that he wanted to steal me away so many times. The following week we questioned wheter we were falling in love. And yea we had sex....boo hoo lol. But this expereince has been beyond a ';jump off'; or 'sex thang'. When we make love we truly take each other in. We stare for long periods, we kiss each other like we are looking for treasure in each other's mouths. He literally tries to breath the same air that comes out of my body. For instance; as he layed on top of me he sniffed the air that was coming out of my nose lol. But it was serious!
We both love nature, we love to dance, we love music and we're so souful with each other. Like I feel like I've known him all my life. And when he dances I feel my heart tear in too two.....I want to be a better person because of him. When were around each other our feelings are so intense......we both just get an overwhelming feeling that thats a hold every time. And just as I'm speaking about him, he speaks of me the same. We've already cried to each other because of our profound happiness. If this isn't love then I don't know what it is....it feels so beautiful to me.....he is beautiful.....:)
I know we rushed some things, but we are going to take some time to build our selves up before going into a relationship. He calls me his Angel and I call him my King. We try not to plan for the future but is hard not too. I just see him being in my life for a loooooong time and he has said the same.
Your thoughts?
Thank you.Does this sound like true love? please help :0 long story?
That is the same feeling I got when I met my fiance it's a feeling you have never experience and it feels wonderful like nothing can go wrong. And oh yeah cannot forget about the butterflies I got when he came around and I still do after 8 months. It sounds like true love to me and it doesn't come often so I'd go for it before it's too late. The feelings you are getting is love sounds like you could really hit it off with him and find happiness I wish you the best of luck I am sure your not going to need it though. ;-)Does this sound like true love? please help :0 long story?
Oh my goodness this is beautiful.. Marry him
GOOD LUCK
It seems that it is,and on a diffrent note that was buetiful.Have you ever thought about writing love books?Anyway it is true love,becuase you both a strong feeling for one another.Just one thing,sex in the beggining of a relationship has a higher chance of ruining it.The partner could go bored and seek sex with diffrent people.
wow! I know your exact feeling.( long story on my end too, also with a little twist) anyways, I always wondered the same thing, as to why you can just meet someone and that very second you both have this amazing intense connection! love at first sight? lust at first sight? I guess you'll never really know, i would say a mix sure of both... don't you think? But oppose to meeting someone else that is surely a great guy etc etc but that connection isn't there right off hand. I would just say to not move so fast, because you two are obvious of the connection and the infatuation. Funny story me and my boyfriend are the same exact way, he was in the relationship though( this girl was a huge *****, sad to say, and treated him like crap!) and he still stayed loyal to her, once they broke up we indeed hit it off right away,( some would say to fast) but sometimes its just right, the right moment the right time, and we are still one strong relationship although its only been 6months. Anyways just thought i would comment your novel ha ha;) Keep it fresh with this guy and keep the mystery that's whats exciting.!
Hi there. I really think you are still in a hurting period after you broke up with your Ex. I read you last question. You are vulnerable at the moment. Men can be cheats...talking from experience. One question before I continue.. do you believe for all the time you have been meeting him while you were still with your ex, he didn't mess around with other girls? are you saying now that you are done with your ex..he was there waiting for you for the moment..he was a good magician if your answer is yes. I read your last experience with your Ex and I would 60% suspect that you are getting into the same trap. You have to make sure that he means what he says. I am not suggesting that he is the wrong guy..he might be mr right but you gotta make sure you read the right signs before you get yourself into a similar mess with your ex. You gotta look at the bigger picture and your future rather than the moment you look into each others eyes and think this is it. One advise I have always had for women.. you only glow until you are about 40..to be generous and after that your chances dwindle..make sure you take your prime to find the real love of your life.. the man that your ribs were formed from and there is only one in the whole universe. Sex is not all there is to a meaningful relationship..its there right love that count.Be cautious considering that you just broke up with your ex.
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