How can I make him fall for me?

i'm in love with my supervior!! although i only see him like 4 times a year ( he works at another division) i talk to him on a daily basis because i'm in charge of that divison from corporate. he has a great sense of humor and i know i like him so much because of who he is and not because of his looks. he's like 43 and i'm 20 but everytime i see him my heart breaks!! i wish i could be with him!! i heard from one of the guys that works for him that the only reason he won't ask me out is because of the age difference. although i'm not 100% sure it's true, it gave my little heart hope. What should i do?? how or should i even approach him ??i love my job and wouldn't like to lose it... also he is the cousin of the owner where i work...

do you guys think his feelings are mututal?? please help me this is my last resource. for a year i have been keeping all of this inside of me. i need advice. thanks to everyone that answers this question.How can I make him fall for me?
Go for it. You will regret it for the rest of your life if you don't go for what you want.How can I make him fall for me?
trip him
be ur self
You can force love.. if u are confused just ask him.. he is the only one who answer u
Your question alone IMPLIES that you wish to MANIPULATE someone else to do something or see something they would otherwise not see.



You can't hurry love.



You can't force it.
OH geesh, dont' get work mixed up with personal life.
mybe you can help him out, or you can go up to him and talk to him.
go ahead and and talk to im sure he does like you,im sure that person that said something about the age diff. is right but talk to that guy you like , you will never know unless you ask, so go for it girl!
If you are bold enough, just spend some time with him like a friend and make him talk with you something not dealing office....



Try to make him your close friend and then you can decide easily that how to do the stuff...
leave that alone...date someone closer to your age...(more in common) plus u dont really know him plus ...u shouldnt date or mess w/ someone in ur company above u..it really could backfire on u and be used as a bad tool to get sum trim from u..so no let it go....
Ask him out your self. Hell, I am 43 and would be flattered to be asked out by a 20 year old honey.
The next time you talk to him, ask him when he will be in town again. When he asks why, tell him that you would like the opportunity to take him to dinner. If he blows you off by saying he can't for whatever reason, there is your answer. If he gives you a date, you stand a chance. Be yourself, and when the conversation arises, tell him about your feelings that age is immaterial.
Dangerous grounds if you like your job! Let it go or look for another job and proceed to ask him out.
Well personally I wouldn't suggest mixing business with pleasure. Relationships end to often and do you want to jeapordize your job for it. When making a decision I think of the worse case sanario and if I could handle it I go for it. So you should do the same thing... Think of the worse case sanario and if its fine go for it.
be yourself go out for dinner have a talk
First of all you can't force someone to fall for you. Second, most companies have fraternization policies that discourage dating between the various rankings of employees. You are about to open yourself up to a situation that could potentially catastrophic. Also cluing in fellow employees to your feelings will only spark gossip and possible jealousy/envy. That one guy that works w/ him could be baiting you for his own personal gain. My advice, stop it before it starts. Or if you can pursue this relationship outside the workplace, do it discretely. Good luck.
You can not make anyone fall in love with you. Why would you want to make him fall for you? Wouldn't you rather him fall for you on his own? You should know that REAL love isn't forced and if it is meant to be, then it will find its way through to you. If he is not the man that God has intended for you to be with, then it doesn't need to be pursued. Anyways, even if you did try to pursue a relationship with this man and he wasn't for you in the first place, it will not work out. You will end up disappointed, TRUST ME. You will find your soulmate because your soulmate is who God had ordained for you to be with. He has set that person aside just for you because he knows what you need in a man. So, don't become upset or disappointed if things don't work out with that 40 year old because there will be someone else. What God has for you is for you.
What is your company policy about about dating under these circumstances. I would guess they would not go against it. If they allow it, then ask him if he has ever considered having lunch with you when you all get together the next time you all get together. If he says that would be great you can talk a bit about meeting again if that lunch goes well. In that next meeting you can talk about a more romantic type of date such as dinner after work sometime. And it will have a life of its own after that.



Take this slow as he may have other reasons he has not asked you out. On the other hand he may jump at this opportunity with you.