How do you fall back in love with someone?

I have been married almost 9 years and i have was sooo in love with my husband. After this time, i just fell out of love with him. I want to make the marriage work, and he states that he loves me with all his heart and wants to make me happy. But what can i do at this point i love him and see him as a friend any good advice please.How do you fall back in love with someone?
trust in God. talk to Him and ask Him for help. then start doing things you guys might have done in the begining when you first started to date. make it a point to have a date night together and spend time with your hubby. marriage is forever.. or atleast these days supposed to be forever... make it work put work into it. think about why you married this man and what made you happy in the begining and let those feelings reserface. even going to talk to an outsider like someone at a church or anyone who you both feel like you can open too.. even go through marriage conseling me and my fiance just did that and there were a lot of married couples ready to get divorces and it teahces you how to work together again. put time into this if you want it to work. do everything in your power to make your marriage work. be strong and talk to your hunsband and be honest. good luck stay strong and God will help you if you ask him for the help.How do you fall back in love with someone?
no problem like i said just trust in God and ask him for help with your marriage everything will be okay you just have to ask for help and stay positive and put effort into it. God bless.

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Time is the solution for you.
I think the ultimate question is: If he met someone else would you be hurt by it or relieved he would be freeing you?



I do not believe in staying with someone when love is gone. Without knowing, your heart is free and eventually you will fall in love with someone else and that will destroy your husband.



ADD: What I'm saying is better leave him now to find your answer, in friendly matters than to wait and have to leave him later in life cause you want to be with someone else, save him from knowing that kind of betrayal.
To rekindle a relationship one needs to be reminded of happy things that you've shared in the past. You need to look at the old pictures, letters, preserved flowers that were given, etc. Talk to your husband about the happy things in the past. I think things will just roll down back happily. You have to have a little bit of patience to do this.
I think that you should take a weekend to stay home alone with each other, or go to a hotel for the weekend. And put everything aside (stress, bill, cleaning, the kiddos) and just talk, not about the problem but just about life in general. Think back on some great times that you guys have had, especially the funny times. Sometimes it takes the simplest things to see someone in a new light. And sometimes you just have to get away from it all to be able to see the man you married, not the busy husband with responsibilities that comes with all this stress, and has to be on a schedule. He is still the same guy underneath all of this, just takes some digging to see it and get back to it. But well worth it.
Jealousy is what put the spark back into our marriage. Like someone up above me said, how would you feel if he was with someone else. Go dancing together, and dance with other people in front of each other. You will get jealous, possibly angry, but it sparks a feeling of love inside each of you that lies dormant after several years of marriage.
By acting the part, the feelings will follow.



Think about things a wife does when she's in love with her husband. Think about things you would do for him because you want to show him you care. Then think about ways you would act around him and things you would say to him. Make a list of all of these things. Then go do it! Start doing all of these things every day. Get creative with the list, spend hours on it. And keep adding to it. Stick it somewhere he won't look, and refer back to it often. Making the list forces you to plan your approach.



Most people spend more time planning a vacation then they do their own lives, let alone a marriage. So plan it! Then go plan a vacation. To celebrate falling back in love with him
i think ((like one of the answers before me said)) you guys just need to get away...do something that you used to do that you loved doing together..that you really dont get to do now. it really does work! or at least it did for me