Sunday 11 December 2011

Should i send him this ?

is it good? need some fixing? or too bad?



i look at the moon

stare at the stars in the sky

i can only think about you

and it just makes me cry

why cant i have u?

just look once in your eyes

why it never feels ok?

why do i have to say goodbye?



how did i fall in love with you?

u made it feel so right

and now i wont forget you

you're all i think about at night

i remember u wen i pick a rose

when i see a beautifull sight

when i look out my window

you simply never leave my mind



i just happened to love you

from the very start

and i promised my self

that u'll always have my heart



u make nothing feels wrong

every word u say is just gentle and sweet

like a little bird's song

that makes my heart skips a beat



you are what makes a song has a meaning

what makes love feels worth the pain

what makes good when its all bad

just like a warm dance in the rain

what makes the gray skies blue

and what makes the sun shines again



you're the music to my soul

the emotion i cant control

the one that i want here

u make my worries dissapear

and take away every fear

i just want u to know

you're far yet so nearShould i send him this ?
woowww....thats really good. only thing i would look at is a couple of times you used a plural of a word when it should be singular but that is a very beautiful poem.Should i send him this ?
spellcheck it first. Lots of mistakes in it
yes, its very passionet and it really expresses how you feel.

send it! :D
what the H$LL is that?
yes.
tatas good
Who is it to? If he is that important i would not only because you dont want to sound desprate.....It is a good peice of writting.
I love it. I felt your emotion in it
it might make him feel awkward. :C
awwwwwwwww thts really sweet

but mabe change the line tht says ';i remeber u when i pick a rose'; to some thing else cuz ik most guys dont like being compared to flowers but other then tht its awsome

How do i make him fall for me again?

okay so story is.. Me %26amp; this guy were dating for some time %26amp; i was completly in love with him. %26amp; he has convincied me that he loved me as well.. but he said when we wer together all he wanted to do was talk to me %26amp; it wasted to much of his time so he needed a break to get some things done. so i gave him a break, still in love with him, he goes out with my bff and told me it was cus they never even talk and she really liked him. i flipped. but let it go, so they broke up he tells me he loves me still %26amp; wants to hang next weekend and go back out %26amp; blah blah blah. so my friend messages him saying do you like marissa. he goes no. and she said then why you tell her that,. he said um i didnt bye. and so i thought, wow. i dont wana like someone who is gona deny me. so i said to leave me alone, wanting him to say no and come back to me. yea didn't work. so now we arnt talking.. its been three days only, but its killing me. what do i do? how do i get him back? i dont wana seem clingy, but i dont know how to not..How do i make him fall for me again?
Girl listen to what I'm about to tell you.. Leave him alone. You're the girl who he's just gonna keep going back to for a ';good time';. He's a jerk. If you go back to him he'll just break your heart. A friend of mine had the same problem. The guy ended up leaving her... for the 2nd time. If you go with him again, you're just setting yourself up for disaster honey.. Get back to me for more adviceHow do i make him fall for me again?
you brought that on yourself.....you caused this mess. go talk to him. thats as much as i can say...

Everytime i try to leave him something keeps calling me back what should i do?

I'M IN LOVE , WITH A GREAT GUY WHO CAN TED TO BE AN ASSHOLE BUT HEY THAT'S HIM AND THAT'S WHO HE IS SO IDEAL WITH THAT, BUT THAT'S NOT THE PROBLEM I BE WANTING TO SPEND TIME WITH HIM BECASUE OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND, I KNOW THAT YOU CAN'T MAKE ANYONE FALL N LOVE WITH YOU OR EVEN LOVE YOU BUT I REALLY DO WANT TO WORK ON WHAT EVER ME AND HIM HAS AND TRY TO MAKE IT MORE THAN WHAT IT ALREADY WHERE JUST FRIENDS BUT I'M READY TO SETTLE DOWN WITH HIM, NOW HE IS NOT READY FOR ALL THAT YET BUT I'M NOT READY TO MOVE ON JUST YET BECAUSE SOMETHING IS TELLING MY TO STICK WITHHIM AND STAY, HOW DO I GO ABOUT AND HANDLE THIS WHAT DO I DOEverytime i try to leave him something keeps calling me back what should i do?
To be honest I think that you are feeling something that he is not feeling and that he may never feel for you. He maybe his holding on to you because he needs somebody to be by his side at all times and not just sometimes. You are in love with him and he is Berry seeing you as a close friend. You can not but your all, and all into something and you are reserving half of it back to you. This man is holding you back from the love of your life that is out there waiting for you.

You should just be friend with him and not let your feelings get all court in the middle.

Another thing, if he really don't want to be in a relationship / get close you can't make him and if you try to make him it may push him away from you. Image if you were in his shoes what would you do and how would you go about the issue.

You are have also said that ';SOMETHING IS TELLING MY TO STICK WITH HIM'; what is it and can it help the two of you group to become partners someday. Don't think about it to long, just make the correct dissension

If you have two enemy families, how can you bring them together in one room peacefully without casualties?

I'm writing a book and it's based in Scotland in 1309, but my main character is a woman from 2009 who went back in time. She is related to one family and is suppose to marry the leader of the other family but she needs to make him fall in love with her. I need a way to get the two warring families together peacefully so she can have a chance to make him start falling for her. Any ideas?If you have two enemy families, how can you bring them together in one room peacefully without casualties?
Why not have their overlord be having some sort of gathering. Unless they're on opposites sides of the Bruce/Balliol feud, this would allow them to interact. Perhaps, a third party gathering. You could make the host someone too powerful to offend, or even make it overseas in Denmark, with the sides currying favor.



Although, given that Christmas wasn't that big a deal in that time period and the hardships of midwinter travel, the idea of a midwinter gathering that doesn't involve people staying for an extended period is rather ridiculous. You just didn't travel that time of year in Scotland, so they'd be there for a long period.



That sparks a different idea, why not have both sides forced into the shelter of a third party during a blizzard? They'd be forced to respect the host and not have open warfare, but you'd still have all the intrigue and maybe steal a bit of Shakespeare and kill off Mercutio.If you have two enemy families, how can you bring them together in one room peacefully without casualties?
I think you need to win the other family over one by one. It's too hard if everyone is hating everyone else. If she can gradually bring one person at a time to her way of thinking and then when the two families come together she has support on both sides and they can help her convince the rest of the people.

I think it's too hard just being her against everyone.
Okay, I have absolutely no knowledge of Scotland in that time, but could you have some kind of Christmas ball type thing where both families are invited? A little bit of dancing, a few drinks, maybe some mistletoe...? Any kind of party that was thrown by someone both families know would be good. Hope I helped!
I'm with Annie, a Christmas party they both attend would be a good idea, maybe have the young children getting along, or a well respected individual introducing the head of the families to one another, so they have to pretend to like one another, and find that they aren't so bad.

Fell in love with a guy who is a jerk to me because I'm fat =(?

I've known this guy around November. He's a marine. The first time we met, it was a blind date off Craigslist... yeah - I know =T and he said ';wow, I didn't know that you were big, I thought you were just chubby';





Anyways, he stayed around because he said I was really pretty but I was a big girl. We had sex and were dating and such but he would always make fat remarks and touch me around my tummy and crack jokes.





Fast forward, on Christmas he broke it off with me because he said I was fat and wanted nothing to do with me. He said he felt sorry for me and was just tagging me along. He did this AFTER I picked him up from the airport and made him dinner. (he used me to drop him off at airport which was a 40 minute drive and pick him up from after his 2 week vacation making me thing we were bf/gf and didn鈥檛 drop the breaking up stuff until AFTER I cooked him dinner and did all this stuff)





He broke it off. Then he afterwards kept contacting me and calling me on yahoo messenger, e.t.c. So we got together and fooled around again and I thought we were dating. He said we weren鈥檛 - so I assumed friends with benefits.





Later comes to realize he told me that he planned on marrying me when I lost the weight because he said I was a good potential wife. I just thought he was kidding but he was serious.





I never did lose the weight (even though I鈥檓 trying really hard for myself %26amp; my health though) - and he would say mean things like, I don鈥檛 like fat people - I would rather get a prostitute then associate myself with a fat person. ';Id rather have a skinny hooker then a piece of lard any day'; Let his friends say mean things about me and pretend their him overseas and send rude emails like 鈥渉ave you lost weight yet?'; ';I don鈥檛 like fatties';.





Now he says he wants NOTHING to do with me.





I sometimes ask - so what if I lose the weight? You would try to get with me? He would say - I don鈥檛 want to answer ';what if's'; because I know that will never happen.





He also said I would be out of his league if I did lose the weight because I鈥檓 pretty - so that鈥檚 why he sort of kept me around. Also that he鈥檚 really shy to meet other girls and that he鈥檚 with me only because he鈥檚 lonely and stupid comments like that...





I know I should move on鈥?but should I just lose weight for myself and leave him alone? Or should I lose the weight for myself and make him regret how much of a jerk he was?





The thing is... I'm scared that if I do meet him again - He'll make me fall in love with him again... =(Fell in love with a guy who is a jerk to me because I'm fat =(?
Wow, what the hell. I think you should work on your own self worth, and stop deprecating on yourself. Just because your fat doesn鈥檛 make you less of a person. and the fact that you allowed him to treat you like that since day one does not bode well for you. why should he treat you any different if that鈥檚 the way he has been treating you since day one? Why don鈥檛 you focus on yourself and what you want because frankly I think your with this guy because he verbalizes the things that you feel you are worth. Do you think someone like that will care once you lose the weight? Their will always be something to feel bad about, regret, or get you down in life. why don鈥檛 you find someone who treats you with more respect then you seem to treat yourself. Not to mention, don鈥檛 think just because you are fat that means you wont find someone. Go to therapy and work on you inner issues because that鈥檚 the only way your ever going to crack the outer ones. Dump him, work on yourself, and I hope that you have an emotional and spiritual wake up and realize your self worth.Fell in love with a guy who is a jerk to me because I'm fat =(?
lol
Big girls are best in bed in my oppinion but yeah he is a jerk for using you like that.





you should move on. believe me there are plenty of guys out there that think you look beautiful.You deserve someone that thinks youre pretty and will make you feel it.
Only lose the weight if its for you. Definitely lose the chump, though...
Lose the weight, get a new bf, and takes pics with your new bf holding your hot new body and send them to him. This guy is a total asshole and is NOT GOOD for your self esteem. Just stop talking to him and stay away. He'll get his one day.
Dump his azz and find a better guy. And never go on dates on Craiglist... that place is full of losers and serial killers.
WOW.


he is a ******** jerk.********.


okay,


let's see what i will do if im in ur shoes.


hmm.


i would lose the weight and dressed like a hot babe go see him, and after he completely wooed by my gorgeousness and cant wait to get in my pants, then magically walk away.


here's my dialog.


me(dressed really hot.): hey (whatever his name is)


him:wow..you are gorgeous....


me:thanks.


him:want me to buy u some drinks?


okay.


(chatting)


him:will u marry me?you are so gorgeous...


me:oh i want u to meet someone(magically pulls out your boyfriend(whom u met when you are not so skinny.)


then watch his expression.





but seriously, he obviously is just treating u as a **** buddy. basically his sex toy or something.


and u said he wanted to marry u ONLY when u got skinnier?


are you kidding me???


if he truly wants to marry u instead of just want a girl to show off as arm candy then he will marry u when ur chubby!





okay, are you really obese? or overweight?


if yes, then i would suggest you lose weight until you reach a healthy amount of weight for your height. it's for your health reasons.and more guys to check u out!


if no, then i say don't lose weight.why would u lose weight to only impress a guy?and the guy isnt even truly love u.





he is using u sweetheart.


it makes me furious just think ';Anyways - fast forward, on Christmas he broke it off with me because he said I was fat and wanted nothing to do with me. He said he felt sorry for me and was just tagging me along. He did this AFTER i picked him up from the airport and made him dinner.';


what a ********.





he is always on the chase, let's say ur married to him and got skinny,what if when ur old and wrinkly, he's finding some young and hot girls to screw with?





drop him.


i say you drop him right now, he is so not worth your time when he's making fun of your body!


i would personally seek revenge on him though.


i want to kill him right now, seriously.
WOOO!


First of all. Be PROUD!


and second of all.


Lose weight and make him feel like a jerk!


make him regret everything. you'll find so many men that want you, he wont even be an option anymore!
He's effed up and has issues...you need to get away from him. CRAIGSLIST??? If you can trust someone through craigslist then you both have problems. People aren't even serious about buying on there...let alone relationships.
You shouldn't have to do anything to yourself unless it is for your happiness, not his. The key is that you should love yourself, no matter what other people think. Your true love will love you for who you truly are, imperfections and all.





You need to stop torturing yourself, and stop letting him pester you. This guy is a jerk. He does not treat you right, and does not deserve you. If he wanted to marry you, he would love you for everything you are and are not.





So stop letting him hurt your feelings. Loose complete contact with him and start a fresh life.
this is going to sound harsh, but i gotta say it...you would be a fool to have anything to do with him, ever again, whether or not you lose weight. whatever changes you make to yourself should be for the purpose of making you happy and healthy, not satisfying a superficial jackass. it might be hard, but trust me, nothing good can come of having anything to do with this guy. good luck and be strong!
omg no one desever an *** hole like him


he deserves to go back to iraq or whatever and get shot


****


i take that personally cuz anyone who is made fun of for being fat should never try to get with the person who is teasing them
It doesn't matter how much you weigh....if he loves you the way you deserve to be loved, he wouldn't care.
girl im kinda chubby to you know what works buy alli drink straight tea take the pills eat healthy work out do it for yourself.
Do what you need to do about your body for yourself, never someone else. Hopefully you have learned that you should never allow someone to disrepect you and keep on dating them. Find someone who loves you the way you are, whatever way you are at the time. I'm a big woman too, and my bf absolutely adores my body. Get rid of that effing loser.
this guy's a total jerk! i can appreciate that he can see that you're beautiful despite your size but he shouldn't be so vain and conceited. if you want to lose weight, do it for yourself and forget him. if you do see him again and think you're in love with him then it's just lust, plus i don't think that sleeping with a guy before marriage is really right (no offence)
Screw him! Ok lose the weight for you and make him wish he never joked about you. If he tries anything just mimic him, tell him ';im out of your league';.
I am 99% sure you know what to do already without advice but here goes. He sounds like a real turd and more but I can't put it in writing as that is not allowed here.


He is a classic ';user'; and you are much better off without him in your life. Looks are superficial to many people and they value the person for who they are not what they look like. If you want to lose weight do it for you and nobody else. Don't do anything because someone else told you (especially after all the verbal abuse he gave you).


Think of yourself --


Take care and be good to yourself.


There will be someone else who you will care about and they will love you for you!


Sal Can
Definitely loose the weight for yourself. It will make you more confident and find someone that would treat you good even if you did gain that weight back at some point later on.





If you do meet him again, i suggest not getting back with him, but do what you think is right.
once again an example of a man bein a pig lose the weight because u want to not because he wants u to and if do lose the weight u should meet up wit him again just to show him what he lost for bein such a jerk to u weight doesnt matter all that matters is that the person ur with makes u happy (if u do meet up wit him bring friends along with u so ur friends can help u not do anything with him)
Forget the fact that he is a jerk..





Why do you allow yourself to be treated like this.


If its not him it will somebody else.


People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you.


So what if your fat?? I'm sure this marine has got way more problems than you do.





Get some counseling, a new phone number, and a pair of walking shoes.
He is the biggest jerk ever!!!! NOBODY deserves to be treated this way! He dos not deserve you at all don't give him a piece of mind at all. You should lose weight for yourself!!! And when you do don't get back with him just remember how rude he was you deserve better! And trust me honey u can find better!!!! He will regret letting you go! Don't let people like this into your life they are worthless and don't deserve any of your time!!!
Okay, you must have some serious self esteem issues to back to a guy like that. I would've never gone back to him the first time he broke it off with me for a reason like that. You should find someone new, get out, be yourself cause a guy like that does not deserve a girl like you. The only reason why you keep going back is because you feel rejected, but you have no clue that there is going to be other great guys that will treat you way better than that.
Okay for one, never let a guy ever dis-respect you like that. Men will be ***** but at the same time if that was me and it was such a big deal that I was a ';big girl';, the first thing I would have done is kicked him to the curb. For somebody to break things off the way he did was not right and you dont deserve that, I mean telling you its over because you are fat? Thats especially not right. He's toying with your mind and seems a lil like he got you rapped around his finger..Also, if he broke up with you like that and said he just felt bad for you why would you go back and lay down with him? He is just using you to get in your pants. Which is not right, but you are following. To say that he was going to marrie you if you lose weight is not right either, dont blame yourself for him not marrieing you bcuz you did not lose weight, he is doing that for laughs to you and his buddies. Trust me I know how it feels to be a bigger girl, but never step down to anybodys level. I was a pretty heavy kid growing up and in my teen years started to thin out but now I have to lose it all in two months after I have my baby. Things are confusing im sure, but let him go. Find somebody who will love and care for you, you deserve much better.
Girl, you DO NOT need a guy who is going to treat you like that!!! Love is about being comfortable with the person your with. Do you honestly feel comfortable with him when he makes all these remarks about you? Do yourself a favor and move on. Try losing the weight so you feel better about yourself and then next time he sees you he is going to regret how bad he treated you. But just forget about him, the right guy will come your way. A guy who will accept you for who u are. Good luck!!
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  • How do you fall out of love with someone?

    How do you fall out of love with someone?? Is there a way to make the process quicker? I'm in love with my friend and he likes me but he doesnt want a relationship, so we decided to stay friends. I like him too much not to be friends with him, and he was actually begging me to still be friends, so it was a mutual decision.



    How can I move on quicker? It's hard as we're still friends like I said...



    Advice?How do you fall out of love with someone?
    You cant, and as they say time heals all :(



    No matter how hard it is you're gonna have to stick it out until you find someone else.



    I still love my ex after 4 months of being apart...i still love him as much as i did the day i first met him.

    So i think im pretty much fu*#ed for the rest of my life :(



    But i guess not seeing him would have made it easier for u,

    but you cant as you are mates.

    So just stick it out and you'll find someone else hopefully soon!



    Maybe when you so, he will get jealous and realise he actually does like you back then tell you he wants you...you never know.

    And if that does happen, then its up to you who to be with.



    Good luck!!How do you fall out of love with someone?
    Unfortunately there is no way to control things like this...as much as it hurts, and I know it does. All you can do is wait and let time heal your wounds.



    Although staying friends is fine, maybe you should get out and meet more people in the meantime, occupy your time with other things than talking to him at the moment. Make time for yourself, while letting him know you're not excluding him for your life in any way. There is nothing wrong with needing time to get over these things.



    He should understand if he cares enough about you as a friend.



    Good luck
    LOL at AFWW LMFAO
    I know what your going through and the best thing to do is ask for space, if he wants your friendship to work then ask for a little space.



    then use the space to hangout with other people, other guys.



    have fun

    Have you ever been in love with troubled person?

    I am... besotted. It was passing acquaintance until 2 months ago when we met in the pub accidentally. He broke up with his boyfriend who abused him in every way (the police were involved). At the end of the night he asked if i wanted to have sex with him no strings attached(sorry for being graphic). I am single so said yes...I must admit at that time it was pure lust. He told me straight away he didn't want any commitment. Basically we spend night together once or twice a week.

    He's reckless and i fear for his life. He smokes and drinks way too much and keeps losing weight. Sometimes he cries when we make love (no i don't hurt him). I don't know how to help him. I don't even dare say i fell in Love with him. I suggested that he gets counselling but he said the last thing he wanted to do was talking to someone who's job is to pretend they care about other people's problems.

    I am at my desk at work but can't help thinking about him. He's a beautiful soulHave you ever been in love with troubled person?
    The first guy I ever loved was incredibly troubled. He was a drug addict (every drug known to man, but mostly heroin), who would steal from anyone to feed his habit. We lasted for a year and a half, and when I couldn't take it any longer and told him it was either the drugs or me, he chose the drugs. Unfortunately for me, I still loved him. He finally died of a drug overdose a few years ago, and I felt terribly guilty for not staying with him longer and trying to help him. I'm now beginning to realize that it wasn't my job to fix his life. That was his own responsibility.

    In your case, just spending time with him for now may be helpful. If you are available, when he finally decides to open up he'll appreciate you being there. But ultimately you have to realize that we are all responsible for our own lives. You can't fix his, especially if he won't open up about his problems. I completely understand how difficult this will be, but you are going to have to distance yourself from him a little emotionally so he doesn't drag you down. Think of it this way, if he were drowning, and you couldn't swim, you wouldn't jump in the water to save him, or you would both drown. So, support him, but don't get too emotionally attached until he gets his head on straight. Good luck to both!!Have you ever been in love with troubled person?
    so....who's in love with you?





    a beautiful soul. hahahaha
    At a certain point people have the start relying on themselves. He needs to take responsibility and hopefully he will when he's ready, take the steps necessary to get better and snap out of it!



    Do not take it upon yourself to fixed the damaged.
    He's a victim who will take you down with him and then tread on you as he steps over you at the end! Sorry - I know that's not what you want to hear.
    i tried to love myself..a brief infatuation,, i just wasn't worth it.

    if a friend said they were going out with me i'd warn them off.

    im a happy little soul as you can tell.

    i aimed low in life...but missed.

    im a bundle of defects looking for a personality.

    if i walk into an empty room its still empty.

    my shrink says i depress him.

    apart from that

    lifes good. i love my hamster. he loves me
    be there for him, he will need this time with you, and hope he does not hurt u emotionally in the end. OMG, that is NOT to be taken literally!!. Bad choice of words! But u get my meaning....
    I'm in love with a troubled girl, her pain effected me deeply. (still kinda does) but you cant do any more than BE SUPPORTIVE.

    Show him affection, find different ways to show him you really are somebody that cares for him. Find any excuse possible to turn up on his doorstep with flowers....





    xxoo

    Finger_lickinggood
    You can be supportive, but you can't fix someone who doesn't want to be fixed 鈥?and the only way people get around to getting themselves fixed is when the consequences of their actions become so painful that living the way they're currently living is no longer an option.



    Some people hit ';bottom'; and then do something about their lives.



    Some people don't hit ';bottom'; and their lives careen out of control and crash. That's going on with my stepbrother, who is in prison for seven DWIs, not paying child support to the ten children he fathered by different women, wrecking five cars, assaulting a policeman, etc. That's what happened with my ex (drug/sex addict, compulsive collector, alcoholic) who was killed in a pedestrian/automobile accident when he stepped backwards off the curb on the busiest street in the city while looking for his car keys which he dropped during a bender the night before.



    Sometimes the best way to help another person is to learn how to help ourselves and *detach* from the other person's *problems* without detaching emotionally from the other person. Al-Anon was extremely helpful for me in learning how to do just that. I would recommend Al-Anon for anybody in the situation I went through or the situation you just described.



    Check it out. Many gay and straight people have found it to be an invaluable resource.
    as much as you would like to think you can ';change them'; you cant if he is destructive to himself he will more than likely be destructive to you. If you like yourself at all choose life over despair and heart ache

    What do you do when the object of affection is wearing a wedding ring?

    I love my lecturer in college. By the way, i am 19 and he is 35. how to make him fall in love with me? Guys, i need ur answer. I dont want to make him have trouble in his marriage, but i just want to share the love that i feel. pls help me guys... thanks a lot..What do you do when the object of affection is wearing a wedding ring?
    Honey, that's not LOVE that you feel....it's LUST. There is no way you can fall in love with someone by sitting in a room and listening to them lecture week after week. Love is based on getting to know who someone truly is and you have no clue who this guy really is deep inside. Move on and find someone your own age who ISN'T married.What do you do when the object of affection is wearing a wedding ring?
    If you really respected him, you would not want to pursue this. He is already married.

    Besides, you are probably just enamoured with his lectures and looks.
    keep away from him....you already said that you dont want to make trouble in his marriage...but if you reveal your feelings to him...that is most likely to happen especially if he finds you attractive too or if he wants to cheat around....save yourself from heartache and dont be the cause of a marriage falling apart....
    You stay away! How can you say ';I don't want him to have trouble in his marriage'; and then say you want him to share the love you feel? Don't, steer clear, he is someone elses man and you have NO right to make a move on him. That would lead to trouble. Apart from anything he is your lecturer, which means he could lose his job (as well as his marriage) if he had any relationship other than a professional one with you. Stay away from him, look for a man that is free to have a relationship with you.
    Don't do anything. Do you really want to be responsible for breaking up a marriage, especially if they have kids. then you will screw up the kids because kids from divorced parents always have issues. even if they don't have kids its wrong. i really hope this guy is a lot smarter then you so even if you hit on him he will reject you. i know its hard to believe when your young, but there will be other guys that become your object of affection, preferably single.
    Well coming from the point of view of a 35 year old married woman, I would say he wears his wedding ring for a reason. he's married honey. That means he's made vows to someone else. You would be causing trouble in his marriage and in his life if you ';declared';your love for him. my best advice would be to find someone else alot closer to your own age, and leave the married lecturer alone. And a little FYI.....IF you declare your love, and it goes further then just a verbal declaration you could get kicked out of school and he could loose his job... and I'm sure his job,wife,and kids mean more to him then that. I hope ive helped you. Good Luck.
    Maybe you should look at your notebook while you're listening and taking notes. When you look up periodically, how about checking out the guy a few rows over who is actually available? Bet he'd be fun to know if you could figure out a way to strike up a conversation.
    This isn't real love. You're just infatuated. And you WILL ruin his marriage if he agrees to cheat on his wife. How could you think that your ';love'; for him needs to be shared? You need to rethink what love really is. You're being selfish by even thinking about this. You should NEVER get involved with someone who is married. Date someone you're own age and at your own (low) level of maturity.
    You move on to someone else. In your case, fast. There is such an age gap between you on top of that that I can't even imagine what you would have in common. You can't make anyone fall in love with you because you are manipulating their free will when you do. Put yourself in the other person's shoes. Would you want someone you are not attracted to making you fall in love with them when you don't want that attention?
    You grow up, realize he's married and off the market, and get over it. Besides, those teacher/student relationships are NEVER a good thing. What you're feeling is infatuation. Not love.
    Bend at the waist, look down at the floor, and run as fast as you can into the nearest wall. When you wake up think of how this is what you will be doing to your heart if you go any further.
    This is such a typical situation! I fell in ';love'; with my nerdy psych professor my freshman year. I see him now and laugh at my crush. I had a crush on another instructor. I actually hung out with him a few times and realized that the classroom persona that I thought was so endearing did not carry over into real life.



    You don't want him to have trouble in his marriage? Really? Then forget about it. Check out the guy without the ring (or girlfriend) sitting next to you in class.
    Grow up, get over it and move on.
    If he is wearing a wedding ring, LEAVE HIM ALONE. He is not yours. How would you feel if someone did this to you. It is completely disrespectful. What if had kids. You would be destroying a family. And as far as you don't want to make trouble in his marriage....that is exactly what you would be doing. Grow up
    LEAVE HIM ALONE. What kind of woman goes after a married man? (I can think of several words but I would probably be reported)

    This is one of those teen guy questions should i stay with him?

    so ok some time about 2 years ago i met this guy he was a sophmore with a girlfriend and i was a frosh, single. he had been with his girlfriend for a long time a year and like a week when he decided he was tired of her and decided to use me to cheat on her with. he told me not to feel bad, and we found out later she had slept with 2 other guys. to this day i still feel bad. he always said it was ok. that it would have happened or ended eventually. obviously but i dont feel that was the right way to go about it. but he told me during his infedelity that '; i dont love you, and this is just for fun, but maby one day we could fall in love, right now, this is just excitement.'; keep in mind i was young and that blew my mind, but i still had the hots for him, i really liked him, how he was and who he was, and the cheating didnt bother me. idk why it didnt bother me till later when his girlfriend found out. well before we cheated, he had become good friends with me, i lived with my drug addicted abusive mother, and one day i couldnt get a hold of anyone else to help me so i called him becuase he had told me once that if i ever needed anything to ask him. well i called him and he really helped and he became my main source of help.l felt safe with him. well after his girl found out he broke down and decided he still wanted to b with her, she said it was ok but he had to never talk to me agian so he sent me a messege one day over myspace taying he was osrry but he could never tlak to me again, ever nore acknowledge my existence. and i called him screaming and yelling later. about two weeks later they finally break up and he tries to come back and say hes sorry and i yelled at him he was my closest friend at the time and he left me after saying he wouldnt let me down. he then promised after i let hm back in my life that he would never leave me again. well our friendship grew and we had a bit of a sexual relationship and when we owuld party or be drunk or be alone and close things happend never sex sex though. i wouldnt let that happen due to fear id get to attatched. well i failed anyways cuz i got attatched and about two months later my best girlfriend ended up likeing him and he ended up likeing her, and leaving me again, never focused or spoke to me, he just left again. and then after fights and losing my friend we came togeher agiain and he swore nothing would ever come between us again. than another girl came along, and he ****** her and left calling her a skank. and acted as if he hadnt ditched me again my sophmore year his junior year a new girl, along were having fihgts about all the girls. well i have a new boyfriend finally at 8 monnths we break up. but during our first month we broke up once, and my guy friend, who i still liked regardless of my feelings for anyone esle, let me stay with him becuase i was really upset for why my boyfriend and i had broken up, and with all my problems at home, in all my tears he comforted me, and i let him sleep with me, he said it was making love, i called it just f*ing, but i learned pre marital anything isnt worth it so yeah. well my boyfriend and i got together and he stayed all 7 months messing aorund with other girls but begging fo rme to break up and be his. finally i did and i told him i didnt wanna be with him right awya because i wanted freedom and to get over my realationship. in reality i just didnt trust him to stay with me. after countless fights and him threatening his life if he couldnt have me i finally told him that after all the pain i faced with him and his infedelity i couldnt trust him and how my self destructive behavior didnt see myself fit fo him. well he said ok. we still stayed close and were still'lvoers' so to say well one day we had a really big fight and he threathend hs life agian and he had been giving his mom so much grief, so i caved and said allright. for the second time i let him manipulate me ino being his girlfriend. i told my friends they didnt like it and they wouldnt let me see him

    now he hates me and feels everything was a lie. which it wasnt i really did love him and i still do, we are best friends. and i dont mean like in love like marriage i mean like friends i loved him. we were like amazing besides our fights and our immaturity and infedelities. well. then he pulled a knife on me for dumping soda on his head for calling me a ***** while i was crying becuae he was being an *** i know mature right but what ever. well i ended up pregnent with his kid. i had a misscariage about a month in and he wont belive me or anything.

    but were talking now

    should i want him back... cuz i do...This is one of those teen guy questions should i stay with him?
    This guy sounds very inconsistent. I'd evaluate his behavior, and make a judgment call. This is for you to decide. But, I always stress, THERE ARE BETTER GUYS OUT THERE. Trust me, there's great guys out there, you just need to scope them out. In your case, I'd start searching for someone more mature and more devoted to you. But, then again, it's your choice. Hope this answers your question. Oh, by the way, people on Yahoo! Answers tend to stay away from long questions, so try to keep things as summarized as possible. Hope this helps. E-mail me if you need more advice.

    Can love literally make you love sick?

    Well, ive been feeling really sick. I haven't been sleeping that much, i get about 4 hours of sleep each night, maybe even less. Ive always been the type of girl to sleep 10 hours a day. So i don't understand what is going on. Not only am i not sleeping, but ive been eating like a pig, im usually a person that doesn't eat that much. Ive been vomiting, and it won't stop. All this started about 4 days ago, when i came back home from my cousins. Theres this guy that she knows that i kinda like. Were not really aloud to date each other because of our difference of age, and because my cousin is very protective of me. Anyways, we had this thing going on before, but nothing serious, and when i went back home last time, i really missed him and i was hearthbroken, he doesn't know that i like him. Well i saw him all over again, and then all those feelings that i was missing came back. I fell in love all over again. Anyways im back home and hearthbroken again, but ive been sick over since we've been apart. Like i said, ive been vomiting , not getting any sleep, and eating ALOT. I was wondering what was going on with me ? and if love had any thing to do with this?



    If youve experience anything like this, please share, and give me answers on how to get better.



    ps: sleeping pills aren't working at all.Can love literally make you love sick?
    Ohh yes but it can also be just in your head. That same thing happened to me, I was on a cruise once and meet this amazing guy. Whenever I wasnt with him on the boat I felt extremly light headed and always felt like throwing up. I hardly ate and couldnt sleep.



    You just have to let it pass, try to stop thinking about him and meet a new guy that lives near youu.



    I hope you feel better hunnCan love literally make you love sick?
    lol ive been through this trust me its weird cause all i do is think about them what i do is tire myself out and try my best to stop thinking of them
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    My man and I have been together for a year and a month now, we were bestfriends for three years before we started dating and we have a 4 month old son together. We say ';I love you.'; to each other everyday, but for the first time he told me he loved during a wonderful night of making love, he looked me in the eyes and said it. Now my question is has anyone ever told you they loved you during sex?? how did it make you feel when it was said?? Cause when he said it to me my heart starting beating really fast like it did the day I fell in love with him. It made me feel amazing and I knew from that moment he really is in love with me. Saying I love you during sex?
    awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.........Saying I love you during sex?
    you just answered your own question
    feels great dont it!
    Yes, and then a few days later I found out he was married, lied to me about his name, age and occupation, and had two children.

    How do you get over unrequited love?

    ok, hmmm where to begin! Basically i met up with an old work collegue/friend that i hadnt seen for 5 years and we got back in contact via facebook, we both had a thing for each other in the past that we have discussed recently and openly admitted to, at the time we were both involved with other people and so never acted upon it, now we have been seeing each other for 4 weeks and i have fallen in love with him, some would say that its too quick and just infatuation but i know how i feel and my feelings for this guy go way beyond what words can describe, however there is a problem, he doesnt feel the same, i have told him how i feel, well it sort of slipped out one day and we talked about it, he told me he cares for me deeply but does not feel that way about me, we have different religious views and his religion is a big part of his life, he does not believe in sex before marriage where as i have been sexually active for the last 5 years, so its a little differcult at times when i want to show him just how much i i love him by making love to him...but obviously things never go that far and i respect him for that, i dont want to come between him and his religion, hes quite conservative and im unconservative, two completly different people and yet if we dont see each other we miss each other like crazy and i feel somewhat incomplete and if i think about ending it as its the right thing to do i feel sick to my stomach and end up crying (not in front of him though...im not into the whole emotional blackmail thing) I need advice on how to let this guy go and fall out of love with him as i know im completly wrong for him and there is no future in it for us, and if we stay together then when its time for him to say goodbye im going to be in pieces...and i dont particully want to go down that road (seen my mum go there as i was growing up countless times) and advice...suggestions would be very much appreciated here, im completly at a loss as to how i can stop myself feeling this way and how i can protect myself from getting hurt in the long run...help!!!How do you get over unrequited love?
    time...and alcohol :)How do you get over unrequited love?
    it takes time

    Falling in love. how? what? when? where? who?

    falling in love. how? what? when? where? who?

    I am so in love with my boyfriend. He is all I think about day and night. I want him to feel the same way about me, how do I make him fall even more in love with me and please save your answers if you plan on advising me I can't make anyone fall in love with me. How do you make that transition from being the chaser to the chasee? He's 22, recently graduated from college, loves comics, The Office, movies, punk/emo music. I know he really likes me as he travels very very long distantces to see me a few times a week, calls me almost everyday, and we have fun and laugh alot together. But how do I make him want me more? What are some tips? How do you reel them in even deeper? How did you make someone fall in love with you? And if you've ever fallen in love with someone what was it that made you fall in love with them?Falling in love. how? what? when? where? who?
    Okay I will NOT answer any TRUE answer.



    Maybe if you bury a snippet of his hair in your yard and wish on it under the moonlight he will love you. or if you treat yourself as a second class citizen and put his needs first and last. Or maybe if you dress up in a big clown costume you can entertain him so much he will forget that is is ANOTHER HUMAN BEING AND NOT UNDER YOUR CONTROL.



    Opps, I forgot, you only want LIES.Falling in love. how? what? when? where? who?
    Honey all you can do is be yourself and above that let him be who he wants to be-

    there is nothing that will MAKE someone love you

    its either there or not
    Falling in love sucks. F that s#!t
    I'm just answering to say WORD to Love Yahoo!!!. Painful sh!t.
    You need to spend more time together. Make it last like an eternity. Unfortunately, you can never FORCE a person to love you equally like you will. That's the reality of life. You never expect anything in return when you love a person. Love is not a give-take relationship. It's like a boundless ocean and you're mentally prepared to fall, and be destroyed for it.



    I'm a guy and someone who failed in love. But, I still don't feel any worse for it. I'm telling you if you could love this guy with 1/10th the passion I did, it won't matter at all what he does in future.



    You can read the question I asked to understand my experience.
    love can sometimes just be addictive clinginess. It gives you a high but it eventually dissolves when you get bored with it. Real love comes from being conscious
    Kath, I'm overjoyed for you and your situation, truly, but some words of caution from a guy who's been in two committed relationships (one was a marriage) and has travelled thousands of miles to spend time with those he's loved.

    You are already far luckier than many people in this world to have someone who'll travel so far ';a few times each week'; to be in your arms, who'll call you so often and with whom you have such a great time. He already relies on you, values your company over many others' and seeks your attention and affection before anyone else's. Many married couples have left what you're now experiencing far in their past and now only have time and memories in common. Most people would be envious of the intimacy you share and the joy you have.

    Don't look for more than is reasonable to expect of any man. Let time be the factor that secures your bond. Forcing anything or placing demands on him when things are already so good will just create disatisfaction where there is now solace, trust and peace. The absolute last thing a guy wants to feel is trapped.

    Love doesn't necessarily equate to demand.

    Have patience and let every gesture and word signify how much he means to you. Just enjoy what you have. Life has a way of putting so much of what we enjoy in the past all too quickly.

    Good luck.

    How Long should I wait for the man I love?

    I love this man named eric very much. I have loved him for over 8 months now and still every dang day its gets stronger. He still takes my breath away when I see him and makes my heart skip. I wish I could fall out of love with him, but yet I want to wait till he is ready. I am praying the chains on his heart are broken so he is no longer scared to love again. His ex wife hurt him really bad. Every time he thinks about pursuing it and getting closer with me he gets scared and backs off. We have been thru alot together as well. I just miscarried his baby a week ago. He stayed with me all night and took care of my boys. He was very comforting and loving. Then on Wednesday of this week he drove me in to go shopping and stayed in the truck with the boys for 2 hours so I could shop in peace. Then once we got home he put them to bed for me. My boys love him very much and he says when he gets stable he will possibly adopt my son. I don't know if he is just saying that but its the third time he has mentioned it. How long is too long to wait for the man you love? Especially when he fits for everything you have been looking for, for your entire life? Then has 100 times more awesome traits on top of it? I couldn't love a better man. Just to let you know we quit having sex. He re dedicated his life to the lord 2 months ago and before that we had quit. He says we are friends but more than friends. We had not kissed for a while then he started again and now he is pulling away again. I am sure he loves me but he is scared. Truth be told we had not seen each ther for 6 weeks. Distance was apart of it. Then I was able to move back to the area and on dec 12th the day i got prego we made love. The best night of making love I have ever had with a man. Then we did it one more time and then we decided things were going way to fast wand we stopped having sex which is fine with me cuz sex ruins **** all the time. I just did not know I was already pregnant. He is a sweet man trust me.How Long should I wait for the man I love?
    Girl, its ultimately up to you. We can't give you a timeframe. I'm like you. I met someone who I think puts the AWE in awesome and he's scared to move on too. I got to spend 4 great months with him before he got stationed somewhere else (military). In that time, I made it clear that he needs to heal (a girl he liked before me was ready to rush into things and when it didn't go her way, she stopped talking to him.) As much as I would LOVE to be his girl, I don't want him to fear me, so I'm equally as content being his friend since I know he likes me as well. And if he does move back here after the Air Force, it won't be for 4 or 5 more years. I'd be waiting for WAY more than 8 months. It would be the easiest and hardest thing I've ever done. Easiest because I don't want anyone else. Hardest because there is such a huge void in my life from when he left.



    Guys like mine and the guy you described are worth waiting for. I'm willing to wait a lifetime for this guy. I told him that instead of being a hookup, I'd rather be his friend for life. I don't want just a guy's body. I want his heart and soul as well because I would be giving him mine iin return. If this guy is not ready for the whole enchilada, then just back off. Let him know you value him in your life and your kids, but with each kiss, touch, etc, you are falling for him and thats not fair to you either.



    Stay friends (JUST FRIENDS) until he decides he's ready. I'm sure its hard as hell. But in the end, patience will pay off and he'll love you more for waiting it out.How Long should I wait for the man I love?
    it's really all up to you. not us.
    you have ask this question a bunch of times, you want to just do it.



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    Hi Dear



    I don't think that he has committed. He will go back to his wife
    you know him better than we do
    it sound like he made his decision to move on so the best thing is for you to move on too. :0)
    It seems you have already made up your mind and you are all for it. What you need is a kind of secondment from your well wishers - I endorse what you are thinking and want to do - go for it dear - all the best:)
    IF U REALLY ';LOVE'; HIM YOUR GONNA WAIT FOR HIM ^^



    LOVE IS NOT ALL ABOUT TIME OR DISTANCE, LOVE



    IS WHAT YOU FEEL IN YOUR HEART NOT YOUR MIND HOW LONG?



    1000 YEARS IF IS TRUE LOV=)
    All the time necessary. BUT a more reasonable time would be.... like 1 year... from now.



    AND... that thing about him being scared, let me tell you ITS NOT TRUE



    The reason a man has doubts its because he is waiting the possibility of meeting a younger woman without children... BUT at the same time THAT may be a risk.



    He likes you a lot, but like I told you, the possibility of another woman is there. Maybe thats why you have not seen him for 6 weeks.



    Men can be all sweet you want, but most of them only want sex, even if they say they are closer to Jesus now. And you can verify that by the facts! thats what s been happening with you, you have reached the deepest level of intimacy a couple could have (sex) but still you dont see a commitment, just excuses.... and some of them very well known like.. OH IM SCARED, OH WE ARE GOING TOO FAST (another form to say.,... well I had sex with you, now let me tell you this excuse to appear like a sensible man, but I knew what I was doing, so its just that I desire you so much, but not to that point to have a commitment with you)



    If you want him back you have to follow some simple rules that apply to 99% of men.



    1) Do not let him see you (well that part its already done, 6 weeks)

    2) Let him see you by pure casuality, (pretend you have not seen him)

    Dress very beautiful and attractive

    If he comes to you, then act like a very happy and self confident woman... do not talk about how much you miss him... pretend to be unworried about him. Pretend to have a lot of things to do... do not kiss him in the lips when leaving (the catch here is that you have to transmit without words, that you are interested in another man)

    That will activate on his brain the idea that he is losing you to another male....



    3) Never directly talk about other man or let him see you with another man (You are building tension, and jealousy in his mind, but not anger)



    4) Dont have sex with him.... you will dress beautiful... and youll apper from now like a difficult woman... a woman desired by other males....

    But usually when men have sex they lose interes

    Sexual desire is another thing you have to accumulate in him

    Help! A demon is in love with me!?

    Please don't answer this question if you know nothing of demons or if you want to mock me.....I have had a taste of hell and I need answers.


    Please don't tell me to call the police. You'll read why later.





    A man with an attachment is in love with me-or his demon is in love with me. I know this sounds strange, but this man has stalked me for 2.5 years and tried to coerce me into leaving the father of my child to be with him.





    He tells everyone how I was his wife in a past life and how he is going to marry me again. He even told everyone he would be going ring shopping. The first time I looked in his eyes I thought I recognized him and when he asked me if I was his wife in a past life I answered yes. We looked into each other's eyes and fell in love.....I could not act on this desire bc I am 10 years older, am in a relationship and I was 4 months pregnant. I wrote it off as impossible and figured he would loose interest....after all, he is very handsome and sexy, has money and is younger.....he didn't lose interest....he did everything he could to put himself in my proximity.





    He has slept outside of my home, said my name outside of my bedroom window, left love letters in my car begging me to leave my fiance and to please make love to him, he has masturbated in my car and coated my steering wheel with semen, broke into my house and masturbated several times on one of my used maxi pads forming a ';bannana boat'; holding approx 1/3 cup of spooge!


    He got the keys to my house, has watched me sleep and masturbated on the bed beside me.


    Calling the police is the wrong thing to do bc he knows every cop in town, has money and ';connections.';


    A friend of his told my fiance' that this man has a ball of my hair and handfulls of my barrettes and other hair accessories....


    What steps should I take to rid myself of this man and his attachment. My fiance' says that the demon wants me because I have a powerful soul and I am unmarked. Please help me understand this situation.....explain why and how a demon is in love with me and what I should do to make it lose interest and get on with my life.Help! A demon is in love with me!?
    Demons cannot fall in love, they can only lust. Love does no harm to the person loved. Demons can drive people to lust after things that are not theirs and get them whatever means it can.





    In this case the man doesn't love you though he claim he does. If he loves you he wouldn't be doing the things he did to you. He's just lusting after you.





    He may be either having a real demon or just faking the demon thing or disillusioned. He's is definitely a pervert.Help! A demon is in love with me!?
    I'll bet he's a demon in the sack.





    If your fiance thinks he's a demon, it sounds like he's the one that's mentally ill. You might ask yourself why it is that you are so attractive to crazy people.
    I don't see anything ';demoniac'; about this.
    I'm sorry but he's not a demon, he's just a sick pervert. If he was a demon, he wouldn't be doing things like that because they are obviously turning you away from him. Demons are smarter than most people would probably think, and it would probably be able entice you. oh, and demons hate humans. they would never love one.
    Alyssa Milano?
    Time to report this nutcase to the police, restraining orders, et al.
    This is weird. You should move if he has that much influence with the police. He may hurt you, your fiance, or your child.





    btw, I have had some experience with a demon before- they were not good experiences. I don't think they fall in love. They seem to want to possess. Really think about it how can a demon know how to love? It would not be a demon if it did.
    Um gross. You can't be serious. But I do think you have a sick mind.





    Ummm how did he get into your car and how did he get keys to your house? This all just sounds too unreal...';he has masturbated in my car and coated my steering wheel with semen, broke into my house and masturbated several times on one of my used maxi pads forming a ';bannana boat'; holding approx 1/3 cup of spooge!


    He got the keys to my house, has watched me sleep and masturbated on the bed beside me.';
    First of all, call the cops, and if you can't trust the local police, go to a higher level, like state or federal. Second, I recommend a psychologist, because it sounds like you're asking for a lot of these things to happen to yourself. Don't be weird, just be mature, responsible, and do what is best for you and your family.
    That is one crazy problem. The mention of a ';demon'; is simply complicating (unnecessarily) the situation. It's simple - you have a crazy stalker after you. That's all. I don't know why your fiance should bring up demons and make the situation worse for no reason.





    I know you said not to say ';call the police';, but you have no choice. He is committing crimes and he needs to be dealt with. The police are the only ones who can do this. If they refuse to act because the guy is well connected, there are authorities you can complain to about the corruption of the police force. Either way, you need to report him and soon, before he does something really crazy.
    just lock this fool up before he gets toasted
    Firstly, you must understand the difference between demonic and plain old obsessive.





    if you can't call the police, relocate to another state, another country even. it may come down to him attempting killing your family to be with you.





    in the mind of the psychotic, it's all about cutting out the middleman to get what you want, and in this case, that would be your husband and child.
    It seems you really do believe in demons as people as do I. I have yet to come into contact with one but I am greatly interested in this matter. If you wouldn't mind please enlighten me.





    jacobfitz4@yahoo.com





    Also to answer your question. If you have such a vast knowlege of demonic arts can't you go ';constantine'; no his ***? You know holy water and a cross? Silver bullets? I mean no offense by this and am completely serious. Email-me
    He's a crazy man with an unhealthy obsession. Why are you letting him off easy by blaming a ';demon';?





    If you don't want to get a restraining order or take any other actions, then you are just going to have to deal with it. But for your sake I hope he doesn't turn into one of those that goes berserk and does anything drastic.
    This is a stalker not a demon, you should call the police and have him arrested. What the hell is wrong with your boyfriend that he'd sit idly by while you are being stalked and harassed by this psycho?
    Try not to worry. In 3 or 4 months he will tire of that and one night break into your home and kill you while you sleep. YOU TWIT!! Call the Police. People like this are severly disturbed. He will eventually get to the point that he realizes he will never have you. At that point he may decide that no one else can either. Oh, and buy a gun, and learn how to protect yourself with it. Friends with the Police? They make these things called Video Cameras. Buy one and carry it around with you. He sees you pull it out of the car and start taping him, he might get the idea. If he doesn't, you will have the proof you need when you call the police.
    Hi Rose, Sorry to hear that you are having troubles.





    This is called ertomania. It happens when someone is obsessed to the point of believing that they are ';destined'; to be with someone or that they have been together in the past.





    Ertomania is unfortunately a problem that doesn't go away on it's own and can escalate.





    There are several books on the subject, I would recommend ';Stop Stalking Me'; by Macian. This describes the emotional technics used by those suffering from ertomania and how to deal with them.





    As long as you are in an emotionally vulnerable state, it is difficult for you to see things clearly. There is a romanticism to the idea that someone would do ANYTHING to be with you and that can be very compelling. But you do need to protect yourself and your family.





    best wishes

    How old do you have to be to fall in love?

    is there an age...or not? am i jst a 13 year old girl way over her head. are the tears i've shed for the past 8 months fake...are they jst so i believe im in love? is it all jst physcological? am i really in love. can i ever repair the whole that is metiphorically through my heart. can i ever say sorry enough times to be forgiven. what if he doesnt, never did, and never will love me back....what if i never see him again. i rather have one minute with him (good, bad, or indifferent) then a life time with someone else tht wuld make me happy. love is the best and the worst thing that has ever happened to me...what do you think? what age do you have to be to fall in love?How old do you have to be to fall in love?
    love has no age limitHow old do you have to be to fall in love?
    Love knows no age. It can come to you anytime. When you fall in love, it just hits you, whenever, wherever, and whoever. Right? So i think that there's an age when it comes to love. Its the feeling that you feel for someone. You can't stop it.
    There is no such thing as love--not that I know of anyway.

    How Long should I wait for the man I love?

    I love this man named eric very much. I have loved him for over 8 months now and still every dang day its gets stronger. He still takes my breath away when I see him and makes my heart skip. I wish I could fall out of love with him, but yet I want to wait till he is ready. I am praying the chains on his heart are broken so he is no longer scared to love again. His ex wife hurt him really bad. Every time he thinks about pursuing it and getting closer with me he gets scared and backs off. We have been thru alot together as well. I just miscarried his baby a week ago. He stayed with me all night and took care of my boys. He was very comforting and loving. Then on Wednesday of this week he drove me in to go shopping and stayed in the truck with the boys for 2 hours so I could shop in peace. Then once we got home he put them to bed for me. My boys love him very much and he says when he gets stable he will possibly adopt my son. I don't know if he is just saying that but its the third time he has mentioned it. How long is too long to wait for the man you love? Especially when he fits for everything you have been looking for, for your entire life? Then has 100 times more awesome traits on top of it? I couldn't love a better man. Just to let you know we quit having sex. He re dedicated his life to the lord 2 months ago and before that we had quit. He says we are friends but more than friends. We had not kissed for a while then he started again and now he is pulling away again. I am sure he loves me but he is scared. Truth be told we had not seen each ther for 6 weeks. Distance was apart of it. Then I was able to move back to the area and on dec 12th the day i got prego we made love. The best night of making love I have ever had with a man. Then we did it one more time and then we decided things were going way to fast wand we stopped having sex which is fine with me cuz sex ruins **** all the time. I just did not know I was already pregnant. He is a sweet man trust me.



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    ak-angel thank you so much. you answered it very well. to the others on here reposted so much because people were getting the wrong impression about eric and even tho he would never see this i could never let him be thought badly of. he is the sweetest man and we are best friends although I love him. He is not sure how he feels yet and we are dating. I was just curious as to if i was being dumb.



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    Umm the whole 6 week thing was in December. I go to the same damn church he does. This man gets down on his knees and prays and cries. He has re dedicated his life and we had quit sex a month before he even did it. Did you not see that i just lost his baby? We aint had sex in over 2 months not since dec 17th. We still talk and his kids love me and uhh hun I am only 23 and he is gonna be 36 on the 18th. We do go out on dates and the bosses at his work call me his woman and he lets them do that even tho we are friends, but more than friends. He is a christian man and we all know the power sex has on us and once in the moment how hard it is to stop. thats why when christian we are not supposed to even kiss cuz kissing leads to sex. he watches my kids all the time and he even spent over 20 hours on my damn car for free. and there aint been no sex!How Long should I wait for the man I love?
    He is a keeper........wait as long as it takes.



    Why is he pulling away for? He is a guy he wants sex but knows it is wrong, sometimes he pulls away when kissing for fear it will lead into more-lead where he does not want it to go.



    Wait, wait, wait. This is one decent guy that is a real keeper. He is taking it slow and is really taking the time to get to know YOU.



    Where else on earth are you going to find another guy like this one at?



    You won't.



    He sounds like a real man. A one in a million kind of guy.



    Be worthy of such a guy and do not let him go. Wait.



    Nothing wrong with your age difference. Don't let the age get in the way. Keep this guy. He sounds perfect.



    Wish I could find one like that!How Long should I wait for the man I love?
    This is fornication having sex. This isn't of God. A pure Christian wouldn't have sex until marriage. We all sin. I am thankful he serves the Lord Jesus. I know this is posted a year ago but someone may be in search of answers to your similiar situation so I commented to clear some confusion.

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    The confusion is that God has our plans planned out. We wait %26amp; some disagree. Why would God keep bringing the same man and/or woman into your life? There has to be a reason God does this and those who don't believe in God well it still goes both ways. Why does that person come back? Love is the ans.

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    Does this sound like true love? please help :0 long story?

    I know its a bit silly asking a question of my personal life on yahoo answers, but I'm sooo bored right now and all I can do is think of him.



    So heres my story.

    I knew him from going to this club every Sunday and he was very sociable with me and my boyfriend at the time. I always remembered looking at him with such a profound lustful feeling. He was just beautiful to me and when he would come around me I would get butterflies. And this feeling was really forbidden because I was soooo loyal to my then boyfriend of 3 years. When we would say hi to each other I felt his vibes, it was weird. I remember asking myself ';damn does he like me?';, it was just the way he stood around me and how he looked at me. He was my type completely.



    So about 2 and a half months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. He was really immature, cheated, and I got tired of his treatment towards me. So a month after we broke up I went out with a friend of mines. I remember earlier in the day we had a conversation about men and I brought up the guy's name. I hadn't seen him in about 9 months and I told my friend how lovely I thought he was and how I was hoping to see him later on that night at another club.



    The moment came when we finally arrived at the club and there he was. He immediately spoke to me and through out the night all he did was stare in my direction, smile and dance in my direction. Long story short, my friend told him I was feeling him and its been a wrap after that. The next morning he called me and that same night we met.



    I've never felt this way for anyone before. During that night we smiled, and smiled and smiled. His energy was so intensed my whole left side (he was sitting in the driver's seat) was warm. When he grazed my hand I felt a currency flow through my body. We kissed that night and all he could say was ';Are you really here in front of me? Am I dreaming?'; He supposingly wanted me for years. And he expressed how he couldn't stand the way my boyfriend treated me and that he wanted to steal me away so many times. The following week we questioned wheter we were falling in love. And yea we had sex....boo hoo lol. But this expereince has been beyond a ';jump off'; or 'sex thang'. When we make love we truly take each other in. We stare for long periods, we kiss each other like we are looking for treasure in each other's mouths. He literally tries to breath the same air that comes out of my body. For instance; as he layed on top of me he sniffed the air that was coming out of my nose lol. But it was serious!



    We both love nature, we love to dance, we love music and we're so souful with each other. Like I feel like I've known him all my life. And when he dances I feel my heart tear in too two.....I want to be a better person because of him. When were around each other our feelings are so intense......we both just get an overwhelming feeling that thats a hold every time. And just as I'm speaking about him, he speaks of me the same. We've already cried to each other because of our profound happiness. If this isn't love then I don't know what it is....it feels so beautiful to me.....he is beautiful.....:)

    I know we rushed some things, but we are going to take some time to build our selves up before going into a relationship. He calls me his Angel and I call him my King. We try not to plan for the future but is hard not too. I just see him being in my life for a loooooong time and he has said the same.





    Your thoughts?

    Thank you.Does this sound like true love? please help :0 long story?
    That is the same feeling I got when I met my fiance it's a feeling you have never experience and it feels wonderful like nothing can go wrong. And oh yeah cannot forget about the butterflies I got when he came around and I still do after 8 months. It sounds like true love to me and it doesn't come often so I'd go for it before it's too late. The feelings you are getting is love sounds like you could really hit it off with him and find happiness I wish you the best of luck I am sure your not going to need it though. ;-)Does this sound like true love? please help :0 long story?
    Oh my goodness this is beautiful.. Marry him



    GOOD LUCK
    It seems that it is,and on a diffrent note that was buetiful.Have you ever thought about writing love books?Anyway it is true love,becuase you both a strong feeling for one another.Just one thing,sex in the beggining of a relationship has a higher chance of ruining it.The partner could go bored and seek sex with diffrent people.
    wow! I know your exact feeling.( long story on my end too, also with a little twist) anyways, I always wondered the same thing, as to why you can just meet someone and that very second you both have this amazing intense connection! love at first sight? lust at first sight? I guess you'll never really know, i would say a mix sure of both... don't you think? But oppose to meeting someone else that is surely a great guy etc etc but that connection isn't there right off hand. I would just say to not move so fast, because you two are obvious of the connection and the infatuation. Funny story me and my boyfriend are the same exact way, he was in the relationship though( this girl was a huge *****, sad to say, and treated him like crap!) and he still stayed loyal to her, once they broke up we indeed hit it off right away,( some would say to fast) but sometimes its just right, the right moment the right time, and we are still one strong relationship although its only been 6months. Anyways just thought i would comment your novel ha ha;) Keep it fresh with this guy and keep the mystery that's whats exciting.!
    Hi there. I really think you are still in a hurting period after you broke up with your Ex. I read you last question. You are vulnerable at the moment. Men can be cheats...talking from experience. One question before I continue.. do you believe for all the time you have been meeting him while you were still with your ex, he didn't mess around with other girls? are you saying now that you are done with your ex..he was there waiting for you for the moment..he was a good magician if your answer is yes. I read your last experience with your Ex and I would 60% suspect that you are getting into the same trap. You have to make sure that he means what he says. I am not suggesting that he is the wrong guy..he might be mr right but you gotta make sure you read the right signs before you get yourself into a similar mess with your ex. You gotta look at the bigger picture and your future rather than the moment you look into each others eyes and think this is it. One advise I have always had for women.. you only glow until you are about 40..to be generous and after that your chances dwindle..make sure you take your prime to find the real love of your life.. the man that your ribs were formed from and there is only one in the whole universe. Sex is not all there is to a meaningful relationship..its there right love that count.Be cautious considering that you just broke up with your ex.

    He's making me fall 'under his spell'?

    Helloo :) This is long so if you could read this, then thank you ;D



    Um basically, This friend of mine called Callum is trying to make me fall in love with him, when i'm with my boyfriend of 19 months. I understand that he 'likes' me but it's getting to the point where he going way over the top.



    He says 'Your beautiful' 'Your hot' blah blah, but then he says 'I can't wait to see you next time when you come round, half naked and what we will do' and all that kind of stuff, if you get me. He also kissed me on friday, which i told my boyfriend about.



    I don't want him to hate me, i just want to be friends and i dont want him doing this because im scared he'll pressure me into doing things if i go round his next, (he wants me round this week sometime :/) and knowing me i'll just follow along cos i dont want him having a go :(



    I love my current partner to bits and do not want to lose him but i wanna know how to let this boy down gently and hopefully get the message that i dont want him! He made me fall for him a while back but i shook it off cos i was with my current partner but now he's trying to bring these feelings back, and it's annoying!



    How do i let him down but i dont want to be harsh :(?He's making me fall 'under his spell'?
    Tell him bluntly. Seriously, you must remove any and all hope he may have going on within his head.



    You want to keep him as a friend? Why? He's a nice guy? The only reason why you both are friends is because he has feelings more than friendship for you. He is working things towards that angle, and you are merely being friendly. He believes that he can steal you away, and he may have gotten close -- but failed. He should have realized it then, but for whatever reason hasn't. He revealed his cards, and continues to state his cards -- which is utterly and completely wrong when wanting to appeal to someone within a relationship. It should always be implied via sexual tension, but never stated/declared.



    And, in removing his hope of being with you -- chances are that ';friendship'; will quickly deteriorate.



    What he is doing -- I used to do...quite a bit. However, while I was always successful at getting the girl to cheat I was never able to cause a break up. It is actually fairly hard to get someone to break up with their current bf/gf for you. Normally, there is something wrong with their current relationship. They tell me, a friend, and I give them good advise on how to deal with it. However, I now know what they look for in a guy, and what they want. I can then shape my actions to appeal directly to the girl -- making me look like the ';perfect'; guy. Though, you never state your feelings during the process. There are only a few moments in which it is even viable, and you must be sure the girl will respond kindly. And, of each of these girls that didn't leave their boyfriends...I talk to them maybe once every couple months, or years.



    Guys/Girls do not make friends unless one of them has feelings for the other. That is what causes/allows the connection. Now, if they ever reveal their feelings is something totally different, but I can assure you that someone within the friendship will always have feelings for something more.



    However, if you want to keep him on the side in case you and your current partner break up...that's up to you. But, I would say -- tell him you're with your partner, and you're not leaving for him. You will not ever leave for him, and to stop trying to cause problems between you and your current partner.



    As long as there is hope for him in his eyes...he will not stop. And, you're the only one who can give him that hope -- or remove it.



    If he persists...get a restraining order, heh.He's making me fall 'under his spell'?
    buno pues nunca entendi la pregunta jaja asi que no pude contestarte disculap...^^...

    bye..



    saludos desde mexico..
    Unless you are harsh he'll probably think you're trying to play hard to get.
    just say if your my friend you would respect me and my relationship

    if you care you would be a true friend.

    but the Truth is he just want to test drive you not that you would but if you gave him some he will not show much interest.
    some guys never learn my freind u might have to harsh , he sounds like the type of guy who knows what he wants and gets what he wants, he sounds very pushy too. not the kinda guy ide be freinds with, im sorry but u might have to be harsh,
    I'm afraid you're going to have to be direct and just tell him you're not interested in him. It might seem harsh but its the best way to get the message across. Don't feel like you owe him anything or you need to protect his feelings, otherwise if you let this go on it could bring trouble.
    best thing to do hun is to talk to him say hey i really want to be your friend and nothing more i love my bf and i would appreciate it if you could back off just a little we could still hang out and stuff but just as friends.

    or maybe just slowly back away if that doesn't work don't ans his calls or texts. try not to be around the places he usually is

    hope i helped!

    How does a taurus guy fall in love with a leo woman?

    Hi,



    I'm a female Leo and falling for a Taurus guy. Most of the astros say we are not a compatible couple but I hope we will. I made quite a few moves but he didn't response much. He's been quiet and I rarely see him apart from we hang out in groups. It's one reason that I made a move because I want to see him more to get to know him more. I'm scared of making a move now because I feel down and a little bit hurt when he doesn't response. I don't know how to read signs if he's interested or not.



    Sometimes I want to get over it and move on, but my feeling for him is so real so I'm still waiting. Any successful stories out there between a leo woman and a taurus guy and what did you do to make him fall for you? I'm being very patient here and try not to dominate him.



    My ex is Sag but it didn't work out though we should be a good match. So, I think there are chances that the taurus guy and me can have a good relationship. Can you please share your stories?



    Thanks heaps,



    LeoHow does a taurus guy fall in love with a leo woman?
    Well Leo, my Mom is a Leo %26amp; my dad is a Taurus and they have been married for 44 years....I married a Taurus as well we have been married for 17 years. You have to make the first move when it comes to these guys. My Mom did and so did I. They are quiet and homebodys that love deeply. They do have a wicked temper when pushed too much though. They are very happy at home watching TV %26amp; tinkering around the house. They also make great Dads....at least in my experience. Good luck %26amp; best wishes.How does a taurus guy fall in love with a leo woman?
    IVE BEEN THERE TOO..IM A SCORPIO GIRL FELT FOR A TAURUS GUY TOO..THE B@$TARD$ R TOO DAMN ATTRACTIVE TO ME AND CANT GET OVER THEM EASILY....HOROSCOPES IS NOT A LAW, GOD IS THE LAW..HOROSCOPES R THE RULES AND RULES R OFTEN BROKEN...GOOD LUCK
    Dealing with a Taurean isn't easy for everyone, especially Leos. Avoid fooling yourself. Don't try to reform the Taurean, or force him to do things your way. If you do, there is conflict and little else. With Taurus, be patient. Taurus is stubborn--- so is Leo. Together the combination is interesting, but might not get off the ground. However, if it does, then there is every likelihood that both will benefit. The Taurus Venus combines with your Sun signification to create mystery, intrigue. Many puzzle over the relationship. But everyone pays attention. And attention is something you crave.
    I am an astrologer and agree that you guys are not a compatible couple. But somrtimes the signs are wrong!-trust me it's happened!! Anyways try asking him out!



    I'm a taurus and I have fallen for a Saggitarius!! In the end it didn't work out.
    If you were a taurus woman, it should be okay.



    ';You are leo and you need someone to treat you like a queen. You like to be surrounded by luxury and literate friends..or beautiful clothes, parties but Taurus man expects you to hang around in a small apartment';
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  • When you have managed to fall in love in a friend who is married, how do you make yourself NOT be in love?

    Don't say i'm stupid... i already know that. (:

    He's a wonderful person and i consider him really close friend. i've obviously fallen in love with him and i want to stop and go back to thinking of him as just a friend.

    He doesn't know that of course and i don't plan on telling him.

    i'm pretty certain he loves his wife so his marriage is definitely safe. :)



    How do i stop?

    We haven't seen each other - ever - it's an online friendships (and it really is that; these things can happen on the Internet; there's nothing fake, i know who he is and he knows me as i am).



    i don't want to change our relationship, just my feelings. Please don't tell me to just stay away... ok? (:



    Thank you for your help. :)When you have managed to fall in love in a friend who is married, how do you make yourself NOT be in love?
    well, one things for certain, if you never seen him in real life, then how could you know who he is?

    its really easy to fall in love on the internet- many good points are accentuated on MSN or email- answers can be thought up with time and care...

    no, you shouldn't stay away- hes a friend, right? friends look after one another, in a way that no lover can...

    its ok to love him as a friend- friends do love- they care for their friend and they wish no harm befalls upon them...

    its hard to go against your heart... but there are loopholes...

    love him as a friend...

    though I must say... if you are lookin' for a relationship- onlines usually not where its at...

    we're not ingrained genetically to be lovin' jpeg images and txts...When you have managed to fall in love in a friend who is married, how do you make yourself NOT be in love?
    sleep with him once that will tell you what to do
    don't lead him on.
    Back way, way off. Find something else to think about and do with your time. Do something for someone less fortunate than you. Get out of the house and off the computer. You can't find someone who is available, and you are clear that this guy is not, if you are sittin home. You are not stupid but you are nuts if you keep doing the same thing the same way and expect a different result.

    How do you convince someone the person they're in love with isn't interested in them?

    I work as a kind of dating advisor for this website, and I often get people giving me this classic situation: I love this girl, but she says she just wants to be friends. How do I make her fall in love with me?

    Usually, somewhere in there is something about how the girl either just got out of a relationship with a jerk, or is interested in a jerk. Often, these people have been pining over the same girl for months, even years.

    From what they tell me, it's obvious that the girl has little to no romantic feelings for the guy, and that she just sees him as a friend. But when i've tried to convey this, the guy usually gets upset or huffy.

    Anyone have any ideas as to how to get through to a guy like this? How can you get a guy to see past his emotions and realize that she's just not interested?How do you convince someone the person they're in love with isn't interested in them?
    Yes, let them realize their love is singular, meaning they are holding on to the feelings they have for the person, not the person. As wierd as this may sound to some, yes even love can be selfish, it's not that you actually want that other person, it's more like going through withdraws from that great feeling, and if you let them go it's cold turkey time. If there was only a love patch :) People do turn on and off at different times so there is always the ';chance'; that the other person will awaken from that not feeling anything for you, but more than likely your always in this futile battle against yourself when you end up on the giving end and with no reciever, and no give back.How do you convince someone the person they're in love with isn't interested in them?
    forget it, people won't believe until they fet hit.

    Please help - how do you fall out of love with someone?

    If you don't care about the insignificant dramas of a perfectly average human being, don't bother.



    This is certainly not just some typical crush. It's a hopeless, mindless, selfless waste of energy. I've tried everything - talking myself out of it, trying to reason, trying to make myself love someone else, but I can't. I've tried to find huge flaws in him and have failed miserably. And I can't avoid him; we're in a situation in which that's impossible. I've even tried doing nothing at all - and that obviously hasn't worked, either.



    Any responses are warmly appreciated. This is wasting my life away and taking my focus away from other things that I try to believe are more important.Please help - how do you fall out of love with someone?
    In my experience, it is extremely rare for somebody to actually be in your stated situation. However, again in my experience, it is far from rare for someone to describe the situation they are in as you have done. It is reasonably common for someone to sincerely believe that they are hopelessly in love with someone who pays them no romantic heed.



    This means that, in all probability, the person who so strongly attracts you is also attracted to you. It also may mean that this person is as concerned as are you about the 'impossibility' of the feeling, and is trying hard to cease feeling this way.

    Further, I suspect that you would answer as I am doing were someone to ask of you the question you ask.



    Unless somebody is quite 'unusual', the cliched 'unrequited love' scenario very, very rarely comes about. Most of us have a strong self-preservation facet of our personality that only allows us to 'fall in love' if some chemistry has prompted us to. That does not mean that sometimes love never BECOMES unrequited, however.



    It is quite possible to respond to a fleeting sign of 'interest', an interest sparked only by habit perhaps, an interest that dissipates quite rapidly, and, in this situation, the love one is left with IS actually 'hopeless'. Here, you will have slightly misinterpreted the man's interest, but you are most unlikely to have imagined an interest that did not exist at all.



    Little, if any, of this is done at an intellectual or conscious level. It frequently appears that one has 'fallen in love' by sheer chance, particularly if you have an ego well in control. I truly believe that sheer chance almost never is involved.



    Usually, once this latter situation is acknowledged, the love will die away quite quickly. If it does not, it can be a bitter period of ones life, and it has been known to last for years.



    A girlish crush - typically directed toward a pop-star - is quite different to the feeling you have, I would imagine. Your very language as you describe the situation is far removed from one at the stage where a crush is formed, and you also seem to be very self-aware.



    You have probably responded to a man who felt (feels) an interest in you, (a man who may not be completely happy in his marriage), but you are left with a very vexing emotional situation, and he may not be. I do hope that a resolution appears quickly, one way or another.



    Edit. There is a powerful relationship already. The man, not atypically, has somehow managed to sublimate his delight in you, perhaps, but rapport as you describe is found ONLY amongst those with love for each other.

    ( I only 'know' this because I am similarly involved with someone. The sense of 'hopelessness' lasts, but the sublimated relationship CAN become far deeper and far more beautiful than a more 'normal' one. With an art as immense as music to serve as a substitute for an orthodox romance, it is easy to see why this can be so...)Please help - how do you fall out of love with someone?
    Only the time helps to forget
    Time away from that person heals.BOTTOM LINE!!!
    what you need to do is stay as far away from him as possible even if you would die to see him.

    you need to get your mind on a big project of some kind.don't give your mind time to think about him.

    when i LOVED this guy and could not get my mine off of him, this is the plan i use.i call it my ';get over boy fast'; plan.i hope this helped!!



    -luna
    Yikes Rachy, (pun?, pun?...maybe). Well, it sounds to me like this is one of those mind over matter roadbumps in life. Either you're trying to find a way out of this relationship and can't, or your question is more or less rhetorical and the real quest is for reassurance. Since you're seeing the negative effects on your mind and in other areas of life, then something has to change with this relationship. Either you need to reevaluate your goals with him and decide on less time spent together etc., or you should break up. I say break up with him...and commit to that decision. Since you said you have to be around this guy (maybe work or something), you'll have to just be that much stronger and more resolute in your decision. Sorry for the bad news, but that's the answer I came up with. Take charge, you got this! Good luck!

    How do you stop yourself falling too deeply in love with someone ?

    I'm only young and I don't want to fall completely in love with my boy.



    Chances are it won't last because we are both teens.



    I want to make sure I love him, but I'm not in love with him because I can't take the breakup :(How do you stop yourself falling too deeply in love with someone ?
    You can't really control your feelings without constantly saying to yourself ';I won't get to into this'; and in all honesty, that's not fair on either of you. If you aren't able to handle a break-up then you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.How do you stop yourself falling too deeply in love with someone ?
    distract yourself! go get a makeover :)
    Ask him what are his dreams...

    And if they don't include you then you know he is not worth it.
    Why would you want to stop yourself from falling in love? Thats like saying you wouldn't want to have children because of the pain of childbirth.



    Relationships are beautiful. In your teens, twenties, and later, it doesn't matter.



    I've been through really painful breakups.. really bad...with the person I'm with now!!!! But what has us together and really happy these days is that I decided to open my heart and just let things happen.



    You can never avoid what your heart feels and you don't want to regret later not showing affection to someone you really care about so forget about the pain. Be optimistic and think of all the love dovey dates and things you can do now!!!
    oh my god :) that is sweet i have almost the same problem, but i don麓t know how you ca stop loving someone! i don麓t even know if this is possible :(
    Shoot them =]

    *joke*

    Ur in control of wat u do no one else
    simple answer.. You Cant!

    If he say he care for you,does it mean he love you?

    hi everybody,i have somebody here with me,we are staying togethere,but he never tell me that he love me,he just say he care about me,what does it mean?because im starting to fell in love with him,and one night he told me he really like the women in texas,then i just cry,and he hug me telling me this thing';he said i just wanna be honest,but i ask him if he love me,he said it take time to love somebody,whats the problem you are here with me,.something happen between us already,and he work for computer company,downtown seattle,he is only 26 and im 20,and we did make love without any protection and he told me he is not ready for baby,how come if i get pregnant then?he is really nice to me,and he is verry honest person,my question is,if i get pregnant what do u think he will do?or say? thought he never told me that he love me,if im here with him,do i have the right to get jelouse to those women who calling him?from another states?coz honestly it hurt me a lot but i just dont say anything,If he say he care for you,does it mean he love you?
    Ok well first of all i wouldnt get pregnant! especially if your thinking that that will help him speed up his feelings as much as you want to try anything to get him to open up thats the number one reason to NOT do it! like he said, it takes time to love someone..trust me i know! If he says he cares about you he may just care about you, but then you have to think, HOW MUCH DOES HE CARE!?! if he really cared about you he wouldnt be putting you through all sorts or pain and confusion..i suggest that you leave his house and start moving on..only then will you realize if he really loves you or not...if he really does love and care about you, he'll be back and if not well you have already started the serperation process, but you need to make the decision dont let him make it for you because we all know that men would prefer TWO BETTER THAN ONE!! hope this helps!If he say he care for you,does it mean he love you?
    WELL FIRST OF ALL U SHOULDNT B DOIN NUTN WITH HIM IF HE DONT LOVE YOU AND IF HE DONT WANT A BABY!! U CAN DO BETTER...I MEAN IF HE WANTS TO BE WITH THOSE OTHER WOMEN THEN LET HIM-EVENTUALLY HE'LL START MISSIN YA! AND JUS BC U GIVE SOME1 UR HEART DOESNT MEAN THAT UR GOIN TO GET THIER'S IN RETURN
    there is a difference between caring and love. maybe he's just not ready to say i love you! and why didn't you use protection? there's more than babies at stake, there are many, many STD's you have to protect yourself from and in today's world you just can't take anyone's word that they're clean. protect yourself! best of luck
    no it doesnt mean he loves you
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