thank youHow can you make your boyfriend to actually fall in love with you?
Sorry, but you really can't MAKE anyone love you.
Sunday, 21 November 2010
How can you make your boyfriend to actually fall in love with you?
and make him want you more and more ?
thank youHow can you make your boyfriend to actually fall in love with you?
Sorry, but you really can't MAKE anyone love you.private rental homes
thank youHow can you make your boyfriend to actually fall in love with you?
Sorry, but you really can't MAKE anyone love you.
When the love is gone? I have been married almost 6 yrs,,when I met my husband I was crazy about him,,?
Then he changed and fast,,he became mean and never home,,and very very distant. I did file for divorce because my kids and I had had enough. However I did dismiss the divorce because he said he would change and see help. He did for a while,,,but now my heart is not in love with him anymore,,,why did this happen? Has anyone else been through this. I have tried to rekindle the love,,,but i cant. I dont know how to make myself love him again. I dont want to see him hurt,,,but I am so unhappy and so not in love with him anymore,,,I had been through 5 years of hell with him and his mom,,they were so mean to me and would put me down infront of my kids and everyone around them. But I have tried to get over all the hurt and try to love him again,,,Is this normal to fall out of love? even if you really tried to fall back in love and cant?
I am not a mean person at all and dont want to hurt him. Has this happened to anyone? To go through 5 years of true hell is so hard to forget.When the love is gone? I have been married almost 6 yrs,,when I met my husband I was crazy about him,,?
A true marriage has to have love, otherwise it is just a piece of paper.
What you did happens more often than you think, I did the same thing not once, but twice. I am a slow learner in relationships.
Be the adult you are, pack, move out and file for divorce, and get the divorce. You know you are in a destructive relationship and you are wasting time thinking he will change for the better.When the love is gone? I have been married almost 6 yrs,,when I met my husband I was crazy about him,,?
I think you should try marriage counselling together that might help you work through why you can't love him anymore.
You have to decide, either i say and go on living like this or take a big step and move out. Getting a divorce is tuff, but life with no love sucks.
its never gone, take a vacation together. its still there!!
It is so easy to forgive...the forget part is the problem. It is possible to fall out of love with somebody who has treated you like dirt over and over again. (even if they do change) Because we can't control what our minds think (I know some ppl will probably disagree with me on that but when I ask you, what color the grass is, green comes to mind and you can't trick your mind into thinking something different even if you know the question is coming) I know it is hard but if you stay you are only going to make yourself even more miserable. I wish you luck sweetie! Do what is in the best interest of you and your children.
Maybe he is going through something. Six years is not a long time. Yes people do fall in and out of love but that is why the vows say for better and for worse. Unless there is abuse or infedelity, divorce is not an option. Try couples counseling.
If you want to love your husband again, you need to understand what he truly needs to be happy. Then... give it to him. ';Being in love'; means giving. The more you give, the more you will love.
When you say you don't love him anymore, what you are really saying is that you don't want to give to him anymore. The way to change this is by making yourself give to him, eventhough you don't feel like it.
When someone does something special for you and you get that warm fuzzy feeling... that feeling is called appreciation, not love. The person on the giving end is feeling the love.
Peace in your home is not going to exist through a lack of problems but a multitude of solutions.
You and your husband need to communicate your needs to eachother and force yourselves to give to the other. Love is the joy resulting for the act of giving. This has to be done by both of you for it to work.
Don't try to make him happy ! He put YOU through hell ! (your own words ). Getting back together will NOT bring back the love ! Find someone who loves you AND your kids ,and gives ALL of you the respect youns deserve ! You have tried . It is NOT your fault ! But unfortunately ........ you CANNOT change someone else , unless they want it as badly as you do , and seek help on their own , because THEY want to , not because YOU want them to ! Until then , stay away from him ! Your kids (and you ) don't need to be subjected to that ! They may grow up thinking it is NORMAL to treat a woman like that , because '; MOMMY '; let him stay ! Run ! Run as fast as you can , and don't look back ! It'll be ok ! Good luck !
You sound like me. My ex and I were married for 6 years before we were divorced. That's been almost 2 years ago. He never cheated, I never cheated, We would fight over the craziest things, we just grew apart... I often wonder (to this day) how much different my life would be if i would have stayed. Divorce is the hardest thing I have ever been through in my life. Now, the only thing I miss is being married, It tears the kids lives into. I think things were not really that bad... I guess you take yourself out of a situation, it's better to weigh out the pros and cons.
Here are some things for you to try.
1. Make a list of things you love about other
2. Make a list of things you would like to see changed
3. GO OUT WITHOUT THE KIDS, this one is vital
4. Never talk about things when you are angry BUT.
5. Never go to bed angry with the other, that is what will kill your marriage.
After all the hurt that you've been through behind your husband and his mother, it's a wonder your still around.
For five years you took the abuse and now you are ready to put this all behind you and move on, which is very good for you. But whatever decision you make, PLEASE pull yourself up from all the mental abuse that your husband put you through so you can heal and become complete.
Good luck.
I am not a mean person at all and dont want to hurt him. Has this happened to anyone? To go through 5 years of true hell is so hard to forget.When the love is gone? I have been married almost 6 yrs,,when I met my husband I was crazy about him,,?
A true marriage has to have love, otherwise it is just a piece of paper.
What you did happens more often than you think, I did the same thing not once, but twice. I am a slow learner in relationships.
Be the adult you are, pack, move out and file for divorce, and get the divorce. You know you are in a destructive relationship and you are wasting time thinking he will change for the better.When the love is gone? I have been married almost 6 yrs,,when I met my husband I was crazy about him,,?
I think you should try marriage counselling together that might help you work through why you can't love him anymore.
You have to decide, either i say and go on living like this or take a big step and move out. Getting a divorce is tuff, but life with no love sucks.
its never gone, take a vacation together. its still there!!
It is so easy to forgive...the forget part is the problem. It is possible to fall out of love with somebody who has treated you like dirt over and over again. (even if they do change) Because we can't control what our minds think (I know some ppl will probably disagree with me on that but when I ask you, what color the grass is, green comes to mind and you can't trick your mind into thinking something different even if you know the question is coming) I know it is hard but if you stay you are only going to make yourself even more miserable. I wish you luck sweetie! Do what is in the best interest of you and your children.
Maybe he is going through something. Six years is not a long time. Yes people do fall in and out of love but that is why the vows say for better and for worse. Unless there is abuse or infedelity, divorce is not an option. Try couples counseling.
If you want to love your husband again, you need to understand what he truly needs to be happy. Then... give it to him. ';Being in love'; means giving. The more you give, the more you will love.
When you say you don't love him anymore, what you are really saying is that you don't want to give to him anymore. The way to change this is by making yourself give to him, eventhough you don't feel like it.
When someone does something special for you and you get that warm fuzzy feeling... that feeling is called appreciation, not love. The person on the giving end is feeling the love.
Peace in your home is not going to exist through a lack of problems but a multitude of solutions.
You and your husband need to communicate your needs to eachother and force yourselves to give to the other. Love is the joy resulting for the act of giving. This has to be done by both of you for it to work.
Don't try to make him happy ! He put YOU through hell ! (your own words ). Getting back together will NOT bring back the love ! Find someone who loves you AND your kids ,and gives ALL of you the respect youns deserve ! You have tried . It is NOT your fault ! But unfortunately ........ you CANNOT change someone else , unless they want it as badly as you do , and seek help on their own , because THEY want to , not because YOU want them to ! Until then , stay away from him ! Your kids (and you ) don't need to be subjected to that ! They may grow up thinking it is NORMAL to treat a woman like that , because '; MOMMY '; let him stay ! Run ! Run as fast as you can , and don't look back ! It'll be ok ! Good luck !
You sound like me. My ex and I were married for 6 years before we were divorced. That's been almost 2 years ago. He never cheated, I never cheated, We would fight over the craziest things, we just grew apart... I often wonder (to this day) how much different my life would be if i would have stayed. Divorce is the hardest thing I have ever been through in my life. Now, the only thing I miss is being married, It tears the kids lives into. I think things were not really that bad... I guess you take yourself out of a situation, it's better to weigh out the pros and cons.
Here are some things for you to try.
1. Make a list of things you love about other
2. Make a list of things you would like to see changed
3. GO OUT WITHOUT THE KIDS, this one is vital
4. Never talk about things when you are angry BUT.
5. Never go to bed angry with the other, that is what will kill your marriage.
After all the hurt that you've been through behind your husband and his mother, it's a wonder your still around.
For five years you took the abuse and now you are ready to put this all behind you and move on, which is very good for you. But whatever decision you make, PLEASE pull yourself up from all the mental abuse that your husband put you through so you can heal and become complete.
Good luck.
Help! please read . how do u make your ex fall out of love with his current gf and fall for you.?
we broke up cuz we were arguing bout his ex . well they are goiing out now and i really care about him. i know he still cares about me. they say they are inlove but my heart still won,t give up. i still have faith. his gf don,t even let him talk to me. he is leavin in three months to the navy. something tell me dat girl won,t stick around for fours while he is in the navy. well. whut should i do.Help! please read . how do u make your ex fall out of love with his current gf and fall for you.?
Depression can rob you of sleep, appetite, thinking clearly, making mistakes, and you could possibly start to feel as if you are worthless. Nothing could be further from the truth. First of all...ya have me. I am here and of course you have an army of people all over the world who are on your side and are willing to help you anyway we can whether it be advice, posting comments, or just a simple hello can sometimes make a big difference in someone's life.
I am a very firm believer of NC. When I say NC...I mean COMPLETE NC. NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER.
Here's why:
If you have been dumped it is typically about the following:
1. Arguing to much
2. Maturity level (to young for a serious relationship)
3. Someone else came along
4. ';Need Space';
5. An ex came BACK in the picture
6. Money
7. Someone cheated on you or vice versa
8. You were not what they hoped for in the first place.
9. Pregnancy
I am sure there are several more but I wanted a quick list.
When an ex breaks up with you, what are they initially saying? They are saying I do not want to date you anymore. They are telling you THEIR rules. They are telling you sometimes ';We can still be friends';. I agree with this last statement BUT only after a certain amount of time has been given. How much time? You can determine this time by asking yourself this question. ';Could I handle seeing my ex with someone new?'; If not....wait..if so, you're going to be fine.
My idea of NC is give the ex EXACTLY what they asked for. They want to breakup...no problem. You're not playing a game. You are not worth dating anymore but we can still hang out? What is THAT about!
You need to stand up for yourself (even though it hurts so much) an realize you are somone that deserves respect and if you don't want to love me or even if you say love me...its by YOUR rules not mine. That is a selfish love. Saying you love someone and showing no love is cruel. It sets expectation on those who NOW expect to BE loved.
Give them what they asked for NOT what they want. You may not like the idea of NC. I understand that feeling. I know the feelin in your stomach that makes you want call them or just hear their voice. I have been there. I am an advocate AGAINST the common mistakes because I have done them all.
Everyone situation is different. There is no magic formula for success but you can increase your odds with an ex ONLY after you get yourself together. Calling an ex begging to take you back is NOT SEXY...it is not the impression you want to give either. What IS attractive is self confidence. Pick your chin off the floor and stop moping around waiting for the phone to ring. Ever watched a pot of water boil...it never does unless you walk away. (Figure of speak- a watched pot never boils) This applies EXACTLY the same. When you learn to LET GO of the expectation of getting your ex back it is USUALLY the same time they walk back in your life.
If you hold a wet bar of soap too tightly, what happens? It slips out of your hand.
Think about the above analogy very carefully. If you hold on to your ex too tightly...
I am not however saying to forget your ex. I am saying to shift the gears in reverse and concentrate on YOU. YOU are the one that matters right now. The ball is in your court. Work out...take up a class, read a book, learn to cook..etc etc. Stop wasting valuable time sulking about something you have NO CONTROL over. You do have control over YOU.
If you obsess about your ex, what good comes from it? What does it do to make you feel better about yourself? Absolutely NOTHING. Let me make this perfectly clear, you may feel worthless or depressed but you need to get off your hiney and go to the mirror and look at youself and say ';I deserve better, I am someone, You may not love me but I love myself and THAT is what matters.';
It's ok to feel heartbroken and down. Those are typical feelings and are very natural and needed for the healing process to start. What is NOT natural is process this to go on for months, even years.
The question that I get the most is ';How do I get my ex back';...as well as ';How can NC get my lover back?';..
The answer is...
THERE IS NO ANSWER..... Several factors have to come into play for this to work. Love is a 1 in 4 chance. for example:
1. If I love you and you don't love me - Won't work
2. You love me and I don't love you - Won't work
3. We both do not love one another - Won't work
4. We both love one another - Could work
Notice I did not say WILL work. It is possible to get an ex back. Absolutely. But sometimes there is resentment of hard feeling especially if they were with another while you were apart. It will take alot of mutual understanding and communication between both parties.
I got my ex back when I realized I didn't need her. I finally realized that I could be happy with or wthout her and I SHOWED IT THROUGH NC.
The key is not TELLING SOMEONE ';I think we should do NO CONTACT';.... JUST DO IT. CUT THEM OFF out of the blue. Wait until you are ready.
By doing this, you are DEMONSTRATING instead of TALKING.
Talk is cheap..we all know this. ';I will change';...';It will be different';.... Talking right after a breakup is really NOT a good idea because someone is hurting (if not both parties) and things can be said that could hurt your future chances of opening the door again.
By following NC and working on yourself....simple enough ';YOU HEAL'; and become stronger. Learn from your mistakes...
Life is waaaaay to short to be upset or depressed. Now get up and BE SOMEBODY...BE SOMEBODY for the rest of your life.
You can get through this...I did and I am here if you need me.
-Your friend,
SuperDave71Help! please read . how do u make your ex fall out of love with his current gf and fall for you.?
You probably shouldn't interfere with their relationship, since it would be wrong to do such. I'm not sayin you shouldn't be friends with him, but don't try to break them up. If he really wants to fall back in love with you, I think you would know by the way he would act towards you.
The new girl doesn't have any type of hold on him he likes her and if he felt different he would do different. Start loving yourself.
Superdave I like your answer... Im not at level 2, so i couldnt give you a thumbs up, but I would if I could :)
Depression can rob you of sleep, appetite, thinking clearly, making mistakes, and you could possibly start to feel as if you are worthless. Nothing could be further from the truth. First of all...ya have me. I am here and of course you have an army of people all over the world who are on your side and are willing to help you anyway we can whether it be advice, posting comments, or just a simple hello can sometimes make a big difference in someone's life.
I am a very firm believer of NC. When I say NC...I mean COMPLETE NC. NO CONTACT WHATSOEVER.
Here's why:
If you have been dumped it is typically about the following:
1. Arguing to much
2. Maturity level (to young for a serious relationship)
3. Someone else came along
4. ';Need Space';
5. An ex came BACK in the picture
6. Money
7. Someone cheated on you or vice versa
8. You were not what they hoped for in the first place.
9. Pregnancy
I am sure there are several more but I wanted a quick list.
When an ex breaks up with you, what are they initially saying? They are saying I do not want to date you anymore. They are telling you THEIR rules. They are telling you sometimes ';We can still be friends';. I agree with this last statement BUT only after a certain amount of time has been given. How much time? You can determine this time by asking yourself this question. ';Could I handle seeing my ex with someone new?'; If not....wait..if so, you're going to be fine.
My idea of NC is give the ex EXACTLY what they asked for. They want to breakup...no problem. You're not playing a game. You are not worth dating anymore but we can still hang out? What is THAT about!
You need to stand up for yourself (even though it hurts so much) an realize you are somone that deserves respect and if you don't want to love me or even if you say love me...its by YOUR rules not mine. That is a selfish love. Saying you love someone and showing no love is cruel. It sets expectation on those who NOW expect to BE loved.
Give them what they asked for NOT what they want. You may not like the idea of NC. I understand that feeling. I know the feelin in your stomach that makes you want call them or just hear their voice. I have been there. I am an advocate AGAINST the common mistakes because I have done them all.
Everyone situation is different. There is no magic formula for success but you can increase your odds with an ex ONLY after you get yourself together. Calling an ex begging to take you back is NOT SEXY...it is not the impression you want to give either. What IS attractive is self confidence. Pick your chin off the floor and stop moping around waiting for the phone to ring. Ever watched a pot of water boil...it never does unless you walk away. (Figure of speak- a watched pot never boils) This applies EXACTLY the same. When you learn to LET GO of the expectation of getting your ex back it is USUALLY the same time they walk back in your life.
If you hold a wet bar of soap too tightly, what happens? It slips out of your hand.
Think about the above analogy very carefully. If you hold on to your ex too tightly...
I am not however saying to forget your ex. I am saying to shift the gears in reverse and concentrate on YOU. YOU are the one that matters right now. The ball is in your court. Work out...take up a class, read a book, learn to cook..etc etc. Stop wasting valuable time sulking about something you have NO CONTROL over. You do have control over YOU.
If you obsess about your ex, what good comes from it? What does it do to make you feel better about yourself? Absolutely NOTHING. Let me make this perfectly clear, you may feel worthless or depressed but you need to get off your hiney and go to the mirror and look at youself and say ';I deserve better, I am someone, You may not love me but I love myself and THAT is what matters.';
It's ok to feel heartbroken and down. Those are typical feelings and are very natural and needed for the healing process to start. What is NOT natural is process this to go on for months, even years.
The question that I get the most is ';How do I get my ex back';...as well as ';How can NC get my lover back?';..
The answer is...
THERE IS NO ANSWER..... Several factors have to come into play for this to work. Love is a 1 in 4 chance. for example:
1. If I love you and you don't love me - Won't work
2. You love me and I don't love you - Won't work
3. We both do not love one another - Won't work
4. We both love one another - Could work
Notice I did not say WILL work. It is possible to get an ex back. Absolutely. But sometimes there is resentment of hard feeling especially if they were with another while you were apart. It will take alot of mutual understanding and communication between both parties.
I got my ex back when I realized I didn't need her. I finally realized that I could be happy with or wthout her and I SHOWED IT THROUGH NC.
The key is not TELLING SOMEONE ';I think we should do NO CONTACT';.... JUST DO IT. CUT THEM OFF out of the blue. Wait until you are ready.
By doing this, you are DEMONSTRATING instead of TALKING.
Talk is cheap..we all know this. ';I will change';...';It will be different';.... Talking right after a breakup is really NOT a good idea because someone is hurting (if not both parties) and things can be said that could hurt your future chances of opening the door again.
By following NC and working on yourself....simple enough ';YOU HEAL'; and become stronger. Learn from your mistakes...
Life is waaaaay to short to be upset or depressed. Now get up and BE SOMEBODY...BE SOMEBODY for the rest of your life.
You can get through this...I did and I am here if you need me.
-Your friend,
SuperDave71Help! please read . how do u make your ex fall out of love with his current gf and fall for you.?
You probably shouldn't interfere with their relationship, since it would be wrong to do such. I'm not sayin you shouldn't be friends with him, but don't try to break them up. If he really wants to fall back in love with you, I think you would know by the way he would act towards you.
The new girl doesn't have any type of hold on him he likes her and if he felt different he would do different. Start loving yourself.
Superdave I like your answer... Im not at level 2, so i couldnt give you a thumbs up, but I would if I could :)
How Do I Make Him Love Me?
I've been dating this man for about a little over six months now. He is everything I've been looking for in a man. He's sweet, funny, intelligent, sexy, independent, successful, considerate, well mannered, and reliable. He's so romantic and sensual. He's very spontaneous and every time I see him, it looks like he just stepped off the cover of GQ. He's also very well endowed if you know what I mean! I have fallen head over heals for this man, but the only problem is he doesn't love me back. He claims to care for me a great deal, but he just doesn't love me. Its hurts to be in love with some one who doesn't feel the same way. He's a very cautious and methodical man so I know I can't try to rush him or anything. Any advice on how I should handle the situation or tips on how I can get into his heart would be greatly appreciated! He's a Pisces if that helps at all...How Do I Make Him Love Me?
Im a pisces, just be someone he can depend on and don't be emotional . You can not rush him or make him feel weird. It will only hinder his feelings for you. Just let things flow and he will come to love you and the wait will be worth while,How Do I Make Him Love Me?
Be yourself and he either will or he wont. Thats all you can do.
you can't - give it up - move on
Im a pisces, just be someone he can depend on and don't be emotional . You can not rush him or make him feel weird. It will only hinder his feelings for you. Just let things flow and he will come to love you and the wait will be worth while,How Do I Make Him Love Me?
Be yourself and he either will or he wont. Thats all you can do.
you can't - give it up - move on
How do you make a stubborn, unromantic guy fall in love with you?
I like him, and this is kind of a project...and I don't plan on making it a ';project'; where I hurt and toy with him...but I just need to know how to get him to fall for me and want to be my boyfriend! He just likes having sex...doesn't like girlfriends, and isn't very romantic..help!!!?How do you make a stubborn, unromantic guy fall in love with you?
well i say just be yourself! when i started dating my bf i thought all he wanted out of me was sex but when i told him that i wanted to wait until im married he said he was willin to wait with me!!! but like i said before...be yourself. if he falls in love with you, you would want him to fall in love with the real you and not a pretend you! i hope this helps! you can email me or im me if you need anything else!How do you make a stubborn, unromantic guy fall in love with you?
you're stupid for even considering. what has the world come to? have women lost all self esteem? be careful, because you're in for more than you bargain for. you sound like a silly woman. this guy is better off without you.
I don't honestly think you can. If that is his nature, he may not ever change.
It might just be best to pass on this ';project'; and move on to someone who can fall in love with you without having to be coerced.
You can't ';make'; anyone love you. It just doesn't work that way. If he's not interested in you, he's just not. I know it breaks your heart, but it happens alot and that's how it is.
If he's just into sex and isn't romantic, what would attract you to him anyway? It sounds like he's just into having a good time at other's expense, not real love. I'm sure there's much better guys out there for you.
this guy is a user. only just likes having sex...... wow! drop him like a hot cake, or next time he wants sex, say NO! and see what happens, if he walks away then he is not worth worrying about, if he says that not having sex with you is OK and he is prepared to wait until you are ready again then he may be worth trying for. some guys just like using girls for sex. they don't really care about them any other way. think about it, is he really worth all the trouble while in the meantime you could lose your self esteem or even worse. take care.
well i say just be yourself! when i started dating my bf i thought all he wanted out of me was sex but when i told him that i wanted to wait until im married he said he was willin to wait with me!!! but like i said before...be yourself. if he falls in love with you, you would want him to fall in love with the real you and not a pretend you! i hope this helps! you can email me or im me if you need anything else!How do you make a stubborn, unromantic guy fall in love with you?
you're stupid for even considering. what has the world come to? have women lost all self esteem? be careful, because you're in for more than you bargain for. you sound like a silly woman. this guy is better off without you.
I don't honestly think you can. If that is his nature, he may not ever change.
It might just be best to pass on this ';project'; and move on to someone who can fall in love with you without having to be coerced.
You can't ';make'; anyone love you. It just doesn't work that way. If he's not interested in you, he's just not. I know it breaks your heart, but it happens alot and that's how it is.
If he's just into sex and isn't romantic, what would attract you to him anyway? It sounds like he's just into having a good time at other's expense, not real love. I'm sure there's much better guys out there for you.
this guy is a user. only just likes having sex...... wow! drop him like a hot cake, or next time he wants sex, say NO! and see what happens, if he walks away then he is not worth worrying about, if he says that not having sex with you is OK and he is prepared to wait until you are ready again then he may be worth trying for. some guys just like using girls for sex. they don't really care about them any other way. think about it, is he really worth all the trouble while in the meantime you could lose your self esteem or even worse. take care.
Guys, what would make you fall deeply and madly in love with a girl?
Say there's a girl, and you two just clicked. You loved being around her and talking to her and spending time with her. She was the sweetes and nicest EVER, But one day she just stops it and she doesn't want to talk to you and she seems to truly hate you. How would you feel?
I'm the girl and I only did that because I fell for him and I had some issues. Idk if he ever found out, But it's been over a year and he still likes/is infatuated with me. How could that be? I hurt him SO MANY times. He's been rejected a lot too so it's DEFINITELY NOT the chase. And over half the girls in school want him. Then why after all this time does he still like me? I'm so confused, I need a guy's perspective!!!Guys, what would make you fall deeply and madly in love with a girl?
I'm not a guy but I've been in plenty of relationships to know, that when a guy still likes you after all the hurt you caused is because he sees something in you that you don't. There may be some personality trait that you have that he really likes, and you said that you guys just clicked, well that is hard to come by you don't often meet people who you click the moment you meet them so it's hard to let that go and he could possibly be in love with you so he doesn't see all the hurt you caused hence the saying ';love in blind';.
Any way If you want to be with him then be with him if not then you need to tell him straight up that you have moved on and hope that he does the same, no need to be rude take his feelings into consideration no-one deserved to be treating like crap! Guys, what would make you fall deeply and madly in love with a girl?
I would feel elated knowing that there are literally billions of women out there, then move on.
Life is too short to be worried about any woman you aren't married to.
(Answering your ';How would you feel'; question).
bad and mad
Maybe your thinking too highly of yourself.
Just a thought
I know I'm a girl but I would like to help. Even tho u put him down many times he still got back up. He loves you the way you are. Maybe your the only person for him.
I know how he feels, it will either pass, or he will have suicidal thoughts. He probably just can't get over you which means your either super hot or super cool.
Well the thing is when a guy really loves some one trully they want to be with them no matter what. I fell in love with an amazing girl and for the past three months shes treated me like crap and she flirts with other guys but no matter what she does or how mad i get at her i love her with all my heart.
If this guy loves you and you like him i wouldnt let him get away because guys like us are hard to find and i know if he loves you he will never do anything to hurt you.
a person who you like waking up too in the morning, the main point for living.
I'm the girl and I only did that because I fell for him and I had some issues. Idk if he ever found out, But it's been over a year and he still likes/is infatuated with me. How could that be? I hurt him SO MANY times. He's been rejected a lot too so it's DEFINITELY NOT the chase. And over half the girls in school want him. Then why after all this time does he still like me? I'm so confused, I need a guy's perspective!!!Guys, what would make you fall deeply and madly in love with a girl?
I'm not a guy but I've been in plenty of relationships to know, that when a guy still likes you after all the hurt you caused is because he sees something in you that you don't. There may be some personality trait that you have that he really likes, and you said that you guys just clicked, well that is hard to come by you don't often meet people who you click the moment you meet them so it's hard to let that go and he could possibly be in love with you so he doesn't see all the hurt you caused hence the saying ';love in blind';.
Any way If you want to be with him then be with him if not then you need to tell him straight up that you have moved on and hope that he does the same, no need to be rude take his feelings into consideration no-one deserved to be treating like crap! Guys, what would make you fall deeply and madly in love with a girl?
I would feel elated knowing that there are literally billions of women out there, then move on.
Life is too short to be worried about any woman you aren't married to.
(Answering your ';How would you feel'; question).
bad and mad
Maybe your thinking too highly of yourself.
Just a thought
I know I'm a girl but I would like to help. Even tho u put him down many times he still got back up. He loves you the way you are. Maybe your the only person for him.
I know how he feels, it will either pass, or he will have suicidal thoughts. He probably just can't get over you which means your either super hot or super cool.
Well the thing is when a guy really loves some one trully they want to be with them no matter what. I fell in love with an amazing girl and for the past three months shes treated me like crap and she flirts with other guys but no matter what she does or how mad i get at her i love her with all my heart.
If this guy loves you and you like him i wouldnt let him get away because guys like us are hard to find and i know if he loves you he will never do anything to hurt you.
a person who you like waking up too in the morning, the main point for living.
How do you get someone to fall back in love with you?
My bf was crazily in love with me and I love him like insane too but lately we've been having too many fights and that has made him disinterested and he behaves like he doesn't really care about me or this relationship. How do i make him fall back in love with me? I try my best to do whatever it takes to save this relationship coz i know he is the best guy i have ever met. its just that we're having a bad time and thats making him think this is not meant to be. how do i get him to be interested in me again?How do you get someone to fall back in love with you?
Well if he was crazy about you once before then chances are that he can be again.
What made him love you when you's first met? what it cause you were bubbly, smart, sexy?
You need to think back to those times to jog why he fell in love with you.
Bring up times that were funny that would get both of you's laughing again and remembering how in love you's were.
It could be because of a bad patch but it seems like you are the only one holding this relationship together, i know cause ive been there and its lonley. He may just be falling out of love with you and this happens all the time, even with people who have been together for 20 years end up getting horribly divorced.
IF that doesnt work out, try the old trick of making him miss you. leave him alone for a couple of weeks and less contact with him. This usually always has the guy running back to you. good luck on whatever you do :)How do you get someone to fall back in love with you?
getting someone to fall back in love is not something that you get on shopping centres, if it wud be like that there wud not have been so many mishaps in ths world from day 1. there wud not be people like laden or hitler or bush to go into history for hating mankind. so be as cool as u can b and say sorry to ur friend and yes where there is love there are tussles dont let them become wars. so go have a great life all the best
plan a date with him. ask him out like like it was your first date. start afresh.
go to a new and special place or go to an old and special place you havent been to in a long time.
make him feel special. get dressed up.
if you are living together, dont dress up in front of him. dress up somewhere else and appear before him like its ur first time.
and dont bring up ANYthing from the past. not even how special you guys USED to be. remember..its your first date :)
also, rem you can only try as much. for it to work, he has to work at it too. this is an effort you are going to make. but if he remains unresponsive after this too its probably time to have a talk. if he remains unresponsive dont be too desperate. let things take their own turn.
best of luck! hope it solves ur problem.
Well if he was crazy about you once before then chances are that he can be again.
What made him love you when you's first met? what it cause you were bubbly, smart, sexy?
You need to think back to those times to jog why he fell in love with you.
Bring up times that were funny that would get both of you's laughing again and remembering how in love you's were.
It could be because of a bad patch but it seems like you are the only one holding this relationship together, i know cause ive been there and its lonley. He may just be falling out of love with you and this happens all the time, even with people who have been together for 20 years end up getting horribly divorced.
IF that doesnt work out, try the old trick of making him miss you. leave him alone for a couple of weeks and less contact with him. This usually always has the guy running back to you. good luck on whatever you do :)How do you get someone to fall back in love with you?
getting someone to fall back in love is not something that you get on shopping centres, if it wud be like that there wud not have been so many mishaps in ths world from day 1. there wud not be people like laden or hitler or bush to go into history for hating mankind. so be as cool as u can b and say sorry to ur friend and yes where there is love there are tussles dont let them become wars. so go have a great life all the best
plan a date with him. ask him out like like it was your first date. start afresh.
go to a new and special place or go to an old and special place you havent been to in a long time.
make him feel special. get dressed up.
if you are living together, dont dress up in front of him. dress up somewhere else and appear before him like its ur first time.
and dont bring up ANYthing from the past. not even how special you guys USED to be. remember..its your first date :)
also, rem you can only try as much. for it to work, he has to work at it too. this is an effort you are going to make. but if he remains unresponsive after this too its probably time to have a talk. if he remains unresponsive dont be too desperate. let things take their own turn.
best of luck! hope it solves ur problem.
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