How Am I Going To Make Him Fall Head Over Heals Back In Love With ME?

My boyfriend and fiancee of 4 years recently told me he needed some space to figure out what he wanted in life. Immediatley he starts seeing someone he works with and worse even living with her! I see him on a weekley basis now and talk to him everyday on the phone. he tells me he still loves me and yesterday told me he was still IN love with me. I am so confused. But my thing is I want him to fall head over heels madley and deeply back in love with me that he will want to take me back right away, or atleast realize what hes missing. because if you ask me he really downgraded himself with this new chick. But how am I going to sweep him away in love? HELPHow Am I Going To Make Him Fall Head Over Heals Back In Love With ME?
You cannot force anyone to fall in love with you. Either he does or he doesn't. It's that simple.How Am I Going To Make Him Fall Head Over Heals Back In Love With ME?
Tell him you just inherited a billion dollars from your grandfather, if that doesn't get him to love you, then nothing will.
Hurts like hell, doesn't it?
You won't be able to make him fall heads over heals with you by chasing him. It sounds like you need to be loved and you feel that it is him that will make you feel loved. You feel dependant on him for your happiness. Instead, it is you who are responsible for your own happiness.



The best way I know of to make someone be interested in you is for you to take care of yourself. You need to learn how to be yourself on your own and to take care of yourself on your own. Begin to learn who you are, what your values are, and what you want out of life. What are your goals and dreams? Start living them. Are you physically and emotionally/spiritually healthy? Work on that. Learn how to be at peace with yourself and follow your dreams. A person who knows who they are is more attractive than a needy person. Right now, he doesn't see you for who you are. You are a substitute for his mommy with benefits.



This boyfriend is tagging you along. He wants to play the field and string you along. This needs to stop and you need to let him go. You deserve more respect than this and need to be treated better than this. You have value and you are worthy of respect. Buy a few new clothes, continue to eat right, get plenty of sleep, and start following your goals and dreams. Find healthy friends for support. Stop calling him and quit being clingy to him.



He won't realize what he is missing if he thinks he can have you at a drop of a dime. He will need to prove himself, leave this other person, and work on himself before you should even consider him coming back to you. Do you want this type of person to be the father of your children? Will he ever be committed for the long term?



If he were really your fiance then he would have married you by now. Four years is a long time for him to be your fiance. He isn't really serious and he really needs to grow up. He wants to play the field and he's been playing the field way before moving in with this other person. He's been using you and now doesn't know what he wants to do because he wants sex from her and the emotional support from you. This is kind of wrong don't you think?



The best way to let him know what he lost is for you to let him go. Again, take care of yourself and start following your dreams and values. If you don't know what those are then now is a good time to discover who you are. Otherwise, the next guy who comes along will be the same as this guy. You deserve more than this.



Take care of yourself.
ask him out and wish 4 the best
He is not worth it. He was probably two-timing you all along. Wash that man right out of your hair!
Maybe you should try to make him jelous, because i think thats what he's trying to do to you.
Girl, don't waste your time! He's a playa! If he was really still in 鈾?with you, he would be back in your arms. I know, the truth stings. But, there it is.
start dating other guys and , don't wait by the hone..He left you for another woman and moved in with her, forget him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Make? Make!

You make him do nothing.

Do YOU like control freaks?

He has to want to be around you.

Charm, listening, and caring.

YOU want.

Hmmmmmmm...
you cant make someone fall in love with you...its up to the other person
he is a cheater and he fot what he wanted for as long as he wanted it. Now he is doing another as long as he can and will move on to the next and the next and so on. Are you willing to put up with that?
wow this sounds bad. just say well if your so ';in love'; with me then why arent you still with me? i dont like being the other girl to you. if he really loves you he'll pick you over this new chick!if he doesn't its not the end of the world cus it just means he's not your true love and that somewhere out there another guy is just waiting for you to walk into his life!good luck and hope it turns out well !
Look, the key to being loved is being able to love yourself before you'll be able to wholeheartedly love someone else. When you are at the stage of still trying to get people to love you, actaully your not ready to give the 100% dedication that it takes to keep a realtionship going. first things first. Good Luck
You cant make him fall in love with you. But you cand give him the space he need right now and be there for him if he needs you if he truely loves you and its ment to be he will come back. maybe he's just confused at the moment. Im very sorry to hear that and i hope i helped somewhat
Make him Jealous with a Fake boyfriend,he will coming running back,but if he is sensitive dont do it!
try putting two ornamental ducks near your front door. Clear a space in your Chester drawers for his under ware. leave him space for his toiletries in the bathroom. and once a week do some visualizations lying in bed. close your eyes and imagine a man, not him neccesaryly but a man. soon the fung sui will start to work and you'll have a man in your life soon.



Thanks Martin
Well, you have three options here. #1 Find another guy and make him jealous.#2 Get over it and still find another guy. Or #3 Go shopping and get a tight tanktop, REALLY short and tight shorts, and some silver eyeshadow, pink lipgloss, and pink blush,
You can not ';make'; someone fall back in Love w/ u. You said he told you that he is in Love with you still. Someone that Loves someone would NOT put you through that. He needs to figure out what Love is. Your being a trooper about this because I would not be available to him as easy, so he does not get his cake and eat it to. Yes I would be hurt but I would be angry more than that. I think you should just let him know that you care but you refuse to have this kind of controversy in your life at this time because you are hurt. And let him know that your giving him the space he wanted, not being mean. And try your best to continue on your life.And what your absence does may help him decided he is losing someone who really cares. By all means be respectful, but just not so available to him. I wish ya Luck it must be hard.
Sweetheart, if he is living with someone else and telling you that he is still in love with you he is playing head games with two people. Sounds like he is being selfish wanting to have his cake and eat it to. Do you feel that poorly about yourself that you will let him walk all over you like that? You can't be a mat unless you lie down! There is a book called He's just not that into you. Read it and change your life and find someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated and then that will show him what he has lost. Stay strong and let him go and walk over someone else! your too good for him.
wow i see where he comeing from from what i read you act like your high and mighty your god gift to man i don't blame him at all i now need space after reading your post befor you can get him try comeing down to his world
You need to move on. He obviously is just not that into you. If he is LIVING with someone else what more do you need? Are you gonna wait on him forever? It was just not meant to be. Who knows maybe in a few years or a long time from now it could work out but he doesn't want to be with you right now. You just have to deal with it and forget about him. Why do you want to give him all the control? If he tells you he loves you again ask him ';why isn't he with you ?'; or ';you got a funny way of showing it.'; He will get the message that you don't want to listen to his crap. Don't be available and sit and wait for him to call. It sounds harsh but it is what's best for YOU. You can't just sit around wishing and hoping that one day he will fall deeply in love with you again. You can't wait and see what someone ELSE is going to do with YOUR life! I know this is hard to hear because I have been through some break ups and it is not easy. But you know deep down that this is right for you. I hope this helps.
It sounds like u love him. Let him go, as he will cheat on u. Thank God u did not marry him.......he would have been a life sentence or a divorce which no one needs. You may have a personal problem with rejection...which is common, get counselling if this is the case. When he tells u he is still in love with u, then why would he live with another girl. That's not love, he is stringing u along. You are too valuable to be mis-treated like that.



Blessings to u,



Daniel

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Deos it really hurt to you?

You should not like he anymore!!!!Because he say he love you but,he is not loving you!!!So forget he!!!!!!!!!!He is lie at you!!!!!!!!!
I am in your corner. To sweep him off his feet---wipe out the cash of all the accounts that are in both your names. Thats your money . Close all accounts--even the investments except for the IRA. Cancel the joint checking account and then cancel all credit cards. If he is living at her house --she can feed him. See an attorney to start garnishment of his pay check for your support and all the house hold expenses .. Close everything tomorrow --- beat him to the bank.



HE WILL DO IT TO YOU.



TRUST ME---JUST DO IT --GET CASH - YOU CAN BUY CERTIFIEID BANK CHECKS MADE IN YOUR NAME...



He might threaten you ---you go to the police file a violence report and get a RESTRAING ORDER.



Get him out of the house and get divorce papers filed immediately.



Tomorrow if you are tired --you should be ---lot of work for one day.



Forget all of this hokie love and emotion--survival of the most financially fit. Never let your friends hold the cash for safe keeping... You are an abused woman--get help after your divorce. Use his medical insurance or see your local bar tender and meet new new friends. Dating--use the personal adds on the computer---Yahoo Personals is wherer I found my Nancy I'll be 60 soon. Been divorced twice. Also, bought a motorcycle last year. Nancy (61) has her own bike and she said I would be a very loney man if I did not ride



Forgit him --if you have children keep the house make him pay for it.

Garnishment is temporary till you can get into see a judge for final disposition of the estate Five thousand dollars sounds like a fair correct amount every month ---HOWS THAT.



Good Luck

Jesus is watching over all of us. .
I'm so sorry to hear this. It sounds like this guy was messing around on you the whole time. Who knows what other women he's swooning with this love business. Get out and leave him alone.



4 years is a very long time, but cut your losses now. It's all for the best.