Friday 12 November 2010

Can you make youself love someone?

Can you make youself fall back in love with someone after absolutely NOTHING took it away....?!?!?!



I WANT to fall in love with him again. I want to be able to be romantic with him and I want to be head over heels again how can that happen....we've only been together for 6 months and it disappeared over night.....the night before I would have considered marrying him on the spot....Can you make youself love someone?
I think that everyone is going to say ';No, the love is gone.'; But I know from previous experience that you can ';learn'; to love soemone. I am sure that if it has happened overnight than this is probably nothing.



Maybe you just need some ';me'; time for a couple of days.



Good luck, I hope you find what you have lost... :O)Can you make youself love someone?
Seriously, if the love is gone, then it's time to move on.
Yes, but you cant make someone love you.
Don't force yourself on something you can't do.
i am not sure. maybe if you spent time with him and think of him as the only one for you. let him be the man of your dreams and mybe you will fall in love with him
Well,

You can't make yourself fall in love. There has to be an attraction. You can't force yourself to love someone because it's not up to you. It's up to your heart.
If it went away that fast then it wasn't real. If you have to make yourself love someone why waste either person's time. Allow them to find someone that won't lose love for them so fast and give yourself an opportunity to find someone that you don't have to force it with. From experience, trust your instinct the love disappered for a reason.
People fall in and out of love alot.. sometimes a marriage breaks down cos the couples get bored of each other.. things get too predictable and stuff.. and they take measures by talking and trying to spice up the marriage to regain the love they used to feel..



Others may just need time apart to re-evaluate.. perhaps that's what you need to do to decide if it's really love or you just enjoyed the moment of being with someone.
The answer to your ? depends heavily on how old you are. Hormones can be that absolutely nothing. And untreaded can do damage that may not be repairable. Good luck.
you cant MAKE yourself love someone. or MAKE anyone love you. period end of story
For you to fall back in love with this person is not hard for you to do. It would be him you would have to worry about him falling back in love with you. Been in this spot one time it was 8 years before i met anyone else.

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