Friday 19 November 2010

I know you cant make someone love you.. But if they used too, how do you make yourself someone to love?

My boyfriend and me arnt doing good at all.. He used to be so in love with me, I never fell out of love with him.. I always tell myself that ';You cant make someone love you. But you can be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.'; How do I do that? What are some little things I could do to show him?I know you cant make someone love you.. But if they used too, how do you make yourself someone to love?
If he has fallen out of love with you, that is that.

You can make yourself be a lovable person, but if he doesn't take the bait then it is time to move on and find someone who WILL love you.

Sorry to say that, I know it sucks.

You may just need to sit him down and talk to him and tell him to be honest. It's going to be hard, but it's better you know the truth than to go on like this.I know you cant make someone love you.. But if they used too, how do you make yourself someone to love?
well you cant make him love you again but you can be nice and friendly and supportive and stuff and become his friend. then maybe one day he could possibly start to love you again. there are no guarantees and he might never love you like he did but you can be his friend and he may come to think of you as a great friend which, i think, is better than nothing. :)
You just tell him how much he really means to you. Explain to him that what your love is like. I explained my love to my girl by saying our love is like the universe. Its eternal but still grows.
be nice


You can't make someone love you, you're right this might help though:

Remain interesting. Keep doing, seeing, learning new things. You don't want to become boring and uninformed.

Don't be too available. Make plans. We can't want what we have, he'll be likely to miss you if you have to cancel a few times.

Flirt subtly. Make eye contact, smile and look away.
Everybody can be loved by SOMEONE. But it's not always the person we want to love us.



He loved you (or said he did) for some reason in the beginning. What has changed about you since then? Probably nothing. People do fall out of infatuation.



Anybody can be loved by *somebody* just as they are. I don't think there is a way to manipulate someone else back into loving you, and if you need to control your own behavior to try and be what you think he wants, it will be at a great cost to you. It's not worth it.



If you love him, let him go. Someone will love you for you. Don't settle for anything less.




just give him some space?
You can't do anything. Either he loves you, or he doesn't.
Be understanding. Give him room. Don't force him to talk about why you two aren't doing good. Just be yourself, and if he wants to break up, act accordingly. He may see that he wants you back if you just give him breathing room and let him have some time. Give him freedom and let him do what he wants. If he loved you, act like you did when you two were in love, only without the romantic side of things.
you shouldnt try to change yourself for him. if you are doing all the things you were doing when you first started going out and he just doesnt feel the same anymore than you should let the relationship go. But if your acting differently, maybe less considerate, or maybe you both just got used to an easy relationship and you're not putting in as much effort. If thats the case then try to revive your relationship by doing little things for him that you know he'll appreciate like cooking his favorite food, or making an effort to do the things that he likes with him. Just show him that you care, and if he still doesnt fall back in love with you than there is nothing else you can do.

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