Tuesday 16 November 2010

Can you make a guy fall out of love with you?

Does anyone know how you can make a guy fall out of love with a woman when they are seriously in love with them!?!



Please let on your information



I've been going out with this guy for 8 months and i do love him but i have stronger feelings for my first love who i still love and talk to... the only reason my ex (first love) and i aren't together is cos i though my current bf would be better! but that turned out wrong... Help! Please!Can you make a guy fall out of love with you?
The same way you put a Cadillac up your nose. You don't.Can you make a guy fall out of love with you?
no u can't
I think you should be honest with him and just tell him because putting him through weeks of giving him the cold shoulder, or acting funny with him would just be a disgusting thing to do to someone.



If i were you i would stop being a coward and tell this bloke how you really feel. He may not like it but at least he would respect you for being up front.



Sorry if that sounded harsh but you did ask.



Just saw your updated bit, no one should ever keep you in a relationship through emotional blackmail, you are not this mans keeper. How he chooses to deal with the end of your relationship is entirely up to him and you should not feel guilty about it.
be honest with him huni, playing games is bad news when there are feelings involved.

If you cant do that stop shaving, pick your nose and fart in front of him plus get food around you mouth when you eat and make him pay for everything x
hmmm..the grass wasn't greener then... firstly be honest with this man, that's the best option, but don't be surprised if your first love doesn't want a relationship now, in his place i'd feel used
Just go bitchy and whiny. Pick fault with everything, nag him, stop having sex with him - and when he asks for it make out it's all he wants from you.



Then make a big deal about going out with your mates and if he complains, nag him about him trying to own you and that you're not his posession etc.



Then come home very drunk, very late more and more often, but moan at him any time he wants to do something with his friends - belittle his interests (e.g. if he likes football keep going on about what a stupid game it is and that he only watches it to get off on men hugging eachother in little shorts).



Pretend to be on the phone when he enters the room and go quiet when he comes in and hang up soon after.



Tell him he's boring whenever you're watching TV together so he thinks it's his fault you're not doing something more interactive, then snub any of his ideas to go out - ';you're made of money, are you?... oh a meal, how original! Yeah, great, let's go and drink at the pub again - I love watching you get drunk and act like a tw@t...'; etc.



He'll soon get fed up.
Pick your boogers and flick them at him!
Love is personal to every one.You cannot ';make'; another person fall out of love, as it is beyond your control!
no u cant. if the person doesnt wanna fall out of love with you then they wont
i totally agree with xje55iex !
Ugh, get out of it NOW. If a guy tells you he's going to kill himself that is a serious emotional manipulator and he will stick to you like glue. Nothing you do will make that change. Trust me I had that happen to me.

Guy actually did try to kill himself. Left it to me to save him. The most messed up thing anybody has ever done to me. For sure you can not have a healthy relationship with anybody who tries to make you like them by manipulating you. Tell him because of his threat you can not be with him. It's an unhealthy relationship and there's no fixing it. Don't give him any hope or promises of a relationship with you.

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