How can I make Him LOVE me?

I am a gay male, single

and I would like a long term relationship with somebody

but here is the problem

I know that he wants a boyfriend, and him and I have had sex twice already

but I am not sure how exactly I can make ACHE for me

because I must admit that there are times , especially if we don't talk for like a few days that I really ache for him

but I have control over myself, so it's alright



And it seems that I am always the one that has to talk to him

first

I am just wondering

how can I make him LOVE me

Because I want him to be my boyfriend and always want ot be with me



How can I get him to fall in LOVE with me?

To ache for me and constantly want to be with me



I know it's a hard question, but every answer is appreciated

except the stupid ones/



:D

thank you



How can I make Him LOVE me?
Love Potion No. 9.



Seriously, though, I don't think that you can make somebody love you. The best you can hope for is that he takes your love for granted and hides his feelings. This, however, is a very specific case, and you haven't said anything to indicate that this is what's happening.



Unrequited love is a maddening pain. Its best to put it behind you and attempt to move on. As time passes, you will find your self getting over it. Unfortunately, that time can be painfully slow at first. Take it one day at a time and find something else to give your day meaning, because the chances are that you're barking up the wrong tree. How can I make Him LOVE me?
You can't force anyone to love you. You could always just try asking him out.
try telling him all that. maybe he feels the same way but isnt brave enough to say it first. :)
Ask him out to the movies or something, try to spent more time with him.
Just be yourself. You can't force anyone to love you. It will happen if it's meant to be.
Honey, you can't make any one love you. If you could I would still be with my first love.



Be the best person you can be, show him who you are and hopefully he will see you and fall for you. He may not though. Like my grandmother once said, ';hope for the best and prepare for the worst.';



Good luck babe.
Like others have said, try doing some hanging out without the sex. Building a platonic relationship is the first step if you want him to ache for you on more than a sexual level.



I wish you luck!
Why would you wanna fall in love with someone that doesn't want to be in love with you? Think about it.
if you have already had sex twice, obviously he has an attraction of some sort to you.



if you are the one always talking to him, perhaps he just wants sex.

i could be wrong and he could be timid, inexperienced, lacking confidence or shy. but only you know him and if that could apply to him.



My advice to you is just to be yourself. Make an attempt to get to know him. invite him to do things that dont involve sex or going to clubs and drinking. If you guys are compatible, than after hanging out one on one and getting to know one another, he will naturally come around and express an interest in you. If you are not compatible beyond sex, than you will know that it was just based on sex and can move on and find another guy who is boyfriend material.
I am a gay 14 year old from canada, i knew this guy we grew up together since we were 3 and at the age of 11 i started to like him very much , i had feelings for him i could not explain, so at the age of 12 we spend almost every moment of the day together with that like feeling of one of us wanting eachother , so i asked him and told him the way i feel i told him that if he doesnt feel the same for me that its ok i can relax and dont have to hold it in no more , well, he had the same feelings and weve been a happy couple for 2 years and i love him till i die , i know some people are saying wow so young but my saying is '; LOVE SEE'S NO AGE OR GENDER';
deal is you cannot make anyone love you.. deal also is if he doesn't;t love you don't settle for less.. unless you can deal with a Friend with benefits or him hangin with you until hes found someone else then that's fine.. but don't put yourself thorough that... if you really care and love him tell him you want more and if he doesn't want the same them move on.. in the long run you will be much better off...it will be hard but so worth it when you find the one who really does love you back.. Hey best of luck.. I know hes out there...
umm... i would answer but i might be sick...