Sorry to break it to you but no matter what there will be pain.
The sooner you do it the less pain there is.
Just let him know that you don't think it's going to work.How do you make someone fall out of love with you?
picking your nose constantly will do the trick. just act like that's how you have to have it. when he's talking to you, pick your nose, when he's trying to kiss you, keep one finger firmly embedded in one nostril, pausing from time to time to visually ijnspect whatever detritus may have come out of there. clean your finger off on your jeans and go right back to it. he will fall directly out of love with you. no fuss, no muss.
Be honest.
Tell him its me not you
the classic.
Im not sure what kind of situation you are in, however I'd say to go with your heart.
You're gut instinct is your best bet and there will be hurt feelings, no one likes to be let down.
He sounds like he is really into and I hope that whatever you do you try to be gentle. Imagine it was him breaking it off with you if you were in love with him.
State the obvious, there's no question he has probably thought about the distance being a factor before. He might be just avoiding talking about it, because he knows it's coming soon. He might have already sensed the fact that you might want to break it off.
Ask yourself are you truly happy with breaking up with him?
Will it bring you self satisfaction because you know your relationship would not have gone any better even if you still lived together OR are you doing it because you know that the distance will be too hard on the both of you.
Im not sure what kind of situation you are in, however I'd say to go with your heart.
You're gut instinct is your best bet and there will be hurt feelings, no one likes to be let down.
He sounds like he is really into and I hope that whatever you do you try to be gentle. Imagine it was him breaking it off with you if you were in love with him.
Did you love him? Tell him that and say thats why you have to let him go, because your life apart will be so hard.
Goodluck.
:)
Wow does that sound familiar lol my x gf and i dated for over a year and were ';in love'; and she still talks to me and such and tells me she misses me from time to time but she also tells me she has no feelings for me but yet i still crave her attention and try to talk to her as much as i can i even have a current gf who ive been dating for awhile now but i would say theres really no way to let him down easy you just have to tell him ';im not in love with you i care about you but it wont work between us im sorry i still want to be friends and keep in touch tho'; if hes mature and really does care about you he`ll understand i know it happened to me haha.
(sry no punctuation or anything this is my first ever answer xP)
ok you probably won't like my answer, but just tell him that you do like him and would love to be friends but you don't think it will work out! Also act sad, if u do he will know that u don't wanna hurt him and that it is hard for you, and he will be ok! good luck!
There is nothing you can do to make him not love you, that won't hurt just as badly (or worse) than you just telling him the truth.
The guy who told you to cheat is wrong. Do you really think that will hurt LESS then breaking up with him?!?!
Almost impossible. You must be honest with him. Sit him down and explain to him why it won't work out. Do not drag this out our leave him questioning why it didn't work out.
I can't help but feel sorry for that guy hearing that. Nevertheless you have to do what's right.
Ask yourself. why wont it work and why do you like him.
any who you cant really do it painlessly. though it will be easier for him because he is a guy. I think if memory serves right, that men only have about 6 emotions and woman have about 14.
no way you can do it the easy way it just doesnt work that way
if you like him a lot, why break it off? also how do you know it wont work? anyway i would say to.... i dont know what you should do... :/ sorry.
But what a waste if you like him too!
There is no way. If he loves you, he loves you. You're gonna have to take the painful road and put yourself first. He'll get over it, in time.
No offense, but there's really no way u can break it to him completely painless. I think you should kindly tell him how you feel. He might get upset at first, but he'll get over it.
opposite of love is hate. Guys hate cheaters more then anything
kick him in the balls
by shoving ur boogers on their faces
what sven said
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