Sunday 14 November 2010

When the guy is really in love with you, would he prefer to make love to you than having wild sex with you?

If your boyfriend wants to have all those dirty, rough, wild, and adventurous sex (like you see in porn films) with you most of the time, does it mean he's not in love with you that he's only lusting for you?



When I was in a relationship with my previous boyfriend, we had dirty, wild, and adventurous sex (that is kind of like what you see in porn films) almost every time. Then he dumped me after he met the girl of his dreams, the girl he fell in love with. He told me when he got together with her, he made love to her (like what you see in soaps or romance films) most of the time. He said he was very sorry for not respecting me that I didn't turn out to be the girl he was in love with. He thought he was in love with me, but he wasn't.



Two years after he broke up with me, I met someone I fell in love with. And I wanted him to make love to me than having all those wild or adventurous sex.



Now I'm just curious how would a guy have sex with you if he was really in love with you?When the guy is really in love with you, would he prefer to make love to you than having wild sex with you?
It all depends on the guy and the girl, I'm sorry to say but you're not going to find the right answer or even the one you're looking for. Sometimes a guy will show you he loves you with handcuffs and a paddle, sometimes a guy will show you he loves you by making sweet love to you and then snuggling afterwards, and sometimes he'll do both. It all depends on the relationship and the people involved. If your ideal guy makes love to you then find that guy. But don't be offended if most of the guys you date and or sleep with are into the fantastically wild porn sex, it's their version of a fantasy and if you let them act it out all the time they're going to.



Best answer is to simply talk to your guy about it, if he loves you rather than lusts for you, he'll gladly do it to make you happy. Because as a guy he (and I) just won't get it unless you say it, we can't guess and we won't go out of the way if we don't know what out of the way is.When the guy is really in love with you, would he prefer to make love to you than having wild sex with you?
to be honest, i think the guy just wants to test lot of position to you and not really wanted to make love with you, he just wants to experiment sorry for me i dont think he does it for love or anything but for fun and pleasure.. and he took advantage about everything because ur his gf..

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I was with my ex boyfriend for five years and we did it every possible way imaginable. Rough, passionate, kinky, slowly...I don't really think it's about in love or what not. I've had sex with guys who I'm pretty sure were not in love with me and they still were sensual and cuddly. I think it's more of a preference. As for me, even if a guy is madly in love with me...its rough dirty sex all the way. ;)
a bit of both i think, depends on the mood, keep wild adventuras sex spontanious, ask what his fantasies are and every now and then uprise him, you should make ';love'; more often than wild sex
take your time with guys they really want to see if you would make them wait to get what they really want that is when guys have to chase their prize.
It definitely depends on the guy. Sure, a few guys like making love sometimes, but most guys want some wild sex! It also depends on the mood, etc.



Sex doesn't determine love.
well me an my gf have wild sex* ( yes like in porn) but i still love her with all my heart... i also made love to her so i guess we vary... and i think if it was jut wild porn sex then it was nuthing but lust
basicly he loves your body not you your body he doest care about whats inside he care about whats out side
I completely agree with strawberry, it's personal preference...also remember that a man who is in love likes having sex with his woman...

just analize how YOU like it (it is not clear in your story) and, next time, try to dialogue with your partner and tell him what you like and what you don't...
Prefer love with %26amp; then depends on ur response.
It doesn't matter what kind of sex you have.

As long as you're not doing it with half the neighborhood and his father. Just sit back and enjoy the ride cowgirl.

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