Sunday 14 November 2010

How do I fall in love with him?

There are millions of questions on how to make a guy fall in love with you, but mine is the other way around. There is this absolutely amazing guy who treats me better than anyone else i know and is in love with me and I want desperately to love him back, but I just don't. He is like my best friend and I can't make myself go to a romantic level. I know that I am hurting him, and he deserves so much more, so how do I fall in love with him?How do I fall in love with him?
you cant force your heart to love someone. no matter how perfect he may be and no matter how much you want to love him it wont happen. if you try to force yourself you will just end up being unhappy. and it wont be fair to you or to him.How do I fall in love with him?
You can't help it. Don't feel bad or try to force it. That will make it worse.
if u dont love him now, u never will. u cant make yourself fall in love with him, its impossible and the relationship will never work out.
you can't force it. just don't lead him on, its not fair as he will be he one who gets hurt not you.
Hunny, you cant make your self love someone. I know it sucks that he seems perfect. But you cant force yourself to love him. Hes just not the one for you.
Sounds like you're on the right track. Just stay around him and eventually it should happen. If it doesn't eventually happen, then it probably won't.
honestly you can`t really

make yourself like him..

as much as you may want

to..because in the end..

you`ll just realize that the

feeling is not really there

and you were just kidding

yourself all along + it will

end up hurting both you

and him...soo just tell him

that you don`t feel the same

way he does about you...

i mean you`re being honest

with him. he should understand

especially since he is your

best friend..by telling him the

truth..you`ll be helping him +

yourself as well. he will be able

to find other girls out there who

will be able to reciprocate those

feelings and you won`t be stuck

in a dilemma like this. just tell him
idk, i guess he's jus not the one for you if you don't fall in love w/ him! you don't need to try to love him if you really don't, even though he may be awesomely sweet, i don't think he's the guy for you.( you have not wanted to read this)
because that the one your heart want you to fall for
I hate to say it and I don't think I am helping at all but you cannot force love. Love is not something you can manipulate, you just know once you have it. I am sorry and I hope you can work things out.
When u have to force love upon yourself it isn't real I felt the same way at one point but I just kept on telling him I loved him until I started believing it myself
you can't, listen do not try to fall in love with him and if you are worried about hurting then don't. Next you need to stop contact with hm because you think of him as a friend and nothing more but he wants more and that will always be on the two of you's mind. Then maybe after you stop your contact with him maybe you'll come to find that you loved him back all along. trust me i am a guy if you stay friends with him then he will think you have a little feelingsfor him and he will always try to hook up with you or think about it.
YO0U CANT MAKE YOURE SELF FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE MAYBE HE ISNT THE ONE FOR YOU HONEY SORRY TO SAY TELL HIM AND HE WILL EVENTUALLY UNDERSTAND AND TRY TO GET OVER IT YOU CANT DO ANYTHING UNLESS YOU FELL IT SORRY TO SAY I WISH WE CAN THEN I WOULD OF NEVER BROKE UP WITH MY EX



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If he treats you better than anyone, you don't have to love him. You may not love him now, but just think about why you don't love him. If you have no reason at all, well, then, you're pretty much on your own. You can't explain love, but if he treats you better than anyone and you say he's amazing and you want to love him back because you know that you're hurting him, what makes you think you don't love him? You seem to care a lot about him. Let that slowly turn into love-- trust me, it'll happen.
what do you mean? you're already in love with him. If the both of you are okay to go to the next level so be it!.

You guys are just wasting your time. You could be having an endless summer, watching sunsets together, enjoy each other company, feed each others ice cream *sigh*

What are you doing standing there?! go on, go for it girlfriend!
THERE IS NO RECIPE



IF YOUR HART HASN'T FALL FOR HIM YET

IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN



YOU DONT HAVE TO WARY LIKE THIS.



WITH TIME HE IS GOING TO BE OKAY

BUT YOU HAVE TO MOVE AWAY FROM HIM

BECAUSE BY STAYING CLOSE TO HIM YOU GIVING HIM FALSE HOPES/AND HE CANT MOVE ON



SO IF YOU CARE ABOUT HIM??? BRAKE AWAY.
hard to say. it may be that you have become conditioned by society standards and this guy just doesn't do it for you. perhaps, his kindness is so brotherly that romantic feelings just seem voided. you really need to ask yourself why you don't have those feelings. some women mistake conflict with passion--are drawn to drama--things have the illusion of ';romance.'; i can't say. perhaps he just seems too passive--always making himself available to you--more like a girlfriend? if you don't have those feelings, don't try to force it. you will both regret it. it will hurt alot more when you do start having those feelings--but for someone else.
Guys like this are like pairs of shoes. You get one as a present, but you don't like them all that much. You try them on anyway, and after awhile everything comes clear. You either decide they don't feel right (but you still like them because someone gave them to you) or you absolutley love them.



In case you don't get my super cool simile, this is what I mean... IF he asks you out, say yes! You don't have to love him, just try him out like a pair of shoes. You never know for sure until you try. If you decide you don't like him in that way after awhile, then just kinda... fade out of the relationship. Tell him you just wanna be BFFs, and that you are REALLY sorry and all that sobby stuff. If you cry, that will make him understand even more, and you two will continue to be buddies. Good luck!
If you don't feel anything for him how do you expect to make yourself fall in love? It won't work.
weeeeeeeeeeeel you cant make yourself. mabey if you saw him naked lol. but seriously i dont think you can because i have the same prob but with a girl. she is freakin obsesed with me and i think shes so HOT but ive know her for 8 years. im only 14 but i think i know where your comin from. you need to be honest with him and tell him to find another woman. if you dont love him then u dont simple as that.

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